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Archived questions from: 20 May, 2009 (see latest in Teenage category)

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Teenage: Help and advice

I want to sleep with my aunt

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5567 days ago

20 May 2009 (M) - okay i think im weird.i'll explain. I have an antie she's 17 im 16 ( long story) anyway, i think she's fit and i get turned on by her I stayed at hers whilst she wa on holiday and in her room, i found loads of dirty bra's and knickers and wel...

Fine line between love and hate?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5693 days ago

20 May 2009 (M) - right, there a girl at my schols says she dont like me, and i'm okay with that dont like her either, although she is fit, we've spoke now and again, anyway she's aways telling people that she dont like me, Why's she always talking about me if she ...

I really like this guy and just wanna know how to do the whole kissing process.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5693 days ago

20 May 2009 (F) - Okay you guys so, me and my bf have been dating for 3 months now and we haven't kissed or anything. So tommorrow is the last day of school and i really want to do it but idk like how to you know get him close enough to kiss him. And also I've never ...

Pregnant and scared...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5693 days ago

20 May 2009 (F) - Hi. well basicly im 17, living in the UK and im not going to be all dramatic and cry at you, because its my fault im in this mess and whats happened cannot be changed. i was with my boyfriend for 2 years and a month. ill admit, im still madly in ...

Do guys like tall women?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5219 days ago

20 May 2009 (F) - Im majorly tall, as in over 6ft (6ft 3 to be exact). i cant seem to find any guys taller than me who are at all attractive to me, and i worry that im not attractive to anyone else. I always feel out of place in any public place, and people stare at ...

I need some help with my situation please

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5690 days ago

20 May 2009 (F) - Hi I hope someone can help x This boy likes me , I like him back , but he has a gf , and I feel like I'm waiting untill they break up what should I do to help the situation ? Also when they do break up , another boy likes me but it's like he has a...

He was a manwhore..do you think he still is?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5693 days ago

20 May 2009 (F) - hey there!, Well there is this guy i dated back a few months ago and well we broke up cuz he lives 2 hours away but now he is moving down soon, well he was sorta a man whore in 8th grade and now hes in 9th and he told me he isnt like that anymore ...

He finds the whole "liking thing" awkward

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5694 days ago

20 May 2009 (F) - well let me cut the story short i feel in love with one of my closest guy mates. Well everyone else already thought we were going out anyway. I Thought he realy liked me. Everyone said he did because apparently whenever we were together we woul...

Lesbian and proud FINALLY!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5694 days ago

20 May 2009 (F) - Hey, some-one help, Last night we had abit of a party anyway we drank a lot and i fell asleep, i woke up during the night still a bit hazey and to be honest really very turned on, i quickly realised that i was being stroked and touched by anoth...

Is it normal to feel this way or am I weird????

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5694 days ago

20 May 2009 (M) - Am I weird? Some girl at my school was caught giving head and it went round school, and when i saw her i got an errection, i kept picturing her giving it to me and i almost climaxed without even touching down there. She always has this really ...

Comments please... Am I wasting my time with her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5310 days ago

20 May 2009 (M) - hello I met this girl on facebook who i quite like. We mailed each other quite a few times, got quite personal. She then asked me for my MSN address and i gave it her, but whenever i go on she never starts a conversation its always me. Somet...

I know I'm just using her.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5694 days ago

20 May 2009 (M) - alright so here it is this girl that goes my school has been flirting. She's alright. Anyway we were talking and somehow we got onto having sex, now we're talking about having sex with each other and I think we're going to do it. I dunno if ...

I don't know what to do as he has a girlfriend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5643 days ago

20 May 2009 (F) - I've been friends with this guy for about two months, I've liked him a lot since I met him but I refused to say anything as he has a girlfriend. We've been flirting a lot and the other day he told me that he also likes me, I also told him that I ...

My mate's girl is always trying to get my attention

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5694 days ago

20 May 2009 (M) - My mates girl, well he aint much of a mates, fancy's me, she's always flirting and touching her breasts in front of me, keeps hugging my everytime she see's me, and i dont know what to do, i mean she is attractive and such, but i aint some dick that ...

I think my mates girlfriend fancies me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5694 days ago

20 May 2009 (M) - i know this sounds big headed, but i think my mates girl fancy's me.. she's always texting me and telling me i'm cute, she always wants me around and wen im not in she beggs for me to come in, WE recently had our school prom and she was on my ar...

Do girls like guys that try really hard?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5694 days ago

20 May 2009 (M) - do girls hate guys that try to hard? I like this girl, but she's interested in some-one else i think, anyway when i talk to her i just feel like i need to spill my feeling for her? if you get me.. but if i do will she hate it? should i hang ...

He's always reminding me about past relationships

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5693 days ago

20 May 2009 (F) - i used to love so many guys before, i cried i almost have killed my self,but luckily, i have God in my heart. well i have this present relationship by now and if you have read my other questions you might know my life...im having a relationship with ...

B/f 11 years older than me is abusive and I don't know how to get out of this relationship!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5694 days ago

20 May 2009 (F) - First off, I'm 15 going on 16 in a couple of days; my boyfriend is ELEVEN years older than me. We've been together for 7 months and I do really like him, but every single month I've tried to end it because he's made me feel like sh*t, I have rea...

We are so finished if we get busted!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5694 days ago

20 May 2009 (F) - This is how it started. My mom need to work for our tuitions in our school so she need to leave the country. but before she left she organized us her children. well she doesn't want us,her children, to be endangered,so she looked for our guardians ...

Why did something so good between us turn so bad?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5693 days ago

20 May 2009 (F) - This boy that Ive known since september use to text me every day, visit me during shop break, talk to me on the bus, make me laugh, stare at me, touch me a little. My cousin use to talk to him and people were asking him if he liked me and he would ...

Cracking sound, pain in shoulder, anyone have any ideas?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5694 days ago

20 May 2009 (M) - I'm 14 years old and have recently been doing many pushups(every other day of course). I read the best way to increase pushups is to increase both strength(Few Reps with heavy weight) and endurance(high reps). I've been using a 35 lb backpack to do ...

Are girls not attracted to me because I am a ladies man?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5695 days ago

20 May 2009 (M) - I've been single for about a year now, i took some time off from girl becuase i had exams and thing, and now i cant seem to get one, girl i like dont like me, and i dont know any girls that do. I'm not ugly, i'm funny, and have lots of female f...

Fed up of my boyfriend's friends!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5694 days ago

20 May 2009 (F) - I'm fed up of my boyfriends friends... Me and his friends don't get on... I've tried everything to sort it out but because of me and my ex (he's at the same school as my boyfriend) had a huge argument when we broke up all his friends obviously are ...

I find myself wishing I was with someone else and having dreams about other people.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5695 days ago

20 May 2009 (F) - So here is the basic. I am seventeen with a nineteen year old guy. I am pregnant with his baby. We have been living together for just over a month. I love him with all my heart but lately it feels like I am just not good enough for him anymore....

She's just not "in" this relationship...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5695 days ago

20 May 2009 (M) - So I have a dilemma with my current girlfriend and I'm not sure what to do. The problem I am having is I am getting a sense she is not all "there in our relationship". We have been going out for almost 7 months now. She says she is in love me and ...

I really need to get over him. Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5692 days ago

20 May 2009 (F) - I need help, I really need to get over a guy I like, I don’t know if he likes me back and I can’t keep making myself high hopes. And I don’t want to keep waiting for something that might never happen, I thought I was over him, but whenever I see him ...

Why am I not over him yet??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5695 days ago

20 May 2009 (F) - Ok so the guy who I crushed on in 3rd 4th and 5th grade came back to school after Christmas. He is really hot and he was like amazing! ok so I totally picked up where I left off (totally in love with him!) every time he was around I would get really ...

I want to talk to her about sex, but don't know how.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5694 days ago

20 May 2009 (M) - I have been in a relationship with this girl for over a year now, I want to talk with her about sex, but I can't ever bring myself to... How should I start the conversation?...

Does he like me? Should I tell him I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5668 days ago

20 May 2009 (F) - i dont know any other way to tell him with out actually telling him that i like him a whole lot. he always flirts BIG time with me, and everyone notices. and he gives me hugs, but when and if he texts me its boring and plain out stupid, and also i ...

The guy I love doesn't love me back... PLEASE HELP!!!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5693 days ago

20 May 2009 (F) - Hey everyone and PLEASE answer my question I REALLY NEED YOUR HELP! Plizzzzzzz. I'm 17 I'm a very pretty girl nice body , a lil shy but I'm very funny and fun. I'm really inlove with this guy I met about one year ago. We used date but after a time...

I'm a straight girl that's in love with a gay guy... is he confused?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5693 days ago

20 May 2009 (F) - I have a really close friend who says he's gay, but at times I feel like he might just be confused. I'm falling deep for this him like if he were my lover. He's always flirting with me, but not like he does with anyone else. He's always telling me ...

Why do these jerks act like this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5693 days ago

20 May 2009 (F) - Whenever I do a broad presentation I get a nervous break down and anxiety attacks. Next week I will have to give a very broad presentation. I don't think I could give this presentation to the class because there are classmates in my class that makes ...

Why are my crushes friends acting like this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5695 days ago

20 May 2009 (F) - I've never told any one I like him first off so no one knows that I do. I think he might like me as well, but I'm not completely sure. Today in class I looked up and I saw him and is friends looking at each other. His one friend kept moving his ...

Why do I love her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5678 days ago

20 May 2009 (M) - we got into a little argument, and after we got everything worked out she asked me what my reason for loving her was. i told her bc i cared about her, and that its amazing just being with her. she said that wasnt a reason. shes asked me twice, but ...

Should I just go for it? She wants more and I do too.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5686 days ago

20 May 2009 (M) - She said she wants more, and said i need to take chances. I think (i kinda know) she wants to move below the waist. She likes to go into things fast so should i just do it, or should i move into it? (going below i mean) ...