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Archived questions from: 9 May, 2009 (see latest in Teenage category)

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Teenage: Help and advice

I honestly do not love this girl anymore, but I am afraid to break up with her, and I don't know why...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5673 days ago

9 May 2009 (M) - Hey there, Thursday I was on the phone with my girlfriend, I had to address some issues. For example; It bothered me that she never came up with ideas for dates. I always came up with stuff to do, I always ask her; hey do you want to hang out? She...

Masturbation help!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5663 days ago

9 May 2009 (F) - I recently asked about masturbation and whether it was a sin or not. I'm catholic/christian. I'm pretty sure it is. However, I wanted to make sure that it doesn't affect young girls from becoming infertile in the future or lose their sexual appetite ...

I just don't see what would be so hard about spending one weekend sober with his pregnant fiance??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5674 days ago

9 May 2009 (F) - I'm 19 and my boyfriend is 23... I'm 5 months pregnant and were engaged, before i got pregnant we had a very active social life but only at weekends... occasionaly he would go to the pub without me as i work shifts but since ive became pregnant he ...

He broke up with me but he keeps calling me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5143 days ago

9 May 2009 (F) - My ex boyfriend broke up with me but he cant tell me why and every excuse he give me dont add up to what the problem was between us... what could the reason be why he still calls me all the time telling me how happy he is with his new girl and now i ...

We're becoming closer friends... I don't know what to do!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5671 days ago

9 May 2009 (F) - I have a problem. Ii like this guy who just moved to my school this year. We always text each other, but don't talk much face to face because I'm to shy. When i first met him, I helped him hook up with this girl he liked at his old school. Now i ...

I don't see the point in anything at the moment. Any words of advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5674 days ago

9 May 2009 (F) - Basically, I can't handle it any longer. Life is just way way too hard. My parents make me split up with the guy I love, my bestfriends don't want anything to do with me. Rumors are going round about me. My family hate me for many reasons. People...

Am I allergic to my boyfriends sperm? What's going on here?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5674 days ago

9 May 2009 (F) - hi. im 16 and a friend of mine told me this was the place to go for questions about sex. well, my boyfriend and i were having sex. (not our first time) and when we got done, my vagina began to swell. is it possible that im allergic to his ...

I'm being beaten down by rumors. Is there anything I can do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5674 days ago

9 May 2009 (F) - I need some help!!! Basically, I go to an all girl school and it is a very bitchy school. A few months ago my boyfriend came to my school and broke up with me. I was so upset and I didn't want to talk to anyone. Me and my boyfriend (ex no...

Do "true" friends really exist!?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5674 days ago

9 May 2009 (F) - i'm feeling really angry with my so called 'friends'. ive been betrayed and burned by so many friends and i feel it almost pointless to even try and make any more new friendships. one has gone out with my longtime ex and i had only found out when i ...

Have you also been rejected by girls when you approached them?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5674 days ago

9 May 2009 (M) - I've been rejected many times and I'm sick of it !!!!!! I was rejected at the school, bars,shopping mall , streets etc. I don't know how to fix it ? When I'm with my friends I'm very outgoing boy but when I approach someone I'm a different person. ...

Why is she going around kissing all men?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5674 days ago

9 May 2009 (F) - Hey I really need someones advice, my so called "best mate" used to come round my house after school occasionally, then she told me that she fancied both my brothers, one being 17 and one being 19 nearly 20, after she told me this she started to ...

I don't know whether to believe him or not

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5673 days ago

9 May 2009 (F) - I've been talking to this guy and he lives about 300 miles away. I've been talking to him for about 6 months now and he claims that he really likes me. what i cant figure out is if he is just saying that cos he knows that we will never really meet ...

Last night I had sex and we forgot to use protection, what do I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5674 days ago

9 May 2009 (F) - last night i had sex with my boy friend. and well let's just say it wasn't that great and the worst part about it was we forgot to use protection of any kind what do i do if i get pregnant i will be in so much trouble i am only a freshman i know i ...

Every day I pray that his girlfriend has broken up with him

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5674 days ago

9 May 2009 (F) - okay so i am like in love with this guy but he has a girlfriend. he lives in a different town but we are pretty good friends. every time i talk to him on msn and ask him what he is up to it is always oh i just got back from hanging with my ...

Shy guy, I can't talk to him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5673 days ago

9 May 2009 (F) - I like this guy, who knows I like him. But I've been kind of ignoring him lately (playing hard-to-get -_-) but he doesn't like me back. (If a guy knows you like him, why not ask you out right? And he hasn't done that.) We were acquaintances bef...

I need some pointers, on how to get over an inferiority complex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5669 days ago

9 May 2009 (F) - I have a crush on this guy in my class, and I'm not ready to confess to him or anything, but the thing is... I think he is REALLY high above me. As in, he's way smarter than me, can do everything better than me, etc. and it makes me feel like I...

She always treats me like a shoulder to lean on, I don't want to do that, what can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5438 days ago

9 May 2009 (M) - ok what did I do to myself? this is pretty much a continuation of my last story. so I tried to leave her behind realizing that all she seemed to get out of me was using me. now I just don't know. so I tried to distance myself from her. I stopped ...

Is a man's erection based on his emotions, or something else?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5674 days ago

9 May 2009 (M) - Okay i tried to research this and i can't find exactly what i'm looking for so please someone who knows just answer my question. Is it true that a man's erection is based on his emotions? I believe they are because i'm only turned on my wif...

Four years of having a crush on this guy, how do I tell him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5673 days ago

9 May 2009 (F) - I've liked this guy for four years. I can't believe the way I feel about this boy. I've tried getting over him, I really have. We are about to graduate should I tell him how I really feel, even though I'm really shy to talk to him....

She wants to do sexual things, I think we are too young, what do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5675 days ago

9 May 2009 (M) - I am 14 in a couple of months. I am not sure if it is weird to love someone. I know I am only 14 and have been in this relationship for 5 months so... is that too early to love someone? I do love her and will do a lot of things just to be with her. ...

There is a guy in my class who acts very nervous around me and acts like he doesn't want to talk to me, what do you think is the problem?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5675 days ago

9 May 2009 (F) - There is this guy in one of my classes that I think might like me. He always stares at me and when I look at him he looks away really fast or pretends to be working. If he is with his friends they are always staring at me and when I look at them ...

Is it normal to want to masturbate all the time?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5674 days ago

9 May 2009 (F) - I am 15 Turning 16 in 1 Month I am continually horny and wanting to masterbate, is this normal?...