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Archived questions from: 30 December, 2009 (see latest in Teenage category)

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Teenage: Help and advice

How can Iflirt with him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5470 days ago

30 December 2009 (?) - Hey how can I flirt with this guy I have know for two years. And how will I know if he likes me back thanks...

How do I get my parents to compromise with a little freedom?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5468 days ago

30 December 2009 (F) - my problem is having a boyfriend. My parents won't allow it. I'm 15 in my last year school, and he's my first boyfriend. I really like him, i usually don't pay attention to stuff like that, but i felt that he's different. He likes me for who i am...

Sex w/o condoms safe?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5468 days ago

30 December 2009 (M) - Well, I'm a 15 year old male that has a very honest girlfriend. For the past year or so, we have been expiramenting with sexual touching, oral sex, ect,. When we we're on teh phone the other day, she asked me if I wanted to have sex. I told her I ...

Is it alright for a 16 year old to live with a 20 year old??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5470 days ago

30 December 2009 (F) - Is it ok for a 16 year old to live with a 20 year old? ...

I have a crush on one of my teachers, how do I stop the rumors?P

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5470 days ago

30 December 2009 (F) - i like this teacher at my school.i know it's just a crush and all so i won't sit here and talk about how i'm in love with him. i know nothing will happen between us and nothings happening now.all the kids tease me and i'm scared if i tell my parnets ...

I need help, should I keep talking to him, or should I back off?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5470 days ago

30 December 2009 (F) - heya, i need your help. There is this boys.. and he moved to my school and into my form a couple of months ago. Me and my best friend welcomed him with open arms and we were really nice to him. He then began to make friends and thats when the trut...

I like my history teacher and cannot concentrate on my classroom studies, what should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5466 days ago

30 December 2009 (?) - Hey. I really, really like my history I have liked him since last year. This year I got 38% on my exam this christmas and I have been thinking I got this low because of my feelings for him. I have always been bad at history I have found it really ...

I feel sad, I cry a lot, have low self-esteem, can you help me in some way?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5464 days ago

30 December 2009 (F) - I don’t really know what’s wrong with me, or how to write this. Basically, I’m very unhappy, and I have been for a year now, and I don’t know what to do. I’ve had various issues with self-esteem, sleeping, my mood, confidence, appetite and energy ...

More questions than answers...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5467 days ago

30 December 2009 (F) - Over vacation I've been thinking about me and my best friend who I have known for 2 years. I really think our friendship can last through anything. A couple of months ago I told him that I liked him and he still stuck around. sure he hasn't asked me ...

Why does my brother try to steal my girlfriends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5466 days ago

30 December 2009 (M) - why the hell is my brother tring to steal my girlfriend when he knows i love her and she loves me to make matters worse he has a girlfriend. my girl is not what he likes, she is not his type, but hes giving hints and shes falling for them....

I'm worried about a 2 year age gap

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5462 days ago

30 December 2009 (M) - G'day... A girl and I like eachother- a lot. However, I am 15 and she is 13. When we are out together, it seems right and all that jazz. But the only thing im worried about is the two year age gap. Would be greatful for any advice! Thanks :)....

I'm really confused about my sexual feelings

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5470 days ago

30 December 2009 (M) - hi im 17 year old male and im confused about my sexuality. i think i like boys, when i masterbate i think of them and i watch gay porn. ive been reading other questions and they seem to say that this dosent always mean your gay. ive been out wi...

Why do boys stare at my lips?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5470 days ago

30 December 2009 (F) - why do boys tend to stare at my lips? its happened to me ocaasionaly and i find it weird. One minute there talking to me next they're talking and staring at my lips.I've caught 2 atleast doing that on regular basis. why?...

Should I end a happy loving relationship because... he had sex with 3 girls?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5334 days ago

30 December 2009 (F) - Okay now I know this may sound ridiculously jerkette and dumb, but...I don't want to be in love. But I am. Now yes I am happy because of it but the other side of my mind snarls at the happiness. With my personality, I just do not feel under control, ...

I am now on a bitter liver...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5333 days ago

30 December 2009 (F) - Alright...--- Well I guess I should start explaining my spot in life. I'm a freshman in highschool and I'm an all around person kinda girl. I never believed in friends but always acquaintences. Just to keep wild emotions out. Im patient, reassur...

He isn't giving me enough attention and now he wants space! What now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5470 days ago

30 December 2009 (F) - I've been dating this guy for 5 months. Really nice person. But the thing is that he doesn't seem to put in effort to make me happy. I told him that he isn't giving me enough attention. He could be gaming, watching video or chatting with hi...

How can I get him to cum faster?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5471 days ago

30 December 2009 (F) - Okay, I recently started hooking up with a boy Ive known for a really long time, and I gave him head the other night. He said it was great and he did cum, but it took him FOREVER. My whole body is sore, my neck the worst. He said that he had alot of ...

Do you think he hates me for all the stupid mistakes I've made?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5470 days ago

30 December 2009 (F) - this is a relatively long question/story, just warning you. In December of last year, I started visiting a chatroom especially for the iPod touch. I was pretty bored, telling people I was 17, and I'm 14 was 13 then. I did not have pics, since...

Why am I not able to get pleasure from oral with him anymore?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5470 days ago

30 December 2009 (F) - I've been with my bf for about 3months and I've been having issues involving sex since the 3rd week. 1st 2 times we had sex he got me to orgasm with oral. Next time he tried I didn't feel much pleasure from it although he was doing the exact same ...

I'm not cheating so why doesn't he believe that?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5468 days ago

30 December 2009 (F) - my boyfriend always accuses me of cheating. i have have done everything i think i can to show him i would never ever do that. i have tried begging for him to beleive me, told him all my secrets to get trust, been 100% honest about my past, alot of ...

Would it be stupid to start something with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5470 days ago

30 December 2009 (F) - Met this boy online. I'm falling for him but he lives about a hour away from me. Neither of us can drive and I haven't even met him yet. Would it be stupid to start something with him? Or can this actully be the start of something amazing?...

How do I get her to date me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5470 days ago

30 December 2009 (F) - alright, so i've known this girl since she was in second grade and i was in third...and we've always been close to each other. i really care about her and at first i thought it was just a best friends/ sisters kinda feelings, but then my heart would ...

If I end up with my Spanish teacher in the end, would I still be considered straight?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5466 days ago

30 December 2009 (?) - I know what love is despite what everyone will say. Yes, I'm just a 17 year old girl, but there's not a certain age that breaks the barrier of being able to be in love or not. Anyways, I'm in love with my Spanish teacher. That's not the problem. ...

Why does my penis not discharge?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5470 days ago

30 December 2009 (M) - i have had 4time sex with different different girls from past 4-5days. but after having sex my pennis doesnot discharge . . . . every time girl come angry that why ur penis does not discharging even girl come very tired?????????? so plzz suggest me ...

Does a player ever change?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5463 days ago

30 December 2009 (F) - I just started a dating this guy i liked for a while (lets call him D) but the problem is another guy i know(M)is causing problems. I have never dated M or did any more then flirt with him and play games with him but we didnt really talk as much the ...

What can I do about this girl I'm in love with?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5470 days ago

30 December 2009 (F) - i fell in love with my best friends girlfriend and i told her on the night of a party that we were all at. My best friend was in her car while we were talking and i told her i was in love with someone that i was afraid to tell and she kept bugging ...

Could these be early symptoms of pregnancy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5470 days ago

30 December 2009 (F) - Last Wednesday night my boyfriend and I had sex. It was the first time for both of us and it was something we were shy about but we wanted to do. We have been together for a year and we take things slow but, the night wasn't perfect of course ...

I lied about my virginity so what do I do now?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5468 days ago

30 December 2009 (F) - I am sort of seeing this boy who is 20 even though i am 15 and we are thinking about having sex, the bottom line is i told him i was not a virgin and i dont know what to do. plz help xx...

Is it okay to think of her when I masturbate?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5470 days ago

30 December 2009 (M) - hey, im 14 and has been in a relationship for a week, and i just wanted to know that is it ok for me to not master bate thinking of her,...

What is this emotion I get?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5470 days ago

30 December 2009 (M) - Okay, so i've been with my girlfriend a couple of months now, and we have connected, spiritually, emotionally/mentally, and physically. NO! We have not had sex, and we're proud that our relationship doesn't rely solely on sexual purposes. But once ...

Do mixed signals mean he likes me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5468 days ago

30 December 2009 (F) - theres this guy i know, we get along pretty well, we have our moments but then at times He Acts like he likes me- then he ignores me! i just get all these mixed signals.... at times i catch him looking at me in class, when we watch movies tog...

Is it normal for me to have a higher sex drive than my boyfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5471 days ago

30 December 2009 (F) - been with my boyfriend for almost a year, we still have a passionate relationship and have sex up to 3-4 times a week, we try different things such as sex outside, sex against the wall, sex in different rooms, i love it and orgasm everytime... but i ...

I need to know all the risks of having sex!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5470 days ago

30 December 2009 (F) - I know I'm too young. Thats what everybody says. But recently I've met a boy I really love, he loves me too. Trust me you haven't heard him. He wants to have sex with me. Please answer me. With all risks and everything, thank you. :)....

Are these signs he's planning to propose?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5470 days ago

30 December 2009 (F) - me and my fella have been together for 9 months now, we tell eachother everyday how much we love eachother, we do everything together, have alot of fun. hes my best friend aswell as my lover. thing is hes brought me a lovely ring for christmas which ...

Should I throw in the towel with him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5467 days ago

30 December 2009 (F) - Ive had a crush on this guy ryan since freshmen year(Im a junior now)at the end of freshmen year my x bff who knew I liked him went out w/him, they broke up that summer. Be4 I got my chance to show him how i feel he starts dating a girl named ...