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Archived questions from: 18 December, 2009 (see latest in Teenage category)

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Teenage: Help and advice

We broke up 3 months ago and he still isn't ready to be friends

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5464 days ago

18 December 2009 (F) - i broke up with my boyfriend 3 months ago--- why isnt he ready to be friends..? im reallly in love with him still. and im over the whole boyfriend-girlfriend thing but i really wana be friends with him and he wont let me in.. he says it hurts too ...

I don't know what to get my b/f for Christmas

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5481 days ago

18 December 2009 (F) - I am having trouble knowing what to get my boyfriend for Christmas. we have been dating for about 2 or 3 months now. I love him and he is very difficult. When i asked him what he wanted for Christmas he either said nothing or told me he wanted me. ...

I'm worried about the first time and not living up to expectations!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5477 days ago

18 December 2009 (M) - Ok, so I've been dating this girl for two and a half months, and I think we're in love. Today she asked me to come over and to finger her, but I said I couldn't because I was too nervous. I know I shouldn't be, if we really are in love then she ...

A conversation with a friend gives me more questions than answers!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5482 days ago

18 December 2009 (M) - Hello, One of by best mates is a girl, we are very close. We finished school early today as it is the last day of term and we decided to go on a walk together. it was snowing so we had alot of fun. after a while of talking we randomly started ...

I thought everything was going well, until I heard them laughing about me...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5482 days ago

18 December 2009 (F) - My best mate sleeps around and knows loads of guys, everyone wanting to be with her. She's overweight, spotty and generally greasy. She's taken guys off of me and every guy I've liked she's flirted with until they go to her instead. This seems to ...

Does my girlfriend's family suddenly not trust me anymore?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5482 days ago

18 December 2009 (M) - Hi i'm 17 and have just come back early from my first visit to my girlfriends house. This was an interesting experience. I've been going out with my girlfriend for 3 months now and she's been round my house a lot and we've been out on a Friday ...

Has she gone of me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5482 days ago

18 December 2009 (M) - (MOD NOTE: Title is Posters Original Title) hii, I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO!. i think my girlfriend has gone of me.... she never realy wants to kiss me if i go for a kiss all i get is a sourfaced peck, she never wants to have sex with me, but she...

My friend lied to me now I don't want to trust her again

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5482 days ago

18 December 2009 (F) - So I trusted my friend but she lied to me. I feel stupid because I can not believe I couldn't see through her. I believed everything she told me - yes everything. Now I feel upset, hurt and very angry. The lie was small but still hurtful. She kept ...

He says he has moved on, so why did he kiss me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5482 days ago

18 December 2009 (F) - hey me and my boyfriend split up because my dad found out that he was round when he wernt ment to be because my boyfriend is older then me im 15 and hes 17 and of cause my dad didnt really like it . And i went to see him and he kissed me then i...

It hurts me when he makes up with g/f and then I don't hear from him for days!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5482 days ago

18 December 2009 (F) - I'm so upset. My best guy friend and I talk all the time, and he's in a rough spot with his girlfriend right now so I've pretty much become his crutch for the time being. I'm the person he goes to to talk when his girlfriend is mad or whatever. I ...

I am thinking of giving my b/f a self portrait for Christmas

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5482 days ago

18 December 2009 (F) - hi guys this is a questin about my bf's xmas present. im a very shy person but i want to give my boyfriend a personal gift and i was going to draw a picture of myself in underwear in a type of silouhette style. the problem is i am scared he won't ...

This is THE weekend I lose my virginity, I need to prepare myself

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5481 days ago

18 December 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for over a year and we both decided to give our virginity to each other this Saturday night. I just want to know how should I prepare myself mentally and physically? ...

I only had sex once and I didn't love it, what did I do wrong?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5482 days ago

18 December 2009 (F) - Ive only had sex once before. It was almost a year ago. I have to say I didnt find it really that good. I didnt orgasm.. All i felt was alot of pressure and the thrusting and pain. Is that normal? ALl my other friends seem to love sex. I tend to ...

Needs a womans opinion to soothe my paranoia about what the girl I like replied with!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5478 days ago

18 December 2009 (M) - Right, Where to start, This is mainly for the women to answer, I know not a 100% answer but a females opinion would be appreciated.. I've been talking to this girl, shes 16 and shes really nice, really good heart, not manipulative or anything...Sh...

Even though she hurt me, should I give her another chance?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5483 days ago

18 December 2009 (M) - About a month ago a girl I really liked told me she didn't think she liked me anymore. We weren't actually dating. But now, a month later she is saying she likes me again. Should I give her another chance? She hurt me really bad, and I don't want to ...

How can I make him chose me, not her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5480 days ago

18 December 2009 (F) - There is this guy that I really like and when I told him that he had told me that he felt the same way but he had a stronger connection with this other girl so he chose her instead. How can I show him that I'm the one for him and not her, and that ...

Should I tell my online friend I like him even though he has mental issues?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5458 days ago

18 December 2009 (F) - I have a good friend in Canada who I met online a few years ago. I would have to say he's one of my best friends, and as I've gotten to know him, I sort of developed a crush. Problem is, he's Canadian, and I'm American. He's 27 and I'm 18. He also ...

This boy takes my breath away so what should I do about him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5483 days ago

18 December 2009 (F) - ok...SO iv'e been liking this boy for about 4-5months now and it's funny kuz when i first saw him....my brothers had already told me stuff he said about me like"MAN I LIKE YOUR SISTER" and shes kute and more stuff and it's like when i saw him for ...

Am I right to ignore him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5482 days ago

18 December 2009 (F) - Recently, i've been ignoring the guy i like because we got really close and then suddenly turned on me one night and started talking really nastily.... I am right in doing so? Should i just walk away from it now to save more hurt or should ...

Should I tell her again or let life go on?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5428 days ago

18 December 2009 (M) - there is this girl that i like and i told her on facebook she said that she had a boyfriend but im not sure if its true or not i see her almost every week at church and whenever i see her i feel like almost crying. i know that its cheesy but its ...

Will I always be alone without a relationship?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5481 days ago

18 December 2009 (F) - I’m turning 19 soon, and I’ve never had a boyfriend. I’ve never been kissed. I’ve never been on a date. I’ve never even had a guy express interest. I’ve never even heard rumors that any guys might be interested. I didn’t attend any school dances, ...