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writes:there is this girl that i like and i told her on facebook she said that she had a boyfriend but im not sure if its true or not i see her almost every week at church and whenever i see her i feel like almost crying. i know that its cheesy but its true. she is a really pretty girl and probably way out of my league, but i cant help it i love her should i tell her that i still feel the same as i did before ? or should i just leave it as it is and let life go on ? im 13 and i never had a girlfriend before so im not sure what to do please help
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reader, Crazy high highschooler  +, writes (11 February 2010):
Btw patience is key if they break up you gotta chance just wait about a half a month to a month for her to get over it and many you'll get your chance
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 December 2009): In a nutshell, she's told you she's dating another guy...so you don`t interfere. You nicely told her on Facebook you liked her. But, she obviously likes her current bf more, because she`s with him..right? You just have to accept this and move on with your life. Listen having a crush on someone or thinking you love them, is painfully sweet but feeling this way, always will bring consequences for anyone experiencing it. Sometimes the consequences are wonderful-sometimes they are hurtful, but this is life and we take these tough times and we learn about love and dating. All of us have been there! You are on the cusp of starting this huge life learning process. Let it come, sit back, relax and learn the process. And whatever any consequences are...they alway teach you young people to accept what has happened and to choose a new path..to expand your life and make yourself happy. So think sensibly here and stop allowing your feelings to dictate your actions here, because it will drive you bonky. She has a guy, she`s off limits. Go out and find another lucky female to date..plain and simple.
Believe me this girl won`t be your last..gosh, there will be dozens and dozens of crushes, in your future. So take back your personal power here, and just move on. Take care and best of luck...now go have fun in life .
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reader, Beyoncefan01 +, writes (18 December 2009):
Dont push her into wanting to be with you. If you ask he once and she says no then dont ask her again. Its only gonna make her not ever wanna be with you. Just move on. Give her some time. If she's really the right person for you then yall will be together someday. But dont waste your time on one girl. Its plenty other fish in the sea trust me.
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reader, lovelife1437 +, writes (18 December 2009):
If you're still into her years later then it might work out for the best. My ex boyfriend wanted to date when we were 14, I said no until 4 years later. He was into me like how you said you're into this girl at the moment. We only lasted 5 months. At 18, we were still too young to get into a relationship especially when one person have been infatuated with another for a while. You don't love her, you're infatuated so try to clear your head, recollect your thoughts. Love is never instant because it takes a very long time to get to know someone and love them unconditionally. Try to talk to her and be friends first and get to know each other more, nobody is out of anyone's league. Love is love and it should be unconditional/without condition. Good Luck! :-)
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reader, LUFC  +, writes (18 December 2009):
 Okay you are 13, what do you want a girlfriend for? There are much interesting things you can do than be with a girl, trust me.
If this girl has a boyfriend...leave them to it, your feelings may break them up if you tell her how you feel. You never know, she could love this guy...and then it would be on your concience knowing that you hurt her. Why would you do this to someone you like?
You say that you have told her how you feel before and yet she is still with him i take it? So obviously telling her how you feel is not going to change anything is it?
As you say you are only young.... go hang out with your friends, do some KID stuff. You are far too young to be in a commited relationship, they get too complicated.
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