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writes:Ive only had sex once before. It was almost a year ago. I have to say I didnt find it really that good. I didnt orgasm.. All i felt was alot of pressure and the thrusting and pain. Is that normal? ALl my other friends seem to love sex. I tend to avoid it now thinking im doing something wrong? Help please.
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reader, jthomas +, writes (18 December 2009):
I agree w/ the last answer. Your emotional situation w/ that person has ALOT to do w/ it. I didn't enjoy it the 1st time, or the 2nd. It actually took awhile before I finally found out what it was all about. You'll get there in time.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 December 2009): first time sex is typically not a great experience - i was with someone really gentle and slow and it still hurt alot, i even cried my eyes out afterwards. Sex is not everything so please don't feel that there is something wrong with you - it just takes time, practice and the right person to make the experience nicer. When me and my partner became more comfortable with each other - i found sex a lot more enjoyable - hopefully you will too.
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reader, bitterblue  +, writes (18 December 2009):
 You did nothing wrong, there are physical and emotional factors (read about them before practising any more sex) that often make first time sex not the most pleasurable experience, it's the kind of food you should taste more than once before it tastes great; had you done your research, you would have found out that for some women there is a bit of pain, for some no pain at all, during their first times, but for all practise should make perfect, if backed up by good knowledge. All the best.
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