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writes:There is this guy that I really like and when I told him that he had told me that he felt the same way but he had a stronger connection with this other girl so he chose her instead. How can I show him that I'm the one for him and not her, and that I'm the one that he's looking for and not her. What can I tell him and how can I show him ? There has to be some way I can win him. Please tell me what I can do, anything will help. P.S. please don't say there are plenty of fish in the sea or try to get over him because that is the stupidest thing ever and will not help at all. Thanks :D Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 December 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you guys so much. Alot of your advice really really
helped. God bless all of you who helped me. THANKS A MILLION :D
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (18 December 2009):
 You know the expression, you can lead a horse to water but you can not make them drink?
Well, you can not "MAKE" someone love you or "LIKE" you better then someone else.
His loss, honey.
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reader, Alice Wonders  +, writes (18 December 2009):
 Well, I'm not saying they're plenty of fish in the sea or forget him, but this would be, probably, the best advice for your situation. If he already made his choice means he likes 'the other', not you, so why you want to be with him if he doesn't like you? Don't you see you're torturing yourself?!
Anyway, maybe the reverse psychology works, who knows!?! Try acting cold, make him know you're seeing somebody else and you already forget about him. Some men (the bad kind of men) cannot accept being dumped and come back.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 December 2009): I'll tell you the truth not the more fish in the sea story.Guys are pretty shallow at this age they go for prettiest not feeling the connections.Now get some nice clothes.Get your hair done nice but not like beauty peagent type more of the sexy style.If your a little overweight just try to avoid the sweets,guys like a girl the is healthy looking.I like to use teeth whitening system it helps.I always liked a little makeup but not too much.If you have older sister she can help.Act like a girl avoid burbs and frts and nasty stuff.A little teasing then playing hard to get it should come natually.You may have to hang out and wait till he gets bored of this other girl first.It will happen always does.I wouldn't chase the guy or stalk him, it makes you look desperate and that's not attractive to anyone.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 December 2009): Sorry to say this, but you have already done all that you could to let him know your feelings when you spoke to him.He still chose the other girl, and unfortunately (for you) that's his prerogative. Your best bet now is to get on with your schoolwork and friends at school, and act as if you have a life of your own (as indeed you should have) and not give him the impression you're pining for him.IF he does eventually decide he'd rather be friends with you, than with her, all well and good. At your age, feelings can change very quickly........
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reader, Beyoncefan01 +, writes (18 December 2009):
Gurl its his lost if he choose her over you. If he really likes you then he will come back on his own. Dont wait up for no guy. If you really like him then you will have to learn to accept his choice.
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