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30-35,
anonymous
writes:My best mate sleeps around and knows loads of guys, everyone wanting to be with her. She's overweight, spotty and generally greasy. She's taken guys off of me and every guy I've liked she's flirted with until they go to her instead. This seems to happen with everyone I know. Recently my confidence increased (never been confident because I'm always second best at most) then my mate invited me out with one of her boyfriends (she had 4 at the time) and two of his mates was there. I was polite and said hi etc, I thought everything was going great but then I heard them b*tching about me and laughing about me every time I turned my back. :( I'm scared of meeting people because I hate myself so much because of things like this always happening to me. It's like everyone has something against me. I only have one mate, because I moved and because of my ex I didn't meet anyone but now I'm scared to talk to new people. :( I dunno what to do.
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reader, Aunty BimBim  +, writes (18 December 2009):
 Caring guy is right, this girl is not a friend. Create yourself a new life, create some interests, do some night classes, learn pottery, learn creative writing, get into netball, anything, until you learn to feel a little more confident around a whole different set of people and build a nice circle of caring sharing friends for yourself.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (18 December 2009):
Stop hating yourself and start loving yourself instead. Clearly this best friend of yours isn't a best friend at all. She wouldn't treat you so badly. Instead, it's time you focused on your own life. Start new hobbies, meet new people. You can do better than a so called fried who steals your boyfriends, then laughs at you. Be brave and focus on your own life.
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