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Sex: Help and advice

I’m feeling guilty about enjoying my casual relationship

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2127 days ago

30 January 2019 (F) - I’ve been occasionally seeing a friend of a friend. We’ve gone on a few dates, but then I said I wasn’t looking for a relationship. I didn’t want to scare him off/wasn’t sure what I wanted. He’s been into me and contacting me for about 6 mont...

Is my boyfriend's behaviour normal? He's admitted to going really strange sexual things relating to the girl he liked!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2123 days ago

29 January 2019 (F) - Hello. I’m starting to become a little bit freaked out by my partner. I just wanted to know how “normal” this was. He’s a normal man, hardworking, provides for the family, kind, caring and loving. He hasnt had many girlfriends in the past due to ...

How is affection, spending time with someone or making sure your spouses needs are being taken care of, so many “things” to do for your wife that it would exclude her/me from the right to intimacy?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2132 days ago

24 January 2019 (F) - I am currently three years into my second marriage. I have had successfull sexual relationships in the past. I have never ever experienced what I am currently experiencing so my question is two fold. 1. Is this a reasonable/healthy relationship? 2. ...

He's coming on too strong, talks about sex a lot, has a child with an ex. Should I ignore these red flags?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2133 days ago

24 January 2019 (F) - So about 6 months ago I met this attractive guy.. we met in a cute way as I got him lost accidentally by trying to help with directions, and he later gave me his number and name, which I hadn't asked for. I added him on Facebook and he messaged me, ...

I feel forced to have sex to maintain the relationship

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 2126 days ago

24 January 2019 (F) - I'm a bit confused I'm in a relationship and I like the relationship the romance kissing and cuddles but I don't really like having sex I've never really liked it. I feel forced to do it as part of the relationship everyday several times a day and I ...

My boyfriend doesn't want to go out on the weekends! He just wants to lounge around and have sex

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2132 days ago

23 January 2019 (F) - My boyfriend doesn't want to go out on weekends and just stay in and lounge around and have sex all weekend. He says he's tired as works all week but I'm getting bored not going out with him and I feel every time I bring up the subject it becomes a ...

I need my boyfriend to want me!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2134 days ago

22 January 2019 (F) - i recently met this guy and i feel good about things. He is well hot and seems v nice. The trouble is he is a bit backwards at coming forward. My last B/f was like a mad stud in and out the bedroomanad we would just do stuff were and when ever. Th...

He deleted his dating profile. Did he meet someone else?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2114 days ago

22 January 2019 (F) - Ive been on 4 dates with a guy I met since Oct. I blew him off a few times because I was worried having sex too soon would ruin things but i do really like him. I was tired of all my past relationship mistakes by sleeping too soon and never getting ...

Should a man break up with a woman over not getting enough sex?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2134 days ago

19 January 2019 (M) - Been in a relationship for two years, am 63, she is 58, I work one job she has one full time job an a part time job. I pretty much live with her, own my own house to.what's up is maybe sex once every two months, she always got an excuse.she just ...

I lied to my boyfriend about the time frame last time I had sex before him. He STILL doesn't know the actual truth. What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2134 days ago

19 January 2019 (F) - Hey all! I have been with my boyfriend for about 3 months now. We are both 26 years old and in very transitional phases of our lives. We also recently (within the last year) ended long term (3-6year) relationships. Both relationships we...

I can't climax and I'm worried he will leave me because of it

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2126 days ago

14 January 2019 (F) - Hi, I am in need of some advice. I have been dating a really nice man for over a month. We have been intimate with him a few times. It was an amazing experience even though, I did not climax. He seemed really worried about it. Would tell me when I ...

I feel like he loves me but isn't interested in sex

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2143 days ago

13 January 2019 (F) - My man and I use to have sex all the time, couldn't get enough of each other.for the past few months, he never initiates, he says he is having a hard time getting hard.I try all kinds of things, I even please myself in front of him. I feel like he ...

My FWB hookup told me he had decided to date me until he found out I had sex with someone else

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2147 days ago

10 January 2019 (F) - Since December 21 I've been intimate with someone. He knew I liked someone else but me being conflicted didn't know if I'd act on it or not. After our second sexual encounter I asked him if he wanted to date me he declined saying he just wanted to ...

My boyfriend tries to have anal sex without my permission. Does he not respect me?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 2062 days ago

9 January 2019 (F) - I am 64 female,boyfriend is 60,seeing each other for 6 weeks now and have had amazing sex,he is much more sexually experienced and into porn very much. He tried to enter me analy without asking me and I jumped back because it really hurt,told him ...

Has my husband lost interest in me sexually?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2150 days ago

4 January 2019 (F) - Hello!! Me and my husband have dated for 3 years and we just got married last summer. I love him so much and he loves me the same. But there was things of been bothering me....:( We used to have very active for sex when we started dating. And i...

Why am I not as interested in sex as I should be?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2156 days ago

2 January 2019 (F) - I dont quite get it. Im 22, have been having sex since i was 16. I've never really been one for it thoughm and it seems like the older i get the less it even interests me. My boyfriend and i have been together for 2 years and things were hot and ...

Sex has changed with my partner ever since my dad died. How can I fix this problem?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2156 days ago

2 January 2019 (F) - Hi. Since my dad died 4 months ago, I have been having a hard time going back to the sexual self I used to be. I used to be more aggressive in bed and liked more animalistic sex, but since my dad died, it seems I am unable to go back to that. The ...

A stranger offered herself to me to help me lose my virginity. Do I accept?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 2126 days ago

2 January 2019 (M) - I will be 20 very soon and am still a virgin. I have tried to date probably more than a hundred women and have always been rejected. I have contemplated visiting an escort but don't want to lose my dignity doing so. Out of a whim I posted an ad o...

I had unprotected sex with a friend and now I am worried

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2156 days ago

1 January 2019 (F) - I had unprotected sex with a friend . I don’t know what I was thinking but I’m so worried now. I thought he had a condom but I got carried away when he said he doesn’t . I had to ask him after a couple of days and he said he doesn’t have any...

I feel guilty about my sexual past

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 2156 days ago

1 January 2019 (F) - I know this ja going to sound very silly but lately I’ve started feeling very guilty about my experiences . I’m 27 as of now. I was committed to a single guy for 5 years from high school and fell for a friend after breakup. I didn’t sleep with any ...

Why would a guy hold back from sex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2155 days ago

1 January 2019 (F) - Why would a guy hold back from sex ? ive started dating a guy for the last 4 week (we only see each other no-one else ) we have done everything apart from sleep together. He did say he wanted to wait until date 5 before sleeping with me. He ...