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Sex: Help and advice

Should I ignore the photos found on his laptop?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2364 days ago

28 April 2018 (F) - Hi there I was looking for a movie on my husband's laptop and instead found a folder of celebrity nudes he downloaded at the same time. I'm a bit shaken. I don't mind if he watches porn, but most of these photos are ones which would have been ...

Is it fair to let past experiences influence tis relationship?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2404 days ago

27 April 2018 (F) - I've been seeing a guy for about a month now and we started to talk about the future and what the relationship is and he tells me that last summer he was accused of raping his ex. At the time he was telling me with I had just had consensual sex w...

Should I trust her on birth control?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2404 days ago

26 April 2018 (M) - I'm 32 years old, dating my 22 old girlfriend for 3 months and days ago we had sex without condom and it was amazing, I almost forgot how good it feels lol, last time I had unprotected sex was with my ex wife who I divorced three years ago. Since ...

I don't know if I can indulge his BDSM fantasies

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2403 days ago

26 April 2018 (F) - So I am engaged and both my fiance an I want to experience our fantasies, but I am not sure if I can commit to doing his. Mine is a foursome with him and two other girls, I am Bisexual so I am okay with mine, but his is BDSM an I don't know if ...

Why did my ex give his friend my number?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2406 days ago

25 April 2018 (F) - Dear Agony Aunts, i broke up in July last year (2017) with my boyfriend (I’ll call him M) i loved very much because i felt he had fallen out of love with me and two weeks later, he got a new girlfriend (I know because i came back to him so we could ...

I want out of this relationship with a married man but he is making it difficult.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2408 days ago

24 April 2018 (F) - In September I moved to a new area for work, shortly after I started my job i had a coworker that started flirting with me. He is really cute and sweet only problem is he is married. He like me moved to the area for work, his family is actually four ...

How often should a healthy couple have sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2400 days ago

22 April 2018 (F) - How often should a healthy couple have sex? I know this is a subjective question and every couple is different. I ask because my partner (32m) and I (32f) have been having issues around this lately. My natural rhythm dictates about 2-4 times ...

My boyfriend, I and his so called lesbian friend who's slept with him, fancies him and doesn't like me. What do I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2413 days ago

19 April 2018 (F) - Been seeing a guy for 7months now. Started off casually, us both not looking for a relationship, but it naturally progressed into one that we both are enjoying. We have had to redefine and communicate a lot about what our needs and expectations are ...

My boyfriend is all about himself during sex, but never about me.

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 2412 days ago

18 April 2018 (F) - Hello, I was hoping I could ask for some help regarding my sex life. I have a wonderful 2 year relationship with my boyfriend. Genuinely feel like I've found the one for me, I think he's amazing. However, he's the first person I've slept with...

Sex seems like something he's trying to get over and done with and going through the motions!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2416 days ago

17 April 2018 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for 2 years now and we are really happy together. He works away a fair bit and I travel frequently so we have regular LDR stints of maybe a couple of weeks or longer (up to 2 or more months). The distance isn't an issue ...

My boyfriend can't stay hard!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2414 days ago

17 April 2018 (F) - My boyfriend can't stay hard. The first time me and my boyfriend got intimate physically he avoided intercourse and satisfied me in other ways. However, after multiply attempts to have intercourse he eventually told me that he has a problem doing it...

We're having sex, he has another girl and I have feelings and a third girl is spreading nasty rumours.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2368 days ago

13 April 2018 (F) - This is a little bit long winded so i do apologise in advance. I went to the pub one with my friend and she introduced me to one of her guy friends and kept teasing us both that we are both single. That night i plucked up the courage to messa...

I'm having an affair wih my fiance's best friend.

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 2420 days ago

12 April 2018 (F) - I’m engaged due to be married September, I’ve started having an affair with one of his best friends. Now I don’t know whether I love his best friend. He’s asked me to not get married. My fiancé is a good man great father and stable. His frien...

My husband wants to hide me from the girl he wants a baby with

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2421 days ago

12 April 2018 (F) - i have been married for 4 years, i had to remove my womb due to medical conditions. my husband and i agreed on the operation. now he wants a baby so i said to him he must get someone very far and i dont want to be affected by it. he now got someone ...

Can I get an std from someone using no protection who came back with a clean bill of health

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2421 days ago

11 April 2018 (F) - So I have 2 sex partners and both are clean ( before you question how I am sure, I have had both men take std tests as well as taken one myself so everyone is safe) but I’m curious if I can still get an std from either of them from unprotected sex? ...

Is it a good sign if a one night stand contacts you afterwards?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2422 days ago

10 April 2018 (F) - I met this guy out recently and we just clicked. I went home with him, we were dancing for quite some time and I met his room mate. Soon things got heated, had a great time together. He was exceedingly affection, but in intimate ways, kissing my ...

I've never had a boyfriend but am considering losing my virginity.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2418 days ago

10 April 2018 (F) - 36 F, never had a boyfriend, considering losing virginity So I'm 36 f, considering having sex for the first time. Myriad reasons it hasn't happened yet I suppose. I've never had a boyfriend before...men just don't seem to be attracted to me ...

I want a sexual relationship with my professor. Should I pursue it?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 2404 days ago

10 April 2018 (F) - I am in love with my professor and want to take thing to a sexual relationship. I need advise on how to keep it a secret. We flirt all the time we even exchanged pictures. Should I pursue this at all? ...

My cousin talked me into having sex with her when we were just 12 and 13 and now I feel uncomfortable having her stay over at my place

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2423 days ago

9 April 2018 (M) - When I was 12 years old male, my 13 years old female cousin talked me into having sex with her. Over the next two years, we had sex on several occasions (maybe once every 3 months). We stopped having sex when she was about 15 years old and when I ...

What do my husband's cuckolding fantasies mean?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2419 days ago

9 April 2018 (F) - My husband has lots of cuckholding fantasies and imagines watching me with other men. I have told him this will remain fantasy as I'll never do this in real life so that's not my question here My question is whether I should be worried that he ...

How do I put back together my broken heart?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2402 days ago

9 April 2018 (F) - MOD NOTE: DUE TO ITS LENGTH YOUR QUESTION IS DIFFICULT TO READ, COULD YOU PLEASE USE PARAGRAPHS. Dear Cupid: I am 36 yrs old who was happily married to her best friend since the last six years. I was pregnant last year but miscarried, and that...

Should I break up with my live-in girlfriend?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2427 days ago

4 April 2018 (M) - I am in a long term relationship and my gf isnt interested in sex. I've always had a higher sex drive than her but she only wants sex when it is her cycle for a kid. I want a kid but college is starting to get stressful and I dont think I want to ...

He lied about an ex. Should I end things?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2426 days ago

3 April 2018 (F) - Last night I caught my bf of only 3 weeks in a lie. We started dating in January but only became an official couple in March. When I first started dating him, I asked him when did his last relationship end. He told me he had a gf in the summer of ...

Please help me stand up for myself

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2427 days ago

2 April 2018 (F) - I am sick of my friends not listening to me and then punishinhg me with rumors and the silent treatment. OK. Sometimes, it's fun for me, JUST TO HAVE A CRUSH ON SOMEBODY. It's fun and it's safe and I can feel all happy inside and I don't have to ...

I suspect my daughter in law is having sex with my boyfriend

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2419 days ago

2 April 2018 (?) - I suspect my daughter in law who is married for 11 yrs to my son on having an affair with my boyfriend of 10 years. I believe this has been going on for sometime now. I have no hard proof,just what I see with my own eyes. My gut instant is so sure, ...