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female
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36-40,
*inkdiamondprincess87
writes: My boyfriend and I have been dating over a year now. I really want him to be my first sexual partner (he is not a virgin). He never pressures me to do anything; he always ask. When we attempts of having sex, I always get nervousness. How can I get over this fear of being my first time? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, aunty_rach +, writes (1 November 2008):
it's natural to be a little nervous, as you do not know what to expect. i was nervous and in the end i just thought to myself "just do it." so i did and i felt much better after. so all i can say is relax and just let him do all the work for your first time. if it gets too much just ask him to stop and maybe finish him off with oral sex or a hand job. just enjoy.
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