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Marriage problems: Help and advice

He's starting a new job and I've begun to worry about it!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2637 days ago

29 September 2017 (F) - Hello everyone! My hubby has been unemployed for over a year. Last summer I encouraged him to apply for a good job I knew he wanted... and today we got the news that he got it and he starts on Monday!! Exciting, right? Well... I was excited at first ...

Am I lacking backbone?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2633 days ago

29 September 2017 (M) - Hi there, I wonder if you can help me a little further. I am fundamentally unable to deal with mood swings from my wife. They are rare and for the majority of the time we’re absolutely fine. Then suddenly, out of the blue she will descend into wha...

What should I do as I see my husband is not using his own proportion in his family? Should I support him to keep independent and works extremely hard like this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2636 days ago

28 September 2017 (F) - I need honest opinion. My husband is the youngest and only son in his family. Got 2 older sisters. We are asian. We just married for a couple months ago. I found out recently that his sister has a glamourous lifestyle eventhough she keep borrow ...

Should I stand firm or offer reconcilliation?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2638 days ago

28 September 2017 (M) - Hello aunts, My question here is simple. I fought with my wife last night. The reason was that she started complaining and saying she wishes she didn't have to pay rent (we pay half-and-half currently) so that then she could buy more things. ...

I'm pregnant and my husband's sexual demands are taking a toll on our marriage

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2640 days ago

25 September 2017 (F) - Yesterday my husband came away from a childs party to use his fake vagina, which i never knew he had. I know this will seem like a pathetic reason to be upset but i just cant help feeling insecure and disgusted. Weve been together for over 11 years, ...

I know I could have an amazing life with mistress but don't want to hurt my wife and children

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 2622 days ago

25 September 2017 (M) - Hi. I am really confused and need advice. Here goes with a bit of background and my position. I am an almost 49 year old man and have been married for almost 25 years.we have 3 Kids.one of which has now left home. My wife gave up work 17 years ag...

I feel like leaving my husband how do I change this feeling ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2640 days ago

24 September 2017 (F) - I need advice, I'm 22 and my husband is 39. We are married one year and have a 6 month old daughter. My husband and I got on well most of the time and he was generally someone I could call my best friend but Lately I have just felt like leaving him. ...

My wife's sexual past has become a sticking point for me

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 2645 days ago

22 September 2017 (M) - OK this might be a bit long winded but here we go. So I have been happilyish married for nearly ten years now. I met my wife in 2003 while on my OE in London and we got together and started dating and then eventually the "how many people have you ...

I desperately want to reconcile with my ex husband. He had sex with me after he had broken up with his girlfriend but hasn't contacted me since

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2641 days ago

22 September 2017 (F) - This is a long story and I apologize but I really need some advice from some neutral parties here. I am wanting to reconcile with my ex-husband. We were married for 4 years. He was and still is the love of my life but he left me for another ...

I am unhappy at home, and flirting with my ex boyfriend

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2647 days ago

21 September 2017 (F) - I am married for nearly 4 years and lived together for 5 years . Since having my son last year , everything has changed . We both very good with looking after our son but My partner seems to be on the phone so much , which has been locked fo...

I had an affair with my ex husband's cousin and don't know what to do with the feelings I have

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2647 days ago

21 September 2017 (F) - I am married, my husband is my best friend and I really don't deserve him. This is my second marriage to the same man, we married,divorced cos he left me for someone else and we were both very young first time anyway. We got back together and were...

What are your thoughts on surprising someone that hates surprises & is worried about money?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2648 days ago

21 September 2017 (F) - we've been Trying to conceive for over a year and a half now and both of us are self employed and super stressed out. So I decided that for my husbands birthday I would surprise him with a trip to the Netherlands to see this band that he loves! but ...

How do I get him to understand my loneliness?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2649 days ago

18 September 2017 (F) - Hi everyone. I'm just looking for a bit of advice. I am married to my partner who I've known since we were kids. I've been feeling so lonely recently as I feel like I've lost connection with my friends. I work and sit at home waiting for my husba...

I'm worried about my husband's business venture

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2653 days ago

16 September 2017 (F) - My husband is starting up a business and is very excited. He dedicated his life to it and we seldom get quality time as a newly married couple. If he is busy with his own job, i can understand. I know certainly what his business is. But this mor...

My step daughter is making my life hell!

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 2651 days ago

15 September 2017 (F) - My step daughter is making my life hell. I'm a nurse on a trauma unit and I work nights. My job is stressful enough without coming home to a battle every day. My husband is far from perfect but his main flaw is his unwillingness to discipline his ...

I'm bored and miss affection in our marriage!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2654 days ago

14 September 2017 (F) - I have been married for 6 years now. The past four years has been boring. Not sure if that's how all marriages become. The sex is boring and comes once a month. No kissing or hugs for four years. He doesn't call me sweet names anymore. He just ...

Husband has changed after marriage, is aggressive in bed and demands rough anal sex. How do I fix things?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2648 days ago

14 September 2017 (?) - Hi was looking for some advice. My husband has changed since we got married he, he became really fussy about everything I do and he's quite aggressive when it comes to being intimate. Nothing I ever do is right or good enough for him anymore. I ...

How should I deal with this fantasy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2653 days ago

13 September 2017 (M) - I have been married 30 yrs. As far as I know my wife has never cheated.I find myself fantasizing lately watching her have sex with a stranger with a huge penis. I don;t mean like an affair. I set it up with an escort service and watch. It is not as ...

Should I cut ties with my family to appease my wife?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2608 days ago

13 September 2017 (M) - My wife and I are 10 years happily married with a 5 year old child. An issue has arisen recently that is causing great trauma and I would be very grateful of some worldly-wise advice and help to find a way forward. We like in the UK , I am fr...

Heartbroken even though I dumped him and now I want him to chase me and get me back

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2658 days ago

9 September 2017 (F) - I need your help folks. I was seeing a guy who was coming out of a marriage. He was single for about 8 months and we started seeing each other. Both of us knew each other locally and we were both surprised when we got to know each other and ...

I'm on the verge of having an affair

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2650 days ago

9 September 2017 (F) - Dear Cupid, I am about to start an affair, I'm 30 year old woman, in along term relationship. I've been married for so many years and we have 2 children. I have a stable life, extremely loving husband, too loving he doesn't get the concept ...

She says she will leave him for me, but wont say when!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2657 days ago

8 September 2017 (M) - I need some advice. I know that what I am about to say isn’t the best situation or the moral thing to get involved in, but it just happens. Now i fell in love and I don’t know what to do. There are so many parts to this story and I will try to keep ...

My wife of 30 years just confessed that she was not a virgin

This question has 23 answers - newest was posted 2185 days ago

2 September 2017 (M) - my wife of 30 years confessed that she was not a virgin when we were married. I was not a virgin when we met and if she had told me before we were married I would have been fine with it. My problem is she made such a big deal of telling me she was ...