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Archived questions from: September, 2011 (see latest in Love stories category)

Love stories: Help and advice

I cannot ignore my former LDR any more. I took a risk. Was this the right way to reconnect with him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4837 days ago

26 September 2011 (F) - Five months ago, I told a long-distance love (I live in LA; he's from San Fran) that I couldn't do it anymore. Mainly, because he would constantly tell me he missed me and wanted to see me, yet wouldn't follow through. Granted, we only dated six ...

Advice on moving forward with girlfriend,

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4837 days ago

26 September 2011 (M) - Hey all, So I met this girl over the summer and have been seeing her for about two months now. She is amazing. She has made me happier than i have ever imagined. I almost didn't go back to school because of her. I just have a few question...

How do you know if the love is real and if it's worth the chase?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4838 days ago

25 September 2011 (M) - How do you know if love is real. What if you accidently find it and think its right, but do you go with the words you hear or what you feel in your heart and if she is gone is she worth the chase?...

How can I tell her my cousin about my unconditional feeling for her? Will she understand?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4840 days ago

21 September 2011 (M) - How and When can I confess my feeling towards my cousin? She is my third cousin to be exact... but i think the word "cousin" have corrupted it all. Here's a detail background on how we've met. In 2004, around the beginning of the fourth ...

How do I make him realize she hasn't changed and that I love him more than just friends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4843 days ago

20 September 2011 (F) - I just turned 20 and i think i am falling for my best guy friend he is turning 30 in november! We have know each other for almost 10+ years and he is like my big brother. I never thought that i would have feelings like this for him. We do everything ...

Am I crazy for leaping into this new relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4844 days ago

19 September 2011 (F) - Hey there... I am so confused. I'd been in a relationship for 6 years and I just fell in love with somebody else. I feel terrible because I of course had to leave my bf to be with this new guy (a friend I'd known for yearsm actually... not that new) ...

I'm falling in love with a women who is with someone and who has a child with him, but things aren't good between them. What do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4843 days ago

19 September 2011 (M) - Hi, I'm falling in love with a women who is with someone and who has a child with him. Things are not good in there relationship though, she has spoke to me about it a couple of times and a few times said its make or break. I give her the best ...

How many men still find their wife attractive as she ages?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4841 days ago

19 September 2011 (F) - I hear a lot about men desiring younger women, and of wives being heart broken over their husbands leaving them for a younger woman. So i'm curious, how many men still find their wife attractive as she ages? and after kids? do you still desire her...

Idealistic Love VS Realistic Love

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3278 days ago

19 September 2011 (F) - Idealistic love is attraction, intimacy, perfection. Realistic love is attraction AND attachment, intimacy AND commitment and perfection found in imperfection. Everyone wants to be in idealistic love. Fact: It only happens in fantasies, movie...

Do guys often say as a joke: "I am going to marry this girl"?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4844 days ago

19 September 2011 (F) - So I got a close friend who has been telling me about a childhood friend of hers (also Cuban like her) who has been living in the USA more than 10 years now. He recently came out of a messy relationship and is going to come visit her in Spain so...

Love. There’s no feeling like it in the world.

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17 September 2011 (M) - Love. There’s no feeling like it in the world. When you’re into a girl, everything in your life seems different. Colors seem more vivid. Everything you do has a different purpose. Life seems more worth living. It’s not surprising that S...

Suggestions for a short driving vacation from New Mexico?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4846 days ago

17 September 2011 (F) - Our one year anniversary is fast approaching and we don't have a lot of money but want to go somewhere for a romantic 4 days. We live in southern New Mexico so we're not close to California or Florida. Any cool romantic places we go drive to ...

How can I tell my straight friend that I love him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4847 days ago

15 September 2011 (M) - Why is it hard to tell that person you love him? I'm a gay and he is straight! And of now he never answers my txtmsgs or my chat msgs. But I never tried to tell him that I care for him, because I don't want to risk our friendship and a...

Is a relationship worth the risk of being cheated on?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4843 days ago

12 September 2011 (M) - I have always had a fear of relationships but what really scares me is if I ever fell in "Love" that I would be cheated on. Ive heard and read stories of people that are in happy relationships and then one day they wake up and realize their partner ...

What exactly, makes you love someone?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4852 days ago

11 September 2011 (?) - I would just like to ask for reference. In your opinion, what is a good reason to be in love with someone.I'm asking because I've been thinking about this alot and I'm kind of stumped. Like would one reason be the fact that the person that you...

He says I'm perfect... for fun?!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4852 days ago

10 September 2011 (F) - I'm at a major cross roads in my life and just don't know what to do for the best. Around 6 years ago I got in touch with my HS sweetheart we had dated a little but he got obsessed so I stopped contact just before we finished school. We m...

If you get a chance for love, you should go for it!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4849 days ago

7 September 2011 (F) - 40 yrs ago we met we were both married with children we had an affair i had a son by him we were really in love.no one only his wife knew of our affair his wife had an affair with my brother she did not care . but because of housing situation we ...

UPDATE What can I say to get a conversation going?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4844 days ago

6 September 2011 (M) - Hello again, everyone. I posted a question on here on the 5th July this year. Briefly, I was running into a woman on the journey to work every day and did I think she was the most beautiful woman that I'd ever seen? Yes! The question I asked was, as ...

Is it too soon to say "I love you"?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4858 days ago

4 September 2011 (M) - Okay, so recently (about a month)I started dating this girl. She was my first girlfriend I did ANYTHING with, I even lost my virginity to her...Is it too soon to say "I love you" or am I just caught up in post sex lust? ...

He was jealous but now he wants me back...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4859 days ago

4 September 2011 (F) - Wel i advice you see my ex boyfriend broke up with me because he was jealous that i was always talking to my guy best friend that he l8r never liked.i was hurt and now he admits that he was wrong and wants to get back together. i mean i do love him, ...

How far should I distance myself from her, and how will I know the right time to be with her again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4858 days ago

3 September 2011 (M) - Okay so here's my situation... I've been dating an amazing girl for 15 months, 13 months long-distance. She lived with an abusive family. At one point she was extremely depressed and emotionally wrecked so she sought me for help. Thus, I called t...

He ignores me and lied to me, yet I want him! Why does he keep me around if not interested?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4860 days ago

3 September 2011 (F) - i have been talking to a guy for a year and some months, before in the beginning he was so caring and sweet , always wanting to see me, and of course i was kind of stand off ish to him. when i decieded i really cared deeply for him, he turned ...

I do care about her but I feel she is being somewhat silly if she thinks our relationship can sustain without intimacy and sex. Am I being selfish?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4859 days ago

3 September 2011 (M) - I am a 33 year old, frustrated male and I am really hoping for some impartial advice. I have been with my girlfriend for just over eighteen months. We currently live apart but I know that she is eager for me to move in with her and her little g...

I'm at a loss as to what to write in our 1 year anniversary card?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4861 days ago

2 September 2011 (F) - Hi, I'd love some ideas from both male and female readers about what to write in my boyfriend's 1 year anniversary card, please. Obviously we've been together a year, and we've been through a lot....good times and not so good times, including a ...

Am I scared of getting married, or is something else going on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4861 days ago

2 September 2011 (M) - Hi, I have questions that I wish to have answered, but I do not think an answer exists to these questions. I guess I am looking for what other people think, and I am not expecting some magic response... My fiancee and I have been together...

Help me! How can I convince my girl that I love her!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4861 days ago

2 September 2011 (M) - My girlfriend gets absolutely crazy if she thinks she has caught me looking at another girl. She absolutely believes I'm gawking at every single girl that walks by and I honestly don't even try to look at any other girl. And she thinks she can go ...

How can I get over the ex to move on with my new man?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4861 days ago

2 September 2011 (F) - My ex boyfriend was a cheater. He slept with other women atleast three times in our 2 year long relationship, and was constantly looking for "better" (going out to meet girls, online accounts, etc.) He was not good to me a lot of the time, but ...

Do temperaments or the sun signs really matter in getting the right life partner?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4862 days ago

1 September 2011 (M) - Does temperaments or the sun signs really matter in getting the right life partner?...

Can you have a love relationship with someone you don't find especially attractive?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4859 days ago

1 September 2011 (F) - I'm 31 year old, generally stable, happy person. I am making my way in my chosen field of work and have good friends, good family relationships. However, I've been a bit unlucky when it comes to love relationships. No problem attracting men, ...

My family won't approve my American girlfriend, I'm leaving them for her, is this a correct decision?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4862 days ago

1 September 2011 (M) - For the last 22 months, I have been involved in LDR with a beautiful American girl and unfortunately she is blind since birth. I met her there when I was visiting the USA for three months in October 2009. It took her 5 days to accept me as bo...