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Love stories: Help and advice

To the hopeless love

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31 October 2010 (?) - There isn't any formula or method. You learn to love by loving-- by paying attention and doing what one thereby discovers has to be done. -Aldous Leonard Huxley...

Why is he so different from the other guys?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5136 days ago

31 October 2010 (F) - Why is my boyfriend soo different? we were chatting for 3months..we went out on a few dates and he asked me to be his girlfriend. he thinks am different from any other girl hes been with with. hes really sweet, attentive, caring and ...

Will you marry me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5133 days ago

29 October 2010 (F) - That's how everything started. Before the dating phase, my boyfriend and I used to go out in a huge group and have fun. I liked him a lot, but I didn't know if he reciprocated my feelings, so all I could do is flirt with him, hoping that some...

I asked him to be my boyfriend, but no affirmative answer. Should I just smile and wait?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5130 days ago

29 October 2010 (F) - I met this guy online. He contacted me last November and I have seen him 5 times since then. He makes me laugh, we have very complementary personalities, and he inspires me to be a better and stronger person. Sex with him was the best I ever had ...

How can I get over someone and not be so upset all the time?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5125 days ago

28 October 2010 (F) - Hi I was just wondering how you get over someone?? because I am in love with someone but they don't love me, but everytime I try to forget about them something just comes along and just reminds me of them, or someone will say there name or somethin...

Girlfriend moving to Brazil - She says she loves me but I need advice!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5113 days ago

27 October 2010 (M) - I am 27 and have been in a relationship with a 24 year old woman for 3 months. We have done so much together and our relationship has been developing fast. We go on trips together, enjoy the outdoors, and just love being together. She says that she ...

I am ready to say "I love you", and okay with being the first to say it, but should I? Should I just wait?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5128 days ago

26 October 2010 (F) - We have been dating 9 months, 7 of the months have been pretty serious. We are both divorced and he has a four year old little girl who i get along with great and he has equal joint custody of..... I spend the night often but i make the decision to ...

The process of (LDBI)

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5131 days ago

24 October 2010 (?) - This article consists of four simple words, Love, despair, broken, and incomplete. In other words the process of LDBI. Everyone goes through this process atleast once in their life, maybe more. Let me explain this process to you in greater detail. L...

What should I expect from this visit? We are about to embark on a long-distance relationship, I hope!

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22 October 2010 (M) - Finally, I met a wonderful girl. We were both in the same place doing an internship this past summer. She quickly became one of the best friends I've ever had, and we did everything together over the summer. The problem was, she was in a ...

Beautiful letters from a former colleague and lover, would it be unethical to publish them?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5128 days ago

22 October 2010 (F) - Several years ago when clearing out a filing cabinet at work, my colleague found several very thick folders of love letters. They were between a married former colleague and a man with whom she was conducting an affair. My friend wanted to throw ...

We are eventually getting married why won't he talk about it?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5146 days ago

21 October 2010 (F) - Why is it a problem for me to mention marriage and/or anything about marriage and/or weddings to my boyfriend? We are not engaged yet, but he says we will be eventually. Why can't I talk about these things with him? This has been my life-long dream: ...

Should I wait for him even at the risk of ending up alone?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5140 days ago

20 October 2010 (F) - i have a very serious question that i need some closure on. please don't think i'm silly for asking it. first you need the back story. i grew up going to church every time the doors were open. it was nice especially for children because...

So torn between two wonderful men

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5147 days ago

19 October 2010 (F) - So I have noticed that this is a common issue with women: I am torn between two men. For your sake, I will give you a brief intro to both men and then explain the situation. Man #1: We were officially together for a year and 2 months. We had a...

Was there a little shine there maybe?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5152 days ago

15 October 2010 (F) - is he Interested or not?? Just returned from a cruise and a much younger man who I fancied from before was still working on there-several people always book to go back on. he is going on another ship soon but I wont rebook Last time I was on t...

When is the right time to tell someone you love them?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5154 days ago

12 October 2010 (F) - When is the right time to tell someone you love them? I've been with my new bf for 2 months, and I feel I've fallen in love with him. I wasn't expecting too, and wasn't looking for a relationship when I met him, but he is truly lovely. He tells ...

Just the ordinary girl with the question... do you think this is love?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5155 days ago

10 October 2010 (F) - im stuck here and i need help even thought i think ive got the answer on my own! i just want to know what others think. i postded an article like this only a few hours ago as i have only registered for a day or two, then i noticed i had stated ...

A Glimpse into Love

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5146 days ago

10 October 2010 (F) - I'm the kind of girl who goes around barefoot, fights pessimism daily, and has thoughts wild enough to graze with antelope. I've heard love on the radio- songs that sigh heartbreak or gush with joy at finding someone who truly grasped their he...

How did you know he/she was the right person to settle down with?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5158 days ago

9 October 2010 (F) - I am in my mid twenties and my boyfriend is almost 30. We both are mature, hard-working adults with steady professional jobs. I am happy with our current status. All of his friends are getting married. We have lived together for about a year and ...

I am crazy about him, is it too soon to tell him?

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9 October 2010 (F) - I have been seeing a guy for the last 3 months. He cooks me dinner, sends me messages saying sweet dreams almost every night and i'm pretty sure he told me the other night while i was half asleep that he "really likes me". I'm crazy about him but ...

He's been using the word 'love' in our chats, should I tell him I've noticed or just carry on as normal?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5161 days ago

6 October 2010 (?) - hi just a quick one, been here before, just need a little advise on what to do, my man, who i have been with for over a year and half, and we are in LDR, but we are fully committed do all a LDR does, he has a bit of a hard time telling me his ...

I'm seriously in love with her and want to know how to prove it, as she doesn't have much time to hang out with me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5163 days ago

3 October 2010 (M) - i met this girl freshan year at first it started as a crush and well it started to grow we did things as if we were a couple but i never officially asked her to be my gf,,,time passed by and i was juss an idiot and still never did,,,sophmore year ...

Should I just be patient?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5096 days ago

1 October 2010 (F) - I met my boyfriend this January during exchange study. Then the following seven months, we spent almost all of our time together. Then during our final month, I went back to his country and met his family and friends. We are each other first serious ...