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Love stories: Help and advice

What are good ways to show affection that women like?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5534 days ago

29 October 2009 (M) - I was just wondering if most women like lots of affection from someone there dating..... What are good ways to show affection that women like ?...

This is the man I want to spend the rest of my life with!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5540 days ago

23 October 2009 (F) - Hello all, I have a complicated situation. I consider myself to be clear of mind and a high thinker. But this problem I simply cannot solve. My former flame and I were together for a short time. A year and a half. He was my first and only everyt...

What can I do to get over this? Am I completely nuts?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5541 days ago

22 October 2009 (F) - Hi, I've got this problem. I just got out of a very abusive six year relationship a few months ago, and there's all this court stuff to deal with. I came to terms with it, and was doing fine. Feeling much better, even relieved because the burd...

She's given up money and material things for love, to be with me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5541 days ago

22 October 2009 (M) - Just looking for some input from women or men, anyone who has been with a lot of money and passed it by for true love. My fiance has dated several very wealthy OLDER men, and I mean very wealthy and I mean very older, like 30 years older. But...

He said "'I just want you to want me". What does that mean?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5347 days ago

21 October 2009 (F) - What does it mean when a guy says 'I just want you to want me'? Yesterday I was talking to this guy who i had been dating on and off... we were talking about one of our guy friends and he said he felt happy we were having that talk. He then said he ...

I want to sleep with my girl friend...how can I convince my husband to share?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5544 days ago

19 October 2009 (F) - I have been married for 14 years to a wonderful man that I am very much in love with. However after I got married I realized that I was bisexual. About ten years ago I had a girlfriend that he knew about and I loved her very much. At that time he ...

How do you know when someone is for you?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5547 days ago

16 October 2009 (F) - Hello guys, I have kind of a gerenal question. How do you know when someone is right for you/ the right love? I know you have to work for love but how hard. Are you suppose to work really hard or is that just a hint it's not the right love...

Men, when did you realise that your wife was the one you wanted to be with for the rest of your life?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5547 days ago

16 October 2009 (F) - To all married men out there, when did you realize that your wife was the one you wanted to marry? How long had you been seeing her before you guys got married and what kind of circumstance was it? Like were you friends first, were you high school ...

I've loved her for over 40yrs. How can I change her mind?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5545 days ago

15 October 2009 (M) - I am embarrassed to ask this as I am 62 years old male. 40years ago I fell head over heels in love with a girl. Our mothers worked together and that is how I met her. She was still in High School. This will sound very odd, but we never dated at ...

Broken Heart, Broken Brain

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5549 days ago

15 October 2009 (F) - I am 27. My husband and I started dating when I was 20. I loved him very much and he was my very best friend. He passed away a little over a month ago at age 28. He was very sick. I waited on him hand and foot and did everything to try to make him ...

I'm in love but I'm scared to tell her! Advice please

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5549 days ago

14 October 2009 (M) - Im in love with my girlfriend ive been with for 2 months. I have recently had fallen in love with her but im scared to tell her. We already had sexual relationship but besides that its been going perfect. We enjoy each and we miss and think about ...

Is talking on chat lines a form of cheating?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3072 days ago

13 October 2009 (F) - my husband has recently been talking on this chat line invu, he stay up all night talking to women about things that are inappropriate,i have talked to him about it and he is staying on it. he say it isn't cheating because it is not real, I think it ...

The perfect girl is too close to me to have

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5550 days ago

13 October 2009 (M) - I've been playing in a serious band for almost a year now. One of the members of the band is female. Her and I have become very close, and have pretty much everything in common that we possibly good. The fact that we have the same passion (music) is ...

How do I tell her I'm okay with whatever she decides?

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12 October 2009 (M) - Me and my Muslim female friend told each we liked one another about a month ago we havent talked about our feelings since. so tomorrow i'm planning on telling her to face to face that i have fallen in love with her however i don't know what to say ...

Will a long distance relationship work for us?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5551 days ago

12 October 2009 (F) - I have fallen in love with a 20 year old man from America and my problem is i AM 27, have a child and i AM living in England We talk every night sing talk on the phone and tell each other how much we love each other We haven't met yet and i wish i...

I'll always be thinking that it could have been me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5552 days ago

11 October 2009 (F) - I've just found out that the love of my life will be moving back to my hometown in a few months.... with his fiancée! I'll have to tell you guys a little bit of our history so you'll understand the situation I'm in - right now I'm terrible unhappy...

How can I tell if he loves me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5552 days ago

11 October 2009 (F) - i am in love with this guy, known him for 2years since August 2007, met in church. i watched him secretly and i notice that he also tries to approach me and my sister said he always look at me secretly.the problem is when he approaches me, he did ...

I really want to be with him forever so how do I make sure this happens?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5553 days ago

11 October 2009 (F) - Ok so I just recently got back with my ex boyfriend of 1 1/2 months. He races motocross and is in the pro class. He was always gone every weekend to other states so we never got to see one another. [We broke up partly because of this]. Motocross ...

Can you feel it if your soulmate dies without having ever met them?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5448 days ago

9 October 2009 (F) - A very weird question I know but my friend has recently been telling me that she has these really bad aches as though she has lost someone in her life, which she hasn't, and she says it feels like she can never love anyone again but she doesn't know ...

I've been in a relationship for over 3 years now and I'm starting to have doubts.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5553 days ago

9 October 2009 (F) - Hi. I have a dilemma. I've been in a relationship for over 3 years now and I'm starting to have doubts. He's really sweet, kind, generous, loves me for me, I can be completely myself around him, he's dependable, smart and hard working with a ...

I'm 17 and Confused about the relationship between me and a very good friend, can anyone help?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5554 days ago

9 October 2009 (M) - Right, Hello um...where do i begin... i am a recently turned 17 year old studying art in my second year at college. When I started my first year, theres this girl that was in my course but not in my that i found attractive but was to shy to approach...

He says I'm amazing, but doesn't show it. Does he really like me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5555 days ago

9 October 2009 (F) - hey guys! im 20 years old. I've been talking to this boy for like 3 months now, he's perfect, sweet, and stoburn there's times we fight a lot but we make up right after I have never felt so right in my life....problem is that he only says that he ...

She's just not that into me and should I forget it!!!

This question has 25 answers - newest was posted 5422 days ago

5 October 2009 (M) - Hi :) I've been seeing the lady for 5 months now. She is 41, 2 kids separated for 3 years and her life is upside down - no job, bankrupt and mentally exhausted but an amazing women. She is trying to get out of it and probably will but who knows. I...

Could this guy from my past be the real thing?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5454 days ago

4 October 2009 (F) - I had a friend 20 years ago while serving in the Army. He was working with me and my husband too at the time. I am now divorced from that husband and seperated from my current husband. When we were in the service together, we often hung out at my ...

My long lost love, my soulmate, has come back, but he's married!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5561 days ago

2 October 2009 (F) - Hi, Over 12 years ago, as a teen, i was with the man whom i now know was my soul mate. He was very much in love with me and we were together for 2 years then off and on for 1 year after. I left the country and moved away. I was younger than him...

Is there such thing as love at first sight?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5559 days ago

1 October 2009 (M) - Is there such thing as love at first sight? Iv met this girl and only been out with her a few times and something just feels right about it and like we have a connection, i didnt want to sat anything but she said thats how she felt the same wa...