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Archived questions from: October, 2006 (see latest in Long distance category)

Long distance: Help and advice

Why do I have to choose one of them?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6595 days ago

31 October 2006 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for 14 months now and we are looking into spending our lives together very soon. My boyfriend is going oversea for six months to travel on his own, hoping to gain more experience in his life (which he truly lacks). He ...

My husband works far away and is not keen on on visiting or coming home to us. What should I do about this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6595 days ago

31 October 2006 (F) - My husband started a new job and relocated to one of the islands just one month short of a year ago. He knows I hate living by myself and I am rearing our 12 year old daughter who had to stay with me all on my own. She visits him during school ...

I like this online guy but am heartbroken that we both have to be just friends, due to the distance.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6584 days ago

30 October 2006 (F) - I met a guy on a chat site... and even though i wasnt looking for love... from the very first day speaking to each other..we just "clicked"..and even though I know that he feels the same way... the fact that he lives 6 hours away.. has made a ...

Completely lovesick over my Cypriot. What do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6298 days ago

30 October 2006 (F) - i have just come back from a holiday in cyprus and met this gorgeous man who worked out there. he took me out and didn have to pay a penny. he said it was a miracle to meet me. i haven felt like this about anyone he was so romantic, and caring and ...

Do I risk it all for a younger guy, with no certain job prospects that I love with a constant desire I have not felt with my bf? Is this a long-dull-period?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6596 days ago

30 October 2006 (F) - I fell in love when I was 19 and have been with the same guy ever since (now I am 25). 2 years ago he went overseas to pursue higher education and we've been dating long distance in the meantime (I stayed on to study locally). We always plann...

Should I break up with my gf of 2 months? She kissed her ex because he is depressed and lonely.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6596 days ago

30 October 2006 (M) - Hi there Ive been going out with my gf for 2 months now things were going gud. I live 3 hours away so i do get to c her that often mayb once a month. Last week i went over and she told me that he xboyfreind had kiss her. She did not like it but ...

Should i lie to my folks

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6598 days ago

28 October 2006 (F) - My bf is leavin the country soon we both stay in different cities he cant come n see me and now he wants me to come there, i have to take a lot of risks if i really wanted to see him but still he wants me to come.my folks will never let me go if i ...

Worried about this long distance relationship--will it work?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6599 days ago

27 October 2006 (M) - Hi, i have known this girl for about 8 months now. We talk most nights and text during the day. Its been established that we really do like eachother just we live too far away. I live near london and she lives near York. My last relationship with a ...

His mom's death is making my boyfriend seem distant! Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6600 days ago

25 October 2006 (F) - My boyfriend is 30 years old and he has 5 siblings but have to take care of 2 younger ones after his mother’s death 5 months ago who died tragically. I understand it is a great loss to get over I had lost my father too so I know how it feels like ...

Is there something between me and this guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6601 days ago

25 October 2006 (F) - I'm not going to say exactly how old i am, but i will say i am in my mid-late teens. There is this guy i REALLY like... he's a few years older than me, he's really sweet, charming, good looking, great smile, has his life planned out and we have alot ...

If we keep writing and getting to know each other like this will things be better when he comes home???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6602 days ago

24 October 2006 (F) - Hey everyone, I live in delaware, and this guy I'm seeing is staying in Pittsburg P.A for three months. We hit it off really well before he left, and hes already wrote me 2 times. if we keep writting eachother and getting to know eachothe...

Long distance romance-I'm annoyed because I make all the travel plans and huge efforts...he doesn't! What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6603 days ago

23 October 2006 (F) - Hi everyone... long distance relationship advice please???? My boyfriend and I see each other every two weeks - we live in different countries. We have been doing this for two years. I always feel like I have to be the person who organises w...

Do I follow the girl of my dreams in hopes that it won't become a nightmare?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5331 days ago

23 October 2006 (M) - i need some help trying to figure out what exactly is going on in my relationship with this girl. we've been friends for a good while now, but have always had a weird connection with each other, but never got together because we both had ties to ...

My Internet guy says he loves me... but I'm 28 with a child and a boyfriend, and the 'net guy is 18 and 6 hours away!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6604 days ago

20 October 2006 (F) - hi, well ive met this guy on the internet and he keeps saying he loves me,dnt know what to do im 28 with a child and boy friend i dnt get on with this guy is only 18, and says im right for him i do really like him he also live 6 hrs away ,plz help ...

I should be glad we are going to see more of each other but after I see him things are worse as I get upset and over emotional!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6605 days ago

20 October 2006 (F) - Hi everybody This might be confusing but ill have a go. My boyfriend works away Starting begining of november i should be able to see him once a week This will be great because before now we have gone up to 6 weeks without seeing each other....

I don't think he contacts me enough when we're not together... am I being over-sensitive?

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19 October 2006 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for nearly 2 years now i'm only just 20 and we only see each other 2 or 3 times a week when we are together he's very attentive we always have good sex and he does so much for me, like he bought me a laptop when i was ...

How can I deal with the distance, and his 'new' friend better?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6607 days ago

19 October 2006 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost 9 months, and recently we both started different universities. I am having a really hard time dealing with the distance and separation, and on top of eveything he has made this really good friend at ...

Could we have a relationship in time?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6612 days ago

14 October 2006 (F) - When my boyfriends mother moved across the country he decided to go with her. We stayed together and our relationship went through a rocky time. He moved back to make things better but it just got worse. He just couldnt make enough money here so he ...

Any ideas what I can give my fiance as a reminder of me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6613 days ago

12 October 2006 (F) - Me and my fiance are in a long distance relationship. I find it very hard, I miss him like crazy and love him so much but the distance drives me mad. I have got a couple things that remind me of him, this gets me through. I do still miss him t...

What are her intentions for a relationship with me? Is she on the up and up?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6615 days ago

12 October 2006 (M) - i'm confused by my friends intentions. coming up here soon in december, this girl and i are graduating from college. we have every opportunity to go anywhere we want, and she's got it set that she wants me to go with her wherever we decide. We've ...

I love her, even though she doesnt treat me right anymore, but she does say she loves me!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4435 days ago

12 October 2006 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been together for about 10 months now. We obviously started out great and this lasted for a few months, but over the last few months she has become more and more distant. We have a long-distance relationship (1 hr. drive) so ...

We were long distance for 6 years, why did he continue to live with his wife but claim to love me ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6615 days ago

11 October 2006 (F) - hi..i am a 27 year old female, was living in a long distance relationship with a man, 33 now, for 6 years.can someone plse help me understand why cant a married man, who claims that he loves someone else yet continue to live with his wife ( married ...

Where is my long distance relationship heading?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6615 days ago

10 October 2006 (F) - Dear Cupid I have been contact with a guy going on for almost a year now. We started off writting on the internet and finally met about 7 month ago. we instantly like each other and have kept in touch for most of this time. dates, birthdays...

BF has received oral from other girls. Should I give him a second chance?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6595 days ago

10 October 2006 (F) - I need some serious advice--I apologize if this is long. Background info: I have been in a relationship for 6 years. We met as undergraduates and spent a little over a year together before I was accepted to graduate school across the country. I ...

I think the drink is messing with my girlfriends feelings. What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6617 days ago

9 October 2006 (M) - Hi my girlfriend recentaly went up to hull university we have been together for two years. I visited her for the first time after two weeks since she went up. She said that she felt confused and she didnt want to be in a relationship anymore before ...

After watching a movie, it made me send a loving text message. She never responded. Was I stupid?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6117 days ago

8 October 2006 (M) - hey, last night i watched this film and it really got me thinking about how much people mean to me in my life and i text this girl late at nite (one in the morning) and told her that when she moves from holland back to england im going to give her a ...

She is now in Australia with her mum and dad

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6618 days ago

8 October 2006 (M) - Hi I have abig problem in my life. Im a 32 year old male. Thats not the problem by the way. I met this wonderful women about 16 months ago. She was with someone at the time and I was single, we were from different parts of the country. Shes from Auc...

Should I just let her be hard nosed?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6617 days ago

7 October 2006 (M) - Our friends recently got married outside of the country and their parents are having a wedding celebration party for all the folks stateside who couldn't go to the wedding. The wedding "party" is also fairly far away, 11 hours by car, and since ...

I'm asking for advice of grown adults who have minds

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6618 days ago

7 October 2006 (M) - I need your advice... I bet you all get sick of teenagers like me. I'm telling you this and asking for your advice because most of you are grown adults who have minds, and have been through it before and know what to do, or know what advice to g...

I just found out that my bf is going to shipped in 2 days!! It's tearing me apart.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6618 days ago

7 October 2006 (F) - ok here is the problem my boyfriend got out of Basic 4 months ago where he promised me that he had signed up for the reserves so he would not be shipped out well I just found out that he is going to shipped in 2 days!! and I dont know how to handle ...

I have been offered to live in a flat with 2 girls. I really need a place to live, but I don't know how my long distance gf would feel. Any suggestions?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6072 days ago

7 October 2006 (M) - hi my problem is that i have been havin a long distance relationship for a few months now and love her to bits(despite what people say about long distance relationships i really do love her)anyway i have been offered by a pair of girls to move int...

How can I tell my girlfriend I need time to get my life organised?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6618 days ago

7 October 2006 (M) - I have recently become involved with my long-time friend in a long distance relationship. She comes from a totally different background to me, and she currently lives with her ex-boyfriend in a flat. She is unable to afford this flat on her own, ...

Just found out my Marine BF is being sent to Iraq in 2 days!! I don't know what to do. Please help.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6588 days ago

7 October 2006 (F) - ok here is the deal my boyfriend who I have been with for about a year graduated from the Marines two months ago and said that he signed up for the reserves but they are making him go to Iraq anyway and he leave in 2 DAYS!! I dont really know how I ...

I dont want to be with a "male slut"

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6621 days ago

5 October 2006 (F) - im seeing this lad but because i go to boarding skool we have an open relationship! hes reallys likes me more than anyone i can tell! but the trouble is hes always having sex with so many girls! and its not thast im jealous so much it doesnt mean ...

Hes only in England for 6 months of the year, Im pregnant, can this work ??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6622 days ago

4 October 2006 (F) - Dear Cupid, Im 18 years of age, I have a boyfriend 23yrs but lives in antigua as he's born there. He comes to England for the cricket season to play and gets paid, which is about 6 months a year. I'm 3 months pregnant. can this work or will i have t...