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writes: Dear CupidI have been contact with a guy going on for almost a year now. We started off writting on the internet and finally met about 7 month ago. we instantly like each other and have kept in touch for most of this time. dates, birthdays, activies.He works out of town a lot and he is completely out of touch for the times he is away. it really bothers me that he really does not make an effort to keep in touch at all. I keep busy with life however laterly my biggest problem is that i simple miss him when he is away. I feel extremely scared about sharing how i feel. We really have a great time whenever we are together. I kind of found out the he just went through a tough divorce not to too ago. We never seem to discuss anything that intimate about ourself. its extremely strange and challeging. We just had the most amazing 1.5 days together while he was briefly in town again. i sensed his need to spend time together, he was extremely affectionate and attentive, and like a light off he left town again. I am tired of trying to figure out where this might be going please Help
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 October 2006): I was in a similar situation as yourself. To be quite honest with you I don't think it's going to go anywhere. He's recently been divorced and is probably not looking for any commitment. This 'friendship' could go on like this for years in a casual sort of way. So if you're happy with that then all well and good, but if you don't want to get hurt then get out now. You could tell him how you feel, but I don't think anything will change. Just be prepared.
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