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Archived questions from: April, 2018 (see latest in Health category)

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If I make him feel better why did he inbox his ex?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2431 days ago

29 April 2018 (F) - Is my boyfriend being genuine about his feelings? The other day, my boyfriend was a little sick, not dying sick, but sick. I went to the hospital with him and he made a post on Facebook posting a picture of his hospital band and captioned it say...

My girlfriend doesn't care about the here and now.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2435 days ago

28 April 2018 (M) - Hi guys, I am really frustrated and stuck. My gf and I have been together about 5yrs. When we got together she was unemployed, I was studying. We have not lived together since after 2yrs due to money I could not afford having her. (she was very ...

We've broken up but why does my heart still hurt.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2436 days ago

27 April 2018 (F) - MOD NOTE: TWO QUESTIONS COMBINED My head is in a spin . My ex broke up with me a few months ago. At first he sent nasty texts and then texts saying he loves me and then I heard nothing for over a week, the texts dwindled to odd 1 or 2 and then not...

Is my time to get pregnat running out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2436 days ago

27 April 2018 (F) - Can I have children later on in life? Hello aunts I am turning 32 this year and I have no boyfriend and no prospects. I believe I would like to have children but I always fear time is running out. Honestly I HAVE tried everything in the dating ...

My confidence is shot, I know I'm better off but I want him to realise it.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2434 days ago

26 April 2018 (F) - My ex of 8 years dumped me 4 months ago, he was and still is an alcoholic and takes heroin and crack and blues and pregabs plus antidepressants ( bought of the streets) I tried helping him and loved him so much , in the past year before the break up ...

Why do I feel I have to supress my emotions when in a relationship?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2436 days ago

25 April 2018 (F) - I don't know how to be in a relationship. When I get excited about someone, I drive them away. The pattern is always I show too much interest (in a happy, excited way, from my perspective), they pull away, and then because they pull away, I start to ...

I think I am having a mid life crisis ... or something.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2439 days ago

24 April 2018 (F) - I think I'm having a mid life crisis or something. I'm 30, cohabiting with my long term boyfriend (nearly 6 years). Just about to move into our first house purchased together. I hate my job. I'm on medication for depression and anxiety (the latter ...

My boyfriend said he liked my skinnier self and now I'm very hurt.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2440 days ago

24 April 2018 (F) - I need help. Just had a big fight with my boyfriend of 5 years. We are in a hotel room travelling to Memphis and we were enjoying a week long road trip. I've put on some weight since we met. But then so has he. He had once told me he would...

Every relationship ends the same way ....

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2441 days ago

23 April 2018 (F) - Hello, I'm 23 years old (f) suffering with anxiety and bipolar. In my childhood and teenage years, I suffered from emotional and physical abuse, and it's affecting my relationships with people right now. My dad was one of the people who made me feel ...

He’s been dragging his feet on getting a passport and my anxiety problems have caused a rift! What now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2443 days ago

22 April 2018 (F) - So me and my boyfriend got into a big fight. Weve had a difficult time for the past 6 months of our relationship (we've been together nearly 2 years) due to my anxiety problems..We argued very frequently, and I developed a phobia that he was going ...

Why did he have makeup smeared around his lips?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2442 days ago

21 April 2018 (F) - My husband is the most loving loyal husband, we never argue at all and we get along amazing, we are both just so madly in love, he’s always been very affectionate and he really is amazing in every way. However he went on a works meal yesterday a...

How do I stop thinking about her being with someone else?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2437 days ago

20 April 2018 (M) - My girlfriend of several years broke up with me recently and we haven't talked or communicated since. It has felt like I've had a death in my family - I've lost the person I've spent every intimate detail of daily life with for the last several ...

My boyfriend is all about himself during sex, but never about me.

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 2443 days ago

18 April 2018 (F) - Hello, I was hoping I could ask for some help regarding my sex life. I have a wonderful 2 year relationship with my boyfriend. Genuinely feel like I've found the one for me, I think he's amazing. However, he's the first person I've slept with...

His piercing means no kissing for 10 weeks.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2444 days ago

18 April 2018 (F) - My boyfriend got a new lip piercing last week and said that we can't kiss for the six week healing period, which I am happily enforcing because his healing is my priority and I don't want to hinder that process in any way. Coincidentally at the end ...

I'm not shy but I shake when public speaking.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2446 days ago

17 April 2018 (F) - I have a problem with speaking to people. Sometimes it’s a new girl who is looking at my school, sometimes it happens when I am writing the answer to a question on the board in front of everyone at school, sometimes it happens during a presentation ...

Is it possible that his feelings toward her changed to a sister-like situation?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2447 days ago

17 April 2018 (F) - I am now in the 2nd year of long-distance-relationship with my 60-year-old partner with the same experience of having relationship or marriage in the past before we met each other in office. Certainly we adore each other and always try our best to ...

My boyfriend can't stay hard!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2445 days ago

17 April 2018 (F) - My boyfriend can't stay hard. The first time me and my boyfriend got intimate physically he avoided intercourse and satisfied me in other ways. However, after multiply attempts to have intercourse he eventually told me that he has a problem doing it...

Why is she so attention seeking??

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2447 days ago

16 April 2018 (F) - Yesterday a 44 yr old female work colleague with 5 kids had her wisdom teeth out,she posted a post surgery selfie of her swollen face on our works fbook page, Is this pure attention seeking? She’s a quiet and good worker, invisible.. like...

My eccentric fiance's behaviour is starting to concern me

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2438 days ago

16 April 2018 (F) - Hi... I am looking for some outside advice/perspective on my relationship with my fiancé. We've been together for two years and are just recently engaged. When we first met, we clicked immediately and have been mostly insperable. I grew up in a v...

Are my parents shallow for using his family’s medical history to keep me from dating him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2449 days ago

14 April 2018 (F) - I know I might get judged a little here but I have to get this off my chest and I think you have to admit that it went a step too far. Since I started uni, I made a promise myself to act mature and make sure that I do the best I can in whatever ...

The man who was my companion contacts me through my daughter after 2 years!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2447 days ago

14 April 2018 (F) - Hello peeps I have a question that I'd like your honest opinions about - please...? I met this lovely, magic but crazy guy in 2016. We clicked. It was very strong whilst it lasted. But he liked his drink and we both got drunk a lot and that was...

Am I being unrealistic wanting 2 breaks when our twins are 3 and 4?minths?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2450 days ago

12 April 2018 (F) - So my boyfriend and I are expecting our twins to be born over the summer. We're both excited and getting everything ready for their arrival. These are our first kids so it'll be a new experience for us both, mainly me because my boyfriend has ...

I'm worried about my boyfriend's smoking.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2452 days ago

12 April 2018 (F) - Im in a relationshio for almost 8 months with my boyfriend,we are like best friends .we Tell eachother everything,But lately he started smoking like 1-2 cigarettes per day and I found out because my best friend told me he saw him.when I asked him ...

My husband wants to hide me from the girl he wants a baby with

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2452 days ago

12 April 2018 (F) - i have been married for 4 years, i had to remove my womb due to medical conditions. my husband and i agreed on the operation. now he wants a baby so i said to him he must get someone very far and i dont want to be affected by it. he now got someone ...

Can I get an std from someone using no protection who came back with a clean bill of health

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2452 days ago

11 April 2018 (F) - So I have 2 sex partners and both are clean ( before you question how I am sure, I have had both men take std tests as well as taken one myself so everyone is safe) but I’m curious if I can still get an std from either of them from unprotected sex? ...

I need advice, I believe my family are scheming against me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2457 days ago

7 April 2018 (F) - A great site....lots of commonsense advice. I am having a tough time with my siblings and not the first time. About three years back I posted that they were forcing me to pay bank my 9k inheritance from my moms estate. As executor and power of attor...

Coping with a mum with BPD and its consequences

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2457 days ago

7 April 2018 (F) - Hi hi, I posted last year about being anxious about how to handle my upcoming wedding, ( i have a mother with undiagnosed BPD) whether to elope or have the party. I had lots of helpful advice on here :) We decided for a wedding party over...

I know what I need to do, but am scared!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2456 days ago

6 April 2018 (F) - I feel that I am not able to express myself without being in the wrong. I have read other questions, and I am seeing that I am in the same situation. I have been in this relationship for over 5 years. I have my own home, investments etc. He is ...

I have to work nonstop to pay off my debts and I feel very restless and hopeless sometimes. How do I keep this up for another 8 months?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2454 days ago

6 April 2018 (F) - How do I sta sane in this financial situation.? I am living in New York City I have a roommate and I am in debt - school - medical procedure and bills all amount to 3300 a month to stay afloat - I spoke to a financial advisor and the minimum ...

I am worried my boyfriend will assume the worst ...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2455 days ago

4 April 2018 (F) - So I had posted about this issue previously, and everything has been fine since. However, I noticed a light pink bruise on my chest (above my breasts not on them) and now my thoughts are racing, I feel sick. The anxiety this brings is overwhelming. ...

How to deal with the pain of family estrangement?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 2400 days ago

4 April 2018 (F) - I was estranged from my abusive BPD mother for eighteen years, because I could no longer take her abuse. My brother, who likely also suffered from BPD, saw this as a personal rejection and wanted nothing else to do with me. He threatened me with ...

My boyfriend ridiculed me saying that I have small boobs and a big tummy!

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 2458 days ago

2 April 2018 (F) - Dear cubid, The other day my bf of 2 years and i were video chating and i was wearing a tank top without a bra so he made a comment saying " ur boobs need serious help why doesn't the fat from ur stomach go up to ur boobs , just rotate the fat" ...

Why am I attracted to men like my father?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2461 days ago

1 April 2018 (F) - [Mod note: two questions combined from same poster.] Should I date men that I don’t find physically attractive? I come from an arranged marriage - my parents both were set up by their parents and their still married - although not happy.. I apprec...

Why can't he just give me his undivided attention for a few minutes?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2461 days ago

1 April 2018 (F) - Recently, starting about 6 months ago, my relationship with my boyfriend has become fairly rocky. We've been together for almost 5 years now. I've started to notice his lack of ambition in many life and day to day events in general. He has missed a ...