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Archived questions from: November, 2017 (see latest in Health category)

Health: Help and advice

Mental health issues: he wants to let me go but I don't want to give up on him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2580 days ago

30 November 2017 (F) - why do i only seem to attract ( i use the word gently) problem men. i mean it in a way as they have mental health problems , i dont mind they have problems and thats part of who they are and i can manage life with them easily but after a short while ...

Desperate to get my life on track

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2585 days ago

28 November 2017 (F) - I have had a very traumatic 2017. Traumatic by my standards and believe me, I am not a drama queen ! I was married in an abusive marriage in Asia, left that, went abroad to study and now live in the UK for the last 12 years. I was married agai...

How do I escape this rut?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2587 days ago

27 November 2017 (M) - I’m reallt stuck on what to do. I have been with my girl for 5 yrs. However I can’t have courage to get married. I’m always making excuses, but I’m reality I don’t know why myself. I have tried to think about it a lot, and the only conclusion ...

Bad itching in pubic area a few days after shaving?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2588 days ago

25 November 2017 (M) - For context, i am an 18 year old male. I hate my pubic hair and I often shave it, usually once a month if not more depending on the occasion. However recently my skin has started to itch and become irritated during hair regrowth. Luckily I don't get ...

Should I treat this like I just got out of a BPD relationship or am I going about evaluating this situation wrong?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2558 days ago

23 November 2017 (M) - I am in high school right now and my first girlfriend recently broke up with me. We dated for about a month and a half and the way she broke up with me was not what anybody does to anybody else. I'm trying to understand and make sense of why this ...

How will having a baby affect someone with PTSD?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2594 days ago

20 November 2017 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for a year now and we have spoke about our future what we both want , i work and he doesnt and that is due to him having ptsd . he has his good days and bad more good and he goes out everyday so he doesnt get low and it ...

My confidence is wrecked, I regret telling people the truth about my ex boyfriend.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2593 days ago

18 November 2017 (F) - I just want to vent about a situation that still bothers me. Basically I had a 6 month relationship with a guy I worked with. He was the first person I'd been with after my marriage broke up. I guess because I was vulnerable and feeling really crap ...

How do I tell him his breath smells?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2587 days ago

18 November 2017 (F) - I am seeing the most amazing person I have ever met, but I have a problem. His breath always smells and I have no idea how to bring this sensitive subject up without hurting his feelings. I did not notice it at first, but recently I have become ...

My boyfriend doesn't last long in bed, wha can I do to help?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2590 days ago

17 November 2017 (F) - I’ve been with my boyfriend only a few months, been best friends for a few years.. we have had talks before and hes pretty open about this issues with me only... He can’t last very long while having sex, my question is what are some options to help ...

How can I learn my value?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2598 days ago

17 November 2017 (F) - How Can I learn my value? I am insecure and I have let people walk over me - use me- and leave me - friends and lovers . I have worked on the outside (lost the weight - got the degrees - got a better corporate job) but I still fear saying no- I ...

How to deal with a more sexually experienced partner?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2596 days ago

17 November 2017 (M) - I'm a male virgin who's never kissed a girl or been on a date. I'm not particularly handsome either and I am obese. I will be visiting an escort in a few weeks to lose my virginity. Finally I'll get to feel what intimacy is like. However I've b...

My girlfriend is exhausting me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2598 days ago

15 November 2017 (F) - My gf is exhausting me. I'm fully convinced that she could argue for hours with a person who believes the grass is green and tell them no it isn't - it's blue. And then immediately turn right around and tell someone who believes the grass is blue ...

Can I help him explore other health options? It's urgent.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2599 days ago

14 November 2017 (F) - Hi Aunts and Uncles, I don't know how to tell my husband that the therapy he's been taking for the past year is not working and that he's been experiencing a lot of bad side-effects. Now, before you wonder, why I should be the one to tell him ...

How can I get over my parents' neglect?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2600 days ago

14 November 2017 (F) - how Can I deal with moving back home to parents that only care about money and are constantly berating me - I come from a Eastern European culture where my parents marriage was arranged (very toxic relationship) my parents hate each other but stay ...

Do I fight to keep her or let her go?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2596 days ago

12 November 2017 (M) - So out of the blue my fiance has broken up with me, we've been together almost 3 years and engaged since May. I love her and want to be with her, she says it's because of my messiness and it's effect on her mental health. I've never been this ope...

Are boxers not for everyone?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2602 days ago

11 November 2017 (M) - I've read that wearing boxers is better than briefs but how do other guys out there hide their erections in these things? I get easily aroused and sometimes get boners even when I'm not not excited... And it clearly juts out of my pants. Are boxers ...

I'm growing uncomfortable with his questions! Should I go meet him for coffee?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2602 days ago

9 November 2017 (F) - Dear Cupid, I met a 41 year old guy who describes himself as sophisticated, also wants a sophisticated lady, online.He writes he is ready for a new relationship. He writes he has never been married, has no children and lives alone. He has a ...

The guy I'm dating doesn't believe I have social anxiety, does it matter?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2577 days ago

9 November 2017 (F) - I've been on a few dates with this guy. I feel a bit of a spark but I am worried about something he said to me. Part of me feels that if I liked him enough to date him I won't worry about what he said. I told him that I suffer from social anxi...

Girlfriend is suffering my depression, my needs are not being met. Do I hope she will get better or end things?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2606 days ago

7 November 2017 (F) - I'm struggling with what to do. My girlfriend has withdrawn from me pretty significantly, and it's making me feel terrible. She struggles off and on with depression, and I'm not sure if this is just a long bout of depression or if she's just lost ...

My husband is threatening divorce ... please help

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2608 days ago

6 November 2017 (F) - I messed up .... again. Long story short: I have OCD and anxiety in my relationship. I am controlling and emotionally abusive (though not to the full extent that articles write about). I have hurt my husband so much that i dont know if he can forg...

I am male and I have no sensational feeling during sex

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2592 days ago

6 November 2017 (M) - Hi, I have a very big problem - I do not feel anything during intercourse! Please help me! I am 35 years old and i have had this problem since my sexual debut. And the problem is really simple, yet very complex - I do not feel anything! When I...

He gets angry and accuses me of being controlling if I ask for a bit of attention!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2608 days ago

5 November 2017 (F) - Husband has very much a situational based depression due to work issues where there is no way out for two years as he is in a work situation where a personal guaranteee is in place that would cost us about €60,000 to get out of. So theres two more ...

Work is stressing me out

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2612 days ago

3 November 2017 (F) - At the moment at work (I work in a hospital) we are overstaffed and each day 1 of us has to move to a different area. No-one likes this. How (can I) be less stressed? About moving areas, we take it turns, though some of us move more often. I ...

Scared to admit I've reached maturity befor my older sister

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2612 days ago

2 November 2017 (F) - Hi I'm 14 and I started my period at 13 a few days after my birthday. I don't know how to tell my mum and I'm quite scared as for telling her so late. I'm scared for the questions she might ask me like how did o l keep this (secret). It was hard...

How do men deal with the hair 'down there'?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2613 days ago

2 November 2017 (M) - This question is really difficult to ask people in real life so here goes. Ladies, what's your opinion on pubic hair on your men? Shaved, trimmed or untouched? And men, if you're shaving down there, how do you handle the testicular area? ...

How do I tell guys I'm autisttic?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2610 days ago

2 November 2017 (F) - i will jump straight in. I am autistic which is great, use to as a child find it a curse but as an adult truly get to see the beauty of the world. what i mean by this is i could be walking in the forest and i could stop and hug a tree or even lic...

Advice on paying for sex?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2612 days ago

2 November 2017 (M) - Little background: I am a geeky, fat male virgin who's never been on a date or ever kissed a girl. I don't ask girls out anymore because they always say no. I don't have much of an option in experiencing intimacy so I thought about paying for sex or ...