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Archived questions from: January, 2019 (see latest in Friends category)

Friends: Help and advice

How to deal with social anxiety and awkwardness?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2152 days ago

30 January 2019 (M) - I am an introvert and struggle in social settings. I feel like there is really no good reason for this - I am confident, reasonably attractive, successful, etc. (the point being that I have nothing to feel insecure about). I do great in one-on-one ...

How much do guys tell their friends about their dating life?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2153 days ago

29 January 2019 (F) - I'm wondering how much guys discuss their love life with their guy friends. I tell my girlfriends everything, who I'm going out with, whether we hooked up etc. I'm on a dating site and I was seeing this guy who I liked for about a month. We only...

Do I tell her my feelings and risk ending our friendship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2154 days ago

27 January 2019 (M) - Bit of a long question here, but I've got this friend that I met a few years ago and lived with for a year in university. Since then we have basically become best friends and throughout it I've always maintained us just being friends and had been ...

New friendship w/ someone I met from a reality show

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2152 days ago

27 January 2019 (F) - Ok... I'm so confused. I am currently engaged. Not the best relationship by any means, but I am engaged and hoping for it to get better after a big move happens to get away from his insane and cruel family who hurt us pretty bad. Oddly en...

Does his body language and other actions indicate he’s into me or just being friendly?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2155 days ago

25 January 2019 (F) - There is a guy in my class this semester in college who decided to sit next to me. The first day of class he introduced himself and we exchanged a few words. I noticed that he was mirroring all the different ways that I sat. Sometimes I would have ...

When one friend seems distant, what should the other friend do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2160 days ago

21 January 2019 (F) - Is it better to wait or break friendship? Two people who were close now are drifting apart. One is ignoring the other and the other is waiting. One tried talking to see if there are any issues but the other didnt gave clear answer. Other just said ...

I’m sad and lonely and find myself masturbating too much. Any advice?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2159 days ago

21 January 2019 (M) - ive just turned 30 and I've been sad and alone recently. Every time i asked a girl out either: they're gay, not dating "right now", or see me better as a friend. recently things in my life haven't been going well. personal failures and lif...

Is he completely dense? Should we just give up trying to tell him he’s making the biggest mistake of his life?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2161 days ago

19 January 2019 (F) - Hi guys so firstly this us a follow on from a post at Christmas- thank you all for your excellent advice The situation was a mutual good friend had got himself involved with a girl we all knew was bad news- disrespected him, took money and gene...

How do I deal with a friend who is demanding, irritating, needy, narcissistic and whiny?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2164 days ago

15 January 2019 (F) - Hi Aunts and Uncles! I often wonder what do people mean when they say that someone is a "good person" or a "bad one". That's why I hesitate to label anyone with just good/bad. My question today is: How to deal with a friend who's needy and na...

I'm separated and my friend of years is making subtle moves on me. What do I do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2151 days ago

15 January 2019 (F) - im falling out of love with my husband do to his emotional and verbal abuse.Been married for 15 years but together for 25 there is no intimacy for the last year or so.Occassional hug here or there .However he is great with our daughter relationship ...

Is she The One?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2168 days ago

14 January 2019 (M) - Okies, I really need your help with this one. I want to make this the year I sort this out. So, I have known my female friend for 10+ years and I liked her from early on. We have lived together even shared the same bed (platonically) a...

I feel like the definition of a failure, any words of wisdom?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2167 days ago

14 January 2019 (M) - Hi all. I am 15 years old and have recently been challenged with some difficult feelings. I'll sum up the story: A decent while ago (about 4 months ago), after two years of having feelings for my close friend, who I've known for a long time, I fin...

Will I ever get the chance to massage her all over?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2173 days ago

7 January 2019 (M) - Hi, on the question of massages, I have a friend who will let me massage her back, neck, etc and feet, but not butt. She has also allowed me to see her topless, but she doesn’t fancy me and we also cuddle in bed a bit when she sleeps over. She ...

Was I in the wrong to tell her to let my boss know? Is ending our friendship justified?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2173 days ago

6 January 2019 (F) - So My husband works in the oil field industry and we live 12 hours away from home. We are alone in the state we are in, and have no family close by. In 2017, My husband befriended his coworker and wanted me to meet his coworkers wife so I could have ...

How do I get in touch with him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2161 days ago

6 January 2019 (F) - Hello everyone reading; On Wensday (02/01), I had to get my hair braided at my hair dressers house. While I was there, the was his gentleman who came to the living room (Where my hair was being braided). He stood next to me trying to take someth...

Social and dating housekeeping - how to get things your way without being "intense".

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2176 days ago

5 January 2019 (M) - I'm very triggered by people who unreliable, flakey, put you on the bench, in social and romantic situations. Say for instance people who keep their options open but keep you hanging. What is a chill way to call attention directly to the ...

We got into a fight and now my friend no longer wants to be friends

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2175 days ago

5 January 2019 (F) - Recently i got into a row with one of my best friend. We have known each other for 9 months now and we used to be very close. We have had lots of fights and now she gets irritated on small small things. If i ask her to come out to meet, she ignores. ...

How do I deal with this overwhelming friend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2177 days ago

4 January 2019 (F) - Hello there, I have this male friend in class. He liked me from the very beginning. Sweet guy but tries too hard to impress, is shallow in his approach to falling in love (may be due to lack of experience). I know for a fact he's smitten from att...

I would like to grow this new friendship by meeting outside of that one activity, but I’m worried she will think I am trying to put the moves on her

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2174 days ago

3 January 2019 (M) - I was in a long distance relationship for about half a year. In that time, I felt lonely so I signed up for some things that interest me. During one of those things, I made a female friend who is also in a long distance relationship. Since then, we ...

How do introverts and those living with social anxiety make friends?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2175 days ago

3 January 2019 (F) - So I haven't posted on here before, and I guess I'm just hoping for some ideas or thoughts on how to make friends when you have social anxiety. This is a bit long-winded, so please bear with me, but I wanted you to get a bit of an idea about my ...

Has anyone experienced fake friends?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2178 days ago

3 January 2019 (M) - Has anyone experienced fake friends? Ones that will do enough to be there but on their own terms. So I have a friend I have known since child, and he is actually very negative. If I don’t say something right, he will jump at it to steer it in a...

Was my friend manipulating us to look good on front of my family and didn't really intend helping me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2179 days ago

2 January 2019 (F) - Thank you Aunts and Uncles for the advice you gave me last time I posted on this subject: I've had a friend since we were born - my father's best friend's daughter, who's been using my inability to tell her "no" for a few decades... Anyway... I di...

I had unprotected sex with a friend and now I am worried

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2180 days ago

1 January 2019 (F) - I had unprotected sex with a friend . I don’t know what I was thinking but I’m so worried now. I thought he had a condom but I got carried away when he said he doesn’t . I had to ask him after a couple of days and he said he doesn’t have any...

My friends are all so busy enjoying themselves they forget about me.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2180 days ago

1 January 2019 (M) - 2018 was a difficult year but unfortunately I have realised I have no real friends. What would you do in the situation when you feel like you have no true friends. 2018 has been tough time with family issues, and finances however I feel like beca...