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writes:Hi, on the question of massages, I have a friend who will let me massage her back, neck, etc and feet, but not butt. She has also allowed me to see her topless, but she doesn’t fancy me and we also cuddle in bed a bit when she sleeps over. She has also massaged my back. I would like to massage her all over. I also photograph her a lot, but not topless, only implied holding objects. Will I ever get the chance to massage her all over? Thanks! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 January 2019): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks all! Appreciated!
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 January 2019): Look Sir you are over 50 yrs old. Take my advice you dont have many years of carefree years left to waste in such a meaningless relationship. Find yourself a woman who would be interested in a serious and honest relationship who will exchange with you your feelings and emotions. This Lady in question enjoys keeping you suspended and torturing you. You should never let that happen. Find yourself a nice lady and let this one fry in jealousy when she sees you with another woman.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 January 2019): I disagree that she's teasing him; she's made it clear she doesn't want more, so it's up to the OP if he chooses to continue their arrangement. If she was lying that they'd go further soon, then yes, it would be teasing.
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reader, Andie's Thoughts +, writes (8 January 2019):
 Look, she doesn't see you sexually. You're a platonic companion that blurs the lines a little, but her boundaries are CLEAR. NO sexual activity. If you keep wanting more, find someone else. You're not compatible! I don't know why you keep this going when you want more. You're being creepy. Respect her boundaries.
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (8 January 2019):
 N91 pretty much pegged it.
Don't be a freaking creep. If she sets boundaries you LISTEN, RESPECT and STICK to those.
If you want to do "other things", then find someone who is a willing participant.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 January 2019): I second N91's advice. You're only going to go as far as she wants you to go. She doesn't fancy you, so don't expect anything more that what you get! If you ask me, that seems too much!
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 January 2019): I think it's terrible but this girl is a tease and I'm female and I think when girl lead guys like you on like this ..It's to give them a boost .. and yes I had a friend who had a terrific body but not very good looking and she did this with a male friend just so she felt good .. I was horrified when she told me .I'm married so I never would and been with my childhood sweetheart. But even that I would have done this with him unless we were intimate .. have some self respect and leave her to get on with it .. on her own
She is messing with your head and I don't just mean the one on your shoulders .
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reader, N91 +, writes (8 January 2019):
 No. YOU clearly told us that she will NOT let you massage her behind. You’re in the 51-59 age bracket, so it’s quite alarming that you don’t understand that no MEANS no.
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