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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:The boyfriend of my best friend called me last night and confided that he's attracted to me and asked if there was a chance that he and I could get together...I've only met him in person once and talked to him once on the phone (with my friend's permission, he was asking me if I might be interested in dating his friend). I told him that I wasn't interested and that he better not call or text me again. I also told him that I was going to forget the whole thing ever happened. The problem is that now I'm feeling ridiculously guilty and I'm wondering if I tell my friend what kind of creep she's dating or if I should forget the whole thing ever happened. They've been together for 2 years.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 February 2009): Ok.they've been together for two years. and he has basically hitted on you. imagine with whom else he would've done it to? if things get out of hand, ur best freind will find out and blame you and get th whole story distorted. a lie has short legs. so explain to her what he said. just like you did to us, and explain that you are telling her this becaus eyou love her moe than anything in this world and u don't want her to get too hurt (yeah, this info will hurt her, but it woudl much more if he does that to someone else and that someone else sleeps with him, or kiss him or whatever you know)so I do recommend you tell her. gd luck!
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