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Archived questions from: December, 2016 (see latest in Flirting category)

Flirting: Help and advice

Why tell me about this other girl when he knows how I feel? We live in different countries

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2908 days ago

31 December 2016 (F) - My online friend recently changed his bio from in a relationship to single after 3 weeks . I asked him about it and he said that they didn't have social media so that was why. But earlier that week he told me that he wasn't going to tell me their ...

A friend has a crush on a guy. I would like to see them become a couple. Or should I help her to get over him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2908 days ago

30 December 2016 (F) - Hi, My problem is that my best friend is obsessed with her crush and I am obsessed with getting them together. All we both do is talk about this GUY. My friend's obsession is quite understandable because she had a breakup and was very dep...

What hope is there for a boyfriendless virgin? I think about sex, a lot. What can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2908 days ago

29 December 2016 (F) - Hi so I'm 17 and I'll be 18 this following year. Whilst I've had "situations" or issues with guys I've never had a boyfriend and never had sex. There was a time where I was close to sleeping with a guy I did not even want to be my boyfriend, bu...

Is AB more important to my Bf than he implies? I believe he loves me. But I only sharing him with AB?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2914 days ago

29 December 2016 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for 4 years and some change. When I left for college he became really close with a female friend( I'll call her AB). I do know her but I don't know her that well because we were never friends we just all kno...

Why has my Boyfriend changed his sexual style to a more conservative one, to the style he favoured previously? Could he be cheating?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2909 days ago

28 December 2016 (F) - Hello friends. I have been in a long term relationship with my boyfriend. We have always had a good time experimenting with each other sexually. We have a good bond and have connected from the get go. And we have also had stellar chemistry and a gr...

Is there any way I can repair my friendship with her?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2911 days ago

28 December 2016 (M) - Well,I just have a colleague which is a girl and she likes me. I used to talk to her after getting out from work on the way home.After some weeks I had some thoughts flying through my mind (not about her).I started to stop talking to her. Now we us...

I told him that I liked him but he just said that let's go with flow. Am I just a friend to him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2909 days ago

28 December 2016 (F) - I told one of my guy friend that I liked him but he just said that let's go with flow. From that day we started texting a lot. It's been 9 months.. I don't know where exactly we stand.. We talk and meet up sometimes but we haven't talk on this top...

Is it wrong for a man to look at and flirt with women other than his significant other?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2914 days ago

28 December 2016 (M) - Is it wrong for a man to look at and flirt with women other than his significant other? Why or why not?...

Should I continue this? Let him visit and spend more time together? Or is it sounding too unhealthy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2909 days ago

27 December 2016 (F) - This is a hard question for me to put out there because it involves a relationship I am in with someone I really like and care about. However, I have made so many unhealthy choices in my past and I don't want to do that anymore. I think some...

It's now 2/3 days, is he uninterested? Should I just leave it, or pursue him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2909 days ago

27 December 2016 (F) - Hi, I work with a guy I really fancy but was unsure if he was interested in me so I backed off. Co-workers have been trying to set us up for the past 6 months but I know he's incredibly shy. He's always asking where I'm going out at at the week...

He's in a band and seems shy. Might he like me, or does he just see me as just a friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2912 days ago

23 December 2016 (F) - hello i really like this boy he is in a band we met once when he invited me to watch them perform. he seemed nervous but when we talked he was calm an d when we took pictures he was so close...later in the evening he apologised for being silent c...

How to determine if a woman likes me? How do I let a woman know I like her? How to slow down my orgasm when with a woman?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2920 days ago

23 December 2016 (M) - Moderator note: more than one question combined into this one post. .. . . . . . . . . . . .. . I am a man wanting to know how to go about letting a woman know I like her? I am very shy and have a hard time telling a woman I like them. Once I...

Does sending me picture of her stomach tattoo with the bottom of her breasts just visible mean she’s flirting with me?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2919 days ago

22 December 2016 (M) - So I have a friend and we live far apart but we text a lot. I don't know her super well yet but I am getting to know her, I enjoy her company on the phone and she is kind of cute. We often send each other photos of our day to day life. We got onto ...

My Bf has been talking to a younger woman. Where to now? After all I've done for him, why did he do this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2921 days ago

21 December 2016 (F) - Hi I have a BF for 3 years, monogamous relationship. That is what I thought. My Bf has an habit to lie. Lie about small and big things. We are on and off due this because I caught him then he apologized then I forgive then again he lies and so o...

Should I write my bus driver crush a Christmas card?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2922 days ago

19 December 2016 (F) - well I seen the bus driver I have a crush on who I think is about 36, I am 33. he is always shy but extra nice towards me and talks very low and mild mannered….so as I am getting on the bus today, he just cheeses and grins with all 32 teeth and says ...

Have I completely disrespected my boyfriend, when I had no intention of doing that?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2922 days ago

18 December 2016 (F) - I went out on an unexpected night out with a work friend on Friday. We thought we'd just get a bite to eat and a few drinks after work but we ended up having one too many and never got home until 2:30am. We had dinner and went to a few bars. ...

My boyfriend can't control his intake of alcohol

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2897 days ago

17 December 2016 (F) - Ok so I have been seen this guys for almost 4 years now. On and off at first (we broke up 4 times and both went looking somewhere else. But would still kept in contact and talk about who we have been sleeping with, then have sex together. Unless one ...

My inappropriate boss or My boss wants to grab my ass

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2922 days ago

17 December 2016 (F) - Hello everyone! I'm in a bit of a pickle. Naturally, I'm a very bubbly energetic person. I hate awkwardness so I do my best to make fun of myself and include others. Especially at work considering, everyone can be so stiff at times. I got ...

Could it be more than friendship?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2925 days ago

15 December 2016 (M) - Me and my best friends ex have been rather flirty with each other for a couple of months now; we got pretty drunk one night in a evening establishment and very nearly kissed, although one doesn't remember who really initiated it and it has not been ...

I think my husband is being inappropriate!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2925 days ago

14 December 2016 (F) - My husband is a personal trainer, I work upstairs from his studio. He trains this one girl and all he does is giggle and flirt with her. He swears that he doesn't but it's SOOOO obvious to me! What do I do??? I think it's disrespectful to me but he ...

How can I know if I'll be open to a boyfriend being sexually polygamous?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2925 days ago

14 December 2016 (F) - I don't have a BF right now, and I have actually never had a boyfriend before. However, I realized that there are many men out there that cheat, not because they don't love their GF enough, (or so I think), but because they just love to have variety ...

The guy I like seems to be a really horrible person, what do I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2927 days ago

13 December 2016 (F) - My friends are really close to this one guy. It has been over a few months since he started hanging around with us and he's been just fine with me. At first I started liking him and finding him attractive, so I confessed and heard no reply from him ...

Is it time to leave this relationship? I'm starting to feel like a roommate or a good friend

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2929 days ago

9 December 2016 (F) - 29 F dating 29 M for approximately 1.5 years. My relationship has been rocky from the start. My boyfriend has always pushed the limit with flirting with girls or talking about them. Last month he texted a girl to send him pictures while o...

A threesome with my wife and another male was my fantasy. So why couldn't I get hard looking at my wife?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2930 days ago

7 December 2016 (M) - How would you explain this? What I am about to say was totally MY idea, even though my wife was very into it once it got started...My wife and I were in a male friends house initiating a threesome with him...up to this point you could say it was ...

I'm hoping he's bi, because he could be my soulmate! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2923 days ago

6 December 2016 (M) - Okay so I posted on here before about a guy, and got some good advice and insight but there's an update now. Previously I met this guy in the gym I caught him starring at me around 3 times (and his body is better than mine so not the reason) ...

A brief thing with a colleague ended. Am I over reacting - should I be feeling so guilty?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2939 days ago

4 December 2016 (F) - A while ago I had a brief thing with a colleague and friend which ended a bit badly because he led me on and it's still kind of awkward but getting back to normal. He has a good friend at work, and so do I, and we all kind of hang around together...

Is it possible to have borderline personality yet lack the urge to be a slut and cheater???

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2940 days ago

3 December 2016 (F) - I found out recently that I might have borderline personality disorder and dependent personality disorder. Ever since I been researching and trying to fix all the annoying parts these disorders have...And I keep coming to this question here, ho...

Is she just using me, because I talk so nice to her?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2938 days ago

3 December 2016 (M) - Hi, am wondering, i should keep, talking to this woman, I've been talking to for four years? We met on an online dating sire. We text each other, I've been really romantic with her, we have only met four times not on a date, she is very rich, a...