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Archived questions from: 27 December, 2012 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

I don't want him back. Yet feel like I was never important to him. What are some coping strategies I can use?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4352 days ago

27 December 2012 (F) - So im currently single going through a breakup. my ex and I have been dating for about 4 years, and we have been broken up for about two months now. At first i was really strong about the whole thing and im completly sure about my decision but...

His family all have health issues. Is this a high risk situation, if we want to settle and have children together?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4352 days ago

27 December 2012 (F) - Hello aunts and uncles. I am wondering what is your take on this. I am dating this great guy, who is very serious about me and we have discussed marriage and kids. He has great potential, and we both have nice lucrative careers and by the t...

Six months of dating, but he never says, 'i love you'. How can I be sure of his love?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4353 days ago

27 December 2012 (F) - Im 32 years old and my bf is 21..weve been dating for 6 months now. I love him and i always show and tell that to him. but im not sure if he loves me, he doesnt say the words 'I love you'..but i can feel that he cares for me..not just by text. he...

As it's her home area shall I ask her first where she'd like to go on our first date?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4352 days ago

27 December 2012 (M) - So I think I might be into this girl. After we get back to college from Christmas break, I'm gonna see if she wants to go out. Where we go to school is her hometown, so she has her car, and she already has her favorite places, and knows everywhere...

I love my boyfriend but I'm freaking out at the thought of forever with him

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4352 days ago

27 December 2012 (F) - Hello, I'm 23 and I've been dating my 26yr old BF for 5 years now, and while everything isn't great, it is good and we both love each other. However, there has always been a few things that he does that annoy and upset me. He has a great social ...

I haven't heard from my girlfriend in 2 weeks! Have I been silently dumped?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4353 days ago

27 December 2012 (M) - i haven't heard from my girlfriend for over a week we're in college together and while we were in classes our r/s was fine. we would see each other and go on dates a couple times a week and would do our homework together. she was always loving an...

Why did my boyfriend just cut me out of his life?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4352 days ago

27 December 2012 (F) - after only a month of breaking up we got in touch again. i found a summer job just to get myself busy things were ok just small conversations on the phone he said that he will go back to school again. we were happy and that he is glad that he ...

The feelings of infatuation I had with my boyfriend have gone. Should I end our relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4353 days ago

27 December 2012 (F) - Have any of you ever dated someone who at first you were so infatuated with and thought was this amazing person that couldn't be better for you and made you so incredibly happy... but then over time realised those feelings you had have faded and ...

The girl I love has a boyfriend and she says she loves us both. She won't choose between us. Advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4353 days ago

27 December 2012 (M) - Basically, I'm just looking for some sort of help or advice. This girl was in love with me a few months ago but I was going through a lot at the time and just declined a relationship with her. We remained good friends and we love and care about each ...

Feeling bruised but not broken. How do I move on? And why is moving on so hard after a breakup?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4353 days ago

27 December 2012 (F) - Why is moving on so hard? My ex and I broke up in November and now I found out he has a brand new girlfriend. Even though our romance was short-lived,I'm still heartbroken. I'm doing all that I can to move on. I even unfriended a mutual friend of...

He needs to accept that NO is an answer. Surely, if he cared, he's stop asking for anal?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4352 days ago

27 December 2012 (F) - So I've been with my partner 2 years. He wanted to try anal since we got together but until a few months ago I said no. Well a few months ago I let him try and I hated it. Add to this I was in pain for 3 days. I thought to let him try twice mo...

We are both 18. He's a virgin. But his technique needs work. How do I teach him without offending him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4353 days ago

27 December 2012 (F) - I'm a 18 y/o female, not a virgin. I've only had one sexual partner but he was a lot older and more experienced guy, so the sex was great! He taught me a lot... However I'm now going out with an 18 year old virgin, who hasn't done Anything sexual.....

I want a relationship with trust and honesty!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4353 days ago

27 December 2012 (F) - I have caught my boyfriend on dating sites 5 times this year. He has promised to stop doing it from now on. He said that all the other times too. I find all i do lately is look for evidence of him doing it again. Just like i have done in the past ...

I want somebody to love.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4352 days ago

27 December 2012 (?) - I feel like I will never be able to be successful with women. The only girls I have ever been good at flirting with are ones I am not actually attracted to deeply. I'm a virgin at 19 and am going through medicine. I had an ex who I was with for 2 ...

Why did he change his story? He said he met her twice and now he says he never met her! Bad memory from smoking weed?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4351 days ago

27 December 2012 (F) - Hello, My boyfriend and I have been together for over 3 years. We met online on a forum. I was aware that he also talked to another woman. I didn't have a problem with it at the time. We got to know each other better and he said he would like...

Is this a date with a crush? Or just business?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4353 days ago

27 December 2012 (F) - I work at a coffee shop. I have a huge crush on one of my regular costumers. He's very attractive - very fit with a smile that would make any woman melt. I've liked him for months and last week, he'd given me his number. But not for the reason you ...

My Bf is totally reluctant to have sex. At all. How do I approach a conversation with him about this so we can work it out?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4353 days ago

27 December 2012 (M) - So my boyfriend is not interested in sex. I know it has nothing to do with me. This is just who he is. His previous relationships have had the same problem. One relationship ended because of it. I have no interest in breaking up with him as ...

Has my Gf broken up with me? Due to my phone re-set I can't call her. No a word since last friday? What am I supposed to make of this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4353 days ago

27 December 2012 (F) - So i been on christmas Break for a couple days now, and i havent heard from my Gf Once. :/ The last time we talked was on Friday because i went over her house so we could spend some time Together. I been waiting for her to text me, call me and it's...

Never got over my first crush. Lots of health problems since. What can I change so future relationships are more successful?

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27 December 2012 (F) - - This post is long. i'm sorry. Lets just call me 'M' and my first love 'J' I'm quite young, 17 and i fell in love with J at first sight 5 years ago. My heart pounded, my cheeks were always flushed and i kept stammering. Naive i know, but tha...

He did this in the past, before we met. The image of this in my head is disturbing. How can I get over my disgust that he once had a threesome?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4353 days ago

27 December 2012 (F) - My boyfriend recently admitted to me that he has had a threesome in the past. I questioned him some about it, and he had went into some detail and even said that at the end the both of them "sucked him off and shared his load." I felt comp...

Enough is enough! His alcoholism has resulted in him threatening me and make me feel insecure. What can I do and where can I seek help?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4353 days ago

27 December 2012 (F) - I have been married for 13 yrs, my husband had been drinking since I met him it didn't use to bother me at first. This is because he will act nice and become nicer later. But lately he had become aggressive. Everytime he drinks he will start acti...

My girlfriend slept at her ex boyfriend's house on Christmas and didn't tell me. What am I supposed to think?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4352 days ago

27 December 2012 (M) - I don't know why my girlfriend would sleep at her ex boyfriend place on Christmas and didn't tell me. She says that him and her are now friends and she's not text me that much either, probably either she's busy or having a wonderful time with him, ...

How long does it take to heal from your first serious relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4353 days ago

27 December 2012 (F) - So my ex and i have been broken up for about 1 1/2 months..and its gotten easier..but ever once and a while ill have flash backs of our relationship and feel sad...so I havnt completely healed. Turns out hes been asking around about how iv been to ...

I'm afraid to intoduce my bipolar boyfriend to my family

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27 December 2012 (F) - I'm scared to introduce my boyfriend, who has bipolar disorder, to my family. I think he feels offended because he hasn't been around my family much yet. He doesn't know why i don't want him to be around them too much though. I don't think they ...