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female
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30-35,
*mane
writes:after only a month of breaking up we got in touch again. i found a summer job just to get myself busy things were ok just small conversations on the phone he said that he will go back to school again. we were happy and that he is glad that he didn't leave to an other country .after only a week we talked on the phone he sounded like he was about to cry when i asked why he is upset he said that he is leaving to an other city .i was so happy for him cause that's what he always wanted .i loved my work i couldn't wait to go back to school i was happy and the thought of him going away was ok with me until it was only two days left before he would go away. we talked on the phone i asked to see him at 5 when i finish working he didn't say no but he was hesitated so i just told him goodbye and i meant it for good .until i got of work at 6 i just stayed with my friends for extra time and i saw him so angry he looked so frustrated getting a cab in front of the place i work in .i never saw him like that i just stood there frozen happy telling myself that he loves me. i didn't see him for like 4 month and he came.but still i didn't stop him i just run away .after that i sent him message wishing him good luck in his new life he din't answer .after that i just loved him more i cried every day after two weeks i called him many times he didn't answer now until this day i cry and it's only getting worse .i stopped calling right away but im dying to hear anything from him but he just cut me out of his life. its killing me every day if we only stayed friends if i could only hear anything from i don't wanna be his girlfriend but at the same time i can't bear the tought of me not having any place in his life its been 4 months now of no contact . im not gonna try to contact him but it hurts not knowing any thing about him he doesn't even talk to his childhood friends. no one . i know that he loves me but im afraid of the no contact thing . and the way he just cut me of his life is killing me after spending all his time with me . why would he do that ? Reply to this Question
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reader, imane +, writes (28 December 2012):
imane is verified as being by the original poster of the questionits true i have no idea about what i want .i know what happened is right .and thats exactly what's best for both of us is just soooooooo hard on me .and it would help alot to know what he feels about it and how he is doing since he is the only one who feels the same and he was my best friend so ...but he chose to keep it for himself
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (28 December 2012):
 He did that because he can't cope with being just friends.
I'm with him. I don't believe we should be friends with ex partners. There is no need. IF it was so good for you as a couple you would not be apart.
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