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Archived questions from: 30 December, 2011 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

Ways to get over the crush who rejected you?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4715 days ago

30 December 2011 (M) - Best and most effective ways to get over the crush who rejected you? It feels like I've tried everything but it still doesn't seem to help. I did what most people would say; "Cut ALL contact". And now a friend of mine told me that this girl h...

Create A "Plan-List" For Your Relationship In 2012!

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30 December 2011 (M) - Are you looking forward to 2012? Have you already created goals and resolutions for the upcoming year? I know that I have. I plan to offer lots of help and advice to more couples looking to have a good relationship. But I also must make a plan...

Would it be harsh of me to tell my b/f he can't move in with me till he finds a job?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4715 days ago

30 December 2011 (F) - Hi all heres the thing i wrote recently asking advice about telling my bf im moving in alone as hes unemployed but i have recently found out im pregnant i work 40 hours n he dont. Now im stuck my parents kicked me out which is fine ive gt money ...

First just friendship and after a few years it is suddenly love?

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30 December 2011 (F) - ok I have 2 friends to who this happened: a guy fell in love with a girl but the girl just wants friendship about 2 years later the girl also wanted a relationship. it lasted about 8 months and guess who ended it? the girl! now nearly the same hap...

Our almost non existent sex life....are all these factors adding to that problem?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4712 days ago

30 December 2011 (M) - Dear all, I hope you had a good Christmas and are prepared for the coming year. I need some relationship advice. I am 27 and my girlfriend is 28, we are dating for 1.5 years now and moved together about 5 months ago. We are both in grad school f...

How do I stop this guy's invasive presence?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4715 days ago

30 December 2011 (F) - OK, maybe this is a stupid question, especially at my age, but here it is: I met this guy exactly three times, once when we met at a party, once we had coffee and once we went together at a workshop with a lot of other people, and now he is writing ...

An ex wife, an Autistic son, a crazy ex girlfriend, and another son-that's my B/f's life. Any thoughts on how best to handle this situation?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4715 days ago

30 December 2011 (F) - I have been in a relationship with a wonderful man for nearly 2 years. We were talking about marriage..etc. He has been divorced for over 10 years and has a 10 year old Autistic son from his previous marriage. He is a dedicated father and pays ...

My fiance doesn't want to disown the child that he is said to have fathered with this dubious woman, for fear of hurting the child!! What do I do?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4716 days ago

30 December 2011 (F) - Could anyone who has been through this help. My fiance has a child. It appears that no one in the world believes the child is his. The mother became pregnant within a month of them getting together. It has now surfaced that she was sleeping with ...

I honestly don't know how to date again.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4716 days ago

30 December 2011 (F) - Ok the thing is that this whole dating thing is all new to me. I was with my ex since I was 19,broke up when I was 25 I'm 27 now and I've been single for 2 years and I've been pretty much scared to date.. I tried going out with this guy like months ...

B/f can't have children, when I asked him if I changed my mind about wanting them, he said "go find someone else"

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4716 days ago

30 December 2011 (F) - I met a guy who had a vasectomy and I didn't want kids either so we were dating for 2 years but I've asked him recently what if I change my mind and he says go find someone else. Should I go now or wait and see if my feelings change? I felt kind of ...

I feel like a closet girlfriend. Is it time to move on?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4708 days ago

30 December 2011 (F) - Hi I'm shy slightly overweight and I've been seeing my bf of 17 months regularly. He comes over between 1 and 3 times a week, lives just 4 miles away and we love each other. I love him because he's attentive in many ways, has a lively personali...

Swore I wouldn't fall for someone since I'm leaving for the military, but it happened anyway! What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4716 days ago

30 December 2011 (M) - Hi - I am leaving for the military in just under 4 months. I am older (mid 20's) and have been working for this for years and am dead set on going. About eight months ago, I made the decision then and there not to date. I wasn't in a relationship, ...

Why do I have such trouble getting boyfriend to talk to me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4716 days ago

30 December 2011 (F) - I have ai have such trouble when it comes to boyfriends not talking to me (like not answering my texts and such) I tell myself they are busy or they aren't at their phone. Or something has come up. But then I check their online social network page ...

Can anyone think of a way we can talk my Indian girlfriend's parents into letting us date?

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30 December 2011 (M) - Ok so I am 15 and I have a girlfriend who is also 15. We've been going out for 7 months and I really want her parents to let her date but they say she can't. She is Indian and her parents don't believe in dating. I am american and my parents let me ...

Is it normal to suddenly feel insecure in a new relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4716 days ago

30 December 2011 (F) - I am a 29 year old woman with a not-so-great track record with relationships. I have not been in a normal relationship for several years. I have been dating a wonderful, kind man for almost six months now. I took things very slowly in the beginning, ...

My BF's teenage child is coming to live with us - But I don't think I'm ready for that!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4716 days ago

30 December 2011 (F) - I am 28 yrs old and have been dating a guy who is 43 for nearly 4 yrs now. He was married before and has one kid who is 16 now, he is divorced about 13yrs. My problem is the ex took his kid out of state over a yr ago and just a couple of weeks ago ...

I started gagging when I tried oral sex on my Bf, my eyes got watery, I felt like I was gonna throw up. Now my Bf's very upset with my reaction, and doesn't want to try ever again

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4716 days ago

30 December 2011 (F) - My bf and I are both in our first serious relationship, and also inexperienced. I am more shy while hes a bit more adventurous and doesn't mind trying new things regarding physical intimacy. We haven't gone all the way, because I dont want to. But ...

Partying causing my relationship going down hill

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4711 days ago

30 December 2011 (M) - Okay so heres the thing, ive been dating this girl for a while and im certain that i love her but i have some problems (problems which she knew about prior to the relationship starting because i dated her sister before her) and the problems are that ...

He's my ex. I still love him. Why does he keep me as his FWB? How do I heal myself?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4716 days ago

30 December 2011 (F) - Hello, I will make this brief. I am a 23 year old female, who just got out of a relationship with a 22 year old male. We'll call him K. He and I had a lot happen between us that was mainly my doing, I was not ready for a relationship since I had ...

I’m just wondering if I should wish my ex a Happy New Year

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4716 days ago

30 December 2011 (F) - Hiya, Me and my ex were together for a year (my first boyfriend and the one I lost my virginity to) and we broke up the at the beginning of October this year~ it was mutual between us and he called me up to say it~ we had both gone off to differen...