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Archived questions from: March, 2016 (see latest in Crushes category)

Crushes: Help and advice

Should I end this relationship? It hurts me to end something that has so much potential and beauty to grow

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3185 days ago

31 March 2016 (F) - Hi guys, I'm in a dilemma. I come from a very traditional Pakistani family but born and raised in the states. I grew up wanting a Pakistani guy who looks like me and has similar values and upbringing because it's so complex and detailed. An...

What do I do? My BF refuses to stop talking to a girl he had a crush on before meeting me.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3186 days ago

31 March 2016 (F) - So I moved in with my boyfriend in the end of OCT . It was love at first meeting and a very quick move in together. He moved me in on his birthday of all things and said I was the best birthday gift ever. Well since then Ive had to wade through ...

Am I a woman who just can't help herself? I've fallen in love with a married man

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3186 days ago

31 March 2016 (F) - He is married, I have fallen so deeply in love with him I can't let go. My feeling is since we both can't and don't want to let go we should just ride the situation that we are in and see where it takes us. Every man who is single only wants to sl...

I have feelings for the boy I am texting and having sex with

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3187 days ago

30 March 2016 (?) - The past 2 month I've been texting and sleeping with a guy and recently found out I am 4 weeks pregnant. We have spoke about it and argued a lot over the past few days due to him telling all of his friends after me repeatedly asking and telling him ...

What should I do? Crushing a lot. A friend recommended telling him I like him but I'm scared

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3188 days ago

29 March 2016 (F) - I like this boy, a lot, like a lot a lot, and we're quite close. We hang out quite a bit, and we're really flirtatious but I don't know how he feels. He'll never make the extra effort, like text me or call me, we'll only speak face to face. I ...

Truth or fake? Wish I never catfished him. Do I tell him the truth and end up with losing him, because he feels betrayed?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3188 days ago

29 March 2016 (M) - So I had this crush and I found his boyfriend on online. I started talking to his boyfriend but used him to get info on his now ex. As it turns out me and him click I really like him as a friend and now after nearly 4 months of talking I feel bad...

Does he really want a relationship, eventually? Or not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3191 days ago

27 March 2016 (F) - I hope someone can help I fell out badly with someone I became close to Wasn't a relationship but was on its way there but then because of how it ended we ended up not talking for 2 years Then he gets in touch and messages sporadically but not...

I'm Sexually innexperienced , does it affect my chances of meeting someone ? (Bi)

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3188 days ago

26 March 2016 (M) - Dear People of dearcupid.org Let me start off first by writing about myself. I am a bi sexual male in the early 20s , living in Europe. I don't prefer any gender over the other. I work out regularly and I like my self the way I am. You could ...

How can I deal with this rejection?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3192 days ago

26 March 2016 (F) - For the past 3 months me and this guy have been getting really close, he told me he started falling for me in the first month and I've never had a relationship before so I said to him I don't know what I want because I've never done this , I just ...

I want to date him, but told him I want to be friends!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3189 days ago

24 March 2016 (F) - Hi I've been single for over 4 years now had quite a few dates over that time but nothing came of them and then I stopped dating for over a year then I started talking to someone online and he asked me out, at first I said yes but because my ...

Should I pass my number to him and be brave and ask him out for coffee?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3195 days ago

23 March 2016 (F) - Hello guys. Just wanted peoples view on what I should do. I am a manager of a shop and have seen a customer pop in from time to time, every month or so not often at all. I passed him by today on the street and we smiled at each other. When he ...

Do I intimidate him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3196 days ago

22 March 2016 (F) - Yesterday i visited the guy I've been talking to at work. He works in a coffee shop and I ordered an iced coffee but condiment bar ran out of half and half. I went back to the bar and ask him for half and half when he was getting it out o...

What can I do? I have a crush on a person but I am in a relationship with another.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3196 days ago

22 March 2016 (F) - Dear readers, Thanks for taking your time to read this. I've been in a loving relationship with my boyfriend for more than six years. We met each other in Highschool and were each others' firsts in almost everything. I am 22, my boyfriend is t...

My wife says she has feelings for her boss!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3195 days ago

22 March 2016 (M) - 2 days back me and my wife were having casual discussion and my wife informed that she is having feelings for her boss. I was stunned to hear this. She further said that she is feeling for him for past 3-4 months. She said she wanted to control her ...

Why isn’t she wearing her bra in this instance?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3194 days ago

21 March 2016 (M) - OK I don't mean to sound creepy or pervie, but what does it mean when my economics tutor at uni doesn't wear her bra when I was alone with her? Does she like me? Because during class in the morning I noticed her bra straps but later in the afternoon ...

So there’s this girl... what would be the best move I can make?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3187 days ago

21 March 2016 (M) - Hi, Ive never been one to post a heart filled question but I've got one thats been bothering for a while and I need some advice. So theres been this girl which I have been friends with the whole way through school she was one of my best friends ...

How should I proceed without scaring her away?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3197 days ago

21 March 2016 (M) - I've seemingly had feelings for my best friend since I met her when classes started in August. I say seemingly because I'm not sure if it was always feelings, or just the thrill of a meeting a new friend-my first college friend at that. We hung out ...

She's not sure what's stopping her from having a relationship

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3200 days ago

18 March 2016 (M) - just starting to see this girl we had an off and on ting going for a while. I love her very much she saying she wants to have a relationship with me but some thing is stopping her. she is unsure what it is she thinks I'm a really great guy and thin...

Would it be a bad idea to text him? There was no formal goodbye to our relationship

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3200 days ago

18 March 2016 (F) - I dated someone for a month, which ended two months ago. There was no formal goodbye. The communication just faded on his end. I never reached out again but I find myself thinking about him all the time. I was very attracted to him physical...

What should I do about this guy? Did I over-react?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3199 days ago

17 March 2016 (M) - I recently started seeing a guy that i have known for quite a while (we attended the same school and live in the same town). He started chatting to me on Facebook after we had run into each other one night. He was always asking how i am, how wo...

Would it be too forward if I got my crush's phone and put my number in it?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3201 days ago

17 March 2016 (F) - i have a crush on this guy that works at my local coffee shop and I'm pretty sure that he like me too. every time i go in, he would give me compliments and ask about my day. for example yesterday he gave me a hug and told me i smelled really good ...

I want to ask him to hangout platonically without pressure of being a date. How do I go about it?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3196 days ago

16 March 2016 (F) - There's this guy at my work who just got hired 3 months ago. Initially, We hardly talked to each other and I was indifferent towards him. This all changed few weeks later when I ran into him in stairway-the first thing he asked was if I go to the ...

Things ended without any explanation, now I want him in my life as a friend. Or should I leave him be?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3202 days ago

16 March 2016 (F) - Long story short last year me and my ultimate crush were on the borderline of a relationship and I could tell he felt the same. We're both sort of shy I guess and never admitted but always spent time together and people thought we were in a ...

Should I give up on him completely or talk to him? Or am I wasting my time?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3203 days ago

16 March 2016 (F) - For about a month I've been talking to a guy I met through a dating app. As we got to know each other more, he said that he really liked and wanted to get to know me better and go on dates together. At first he said numerous times that he's ...

Should I ask her out again or should I take it as her not being interested?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3202 days ago

16 March 2016 (F) - I have the biggest crush on my coworker. We hardly see each other or have alone time at work. When we do work together I feel a lot of tension and I get nervous around her. I think she may sense that I like her because I do stare at her a lot. We...

He poked me in the side , is he into me??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3198 days ago

15 March 2016 (F) - Was travelling home in the bus. I saw a guy who has started being friendly with me. I am usually quiet and reserved but I always greet people in a friendly way. Today , as I was getting off at my stop, he poked me in the side of my belly and smiled. ...

How do I stop? I'm constantly craving male attention and end up obsessing over those who give me this attention

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3201 days ago

15 March 2016 (F) - I have a recurrent issue that seems to be getting out of hand and worse. It seems that every time a man flirts with me or shows interest, I start to revel in this attention and I start liking them. For instance, a guy has recently joi...

Why did his mood and intentions change rapidly, and did he take my number in the first place if he really wasn't interested?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3203 days ago

15 March 2016 (F) - I met this guy over a year ago at a family function that at the time claimed he liked me and wanted to speak to me again. After taking my number, he never contacted me so I let it go and moved on. I met one of his relatives at a party and he asked...

My Boyfriend's ex just will not let go. Shall I attend the wedding we're both invited to, or stay away?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3203 days ago

15 March 2016 (F) - My boyfriend is taking me to a wedding and his ex, who is Very much clearly still in love with him, will be there. Should I go to this wedding? I don't want to end up causing a scene. FYI, my boyfriend has told her to move on and that they won...

He's my boss and ten years older. Should I end the relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3204 days ago

13 March 2016 (M) - Basically, I am 19 and in university I work part time and for a while I really hated my boss, I met him on a night out one night and seen a side of him that I didn't see in work (a side I liked). At first I thought I was just having a crush bu...

Dating for 5 weeks. How do I let him know that I'm still interested despite me rejecting him advances??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3204 days ago

13 March 2016 (F) - I've been dating a sweet, genuine guy for about 5 weeks. During the first few weeks he was always initiating conversations throughout the day and towards the middle it evened out between us. We had a make out session this past weekend howe...

I have never dated. How can I negotiate all these rules with my parents?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3205 days ago

12 March 2016 (F) - I am I School freshman and I have never been on a date before. my friend off sort of try to set me up on date but my parents make it really hard because they won't let me go anywhere to hang out with a friend and my day drive or they approve ...

He seemed like a good guy. Now it's pretty much nothing. Why?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3204 days ago

12 March 2016 (F) - I was dating this guy casually for a few months and he was really in to me. He would text me every day and ask to see me every couple of days. He'd talk to me constantly and then one weekend I was too busy to go to one of his parties and suddenly...

My boyfriend's obsession with his friend's girlfriend is creepy

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3206 days ago

11 March 2016 (F) - My on/off bf of two years has known this girl for a year because she is on and off with his best friend. Ever since he met her, he’s hidden the fact that he’s socialised with her, he’s liked all of her profile pictures on facebook, all of her ...

Is this a healthy relationship? Should I stop texting? Is he using me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3209 days ago

9 March 2016 (F) - Hi, me and my boyfriend met on Facebook,we've met 5 times and have been going out for two weeks. We used to text all the time, almost 24\7. Now I'm fed up and every time he texts me I ignore it and reply an hour later. It makes me sad to think th...

How do I normalize? What do I ask him to stop wondering? Help me with understanding, this long term crush and that moment you can’t stop thinking about!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3208 days ago

9 March 2016 (F) - So I think I will try and start at the beginning, I found after about three years of friendship that I had developed a crush on a friend. We became friends at a 6week summer camp we worked at each summer since we met. We started passing letters last...

Can I win her over?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3209 days ago

8 March 2016 (M) - So I was in the library at my college the other day and as I was looking for a place to study I saw this very unique and exotic looking girl. She had the most beautiful dark hair and the most intense features. I saw her before on campus and her pers...

I'm getting mixed signals from him, after giving him signs I like him. I don't want to waste my time, what do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3209 days ago

6 March 2016 (F) - About a month ago I met this guy at a conference. He was in my committee and he was very friendly, we ended up hanging out for four days. He was really friendly, a little touchy, always wanted to seat next to me. Basically there were little signs ...

I like my friend but not sure if that makes me gay!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 3212 days ago

4 March 2016 (M) - is liking your guy friend in a not so friend like way good or not? Does that make me gay? should I be feeling this way toward my childhood friend? ...

Is this guy into me? Flirting when a simple email would do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3214 days ago

4 March 2016 (F) - So this guy, seem to get my attention and make small conversation with me any given opportunity he can. Example, at the end of a lecture he pull me to the side to ask a tiny question and make conversation. He has done this on several occasions, and ...