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writes:I was dating this guy casually for a few months and he was really in to me. He would text me every day and ask to see me every couple of days. He'd talk to me constantly and then one weekend I was too busy to go to one of his parties and suddenly he started to pull back and now even when I initiate conversation it's pretty dead. Has anyone else had this happen to you? He seemed like a good guy and we expressed feelings for each other on multiple occasions but now it's pretty much nothing.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (14 March 2016):
 It sounds like he may have met someone else. You say you where dating casually, therefore really he wasn't in a committed relationship to you. I think if he was really serious about you it wouldn't have been so casual for so long.
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (12 March 2016):
 I wouldn't say someone who's causally for a few months is into you. I would be yawning and losing interest. I think he could be dating a few people at the time, and is really good at making it sound like he's into people, such as using sweet words. What really matters is how the relationship progresses and how much time he has for you. You don't talk enough to know why he has gone silent. If the only way you could see him is in parties then it means he can't find some other reason to see you, alone.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (12 March 2016):
 Did he perhaps meet another girl at the party you could not attend? And his silence is because he is either ashamed or he isn't sure whom to pick?
Personally, I'd back off a little bit , see if he picks up the "slack". If he doesn't you DO have a clear answer that he isn't as into you as you are into him. And then maybe it's time to let him go.
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