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Archived questions from: 23 February, 2009 (see latest in Breaking up category)

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Breaking up: Help and advice

What do I do to get her to want me back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5780 days ago

23 February 2009 (M) - The only way she's going to want me back is if she feels like she's losing me. How do i do that? We've been apart for 4 months and she doesnt' want to date me, but wants to remain friends and talk/catch up etc. Up until a month ago she would say ...

I really need to know where I stand but he does not seem to want to talk to me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5780 days ago

23 February 2009 (F) - Hi all. Me and my boyfriend fell out a few days ago and are barely talking. It's absolutely killing me. Last night he told me it was over but still continued to text me a couple of times that night. I left him to it until this morning when I s...

We broke up due to the long distance, should I visit her now? She invited me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5761 days ago

23 February 2009 (F) - Hey, i feel so pathetic for even writing this message. But the truth is im still in love with my ex. She was my first, so i understand that im going to be caught up for a while, but it has been about 4/5 months now. The only reason we broke up was b...

I want to be with him but I feel unhappy about our secret relationship...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5780 days ago

23 February 2009 (F) - Dear Cupid, I've been dating this guy for a year and change. His whole family is not fond of me especially his mother. This is because I dated her other son prior to this one for about half a year. I found out that he cheated on me so I broke it...

I love talking to my ex but this makes it more difficult to move on, should I cut all contact?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5780 days ago

23 February 2009 (M) - My girlfriend broke up with me a few months ago. She lead me on and kept saying i love you and how much she missed me following the break up. About a month ago she gave me final closure and said she wouldn't contact me because she didn't want ...

Two relationships that went bad for no apparent reason??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5718 days ago

23 February 2009 (M) - i feel like everything is my fault and i i don't know I mean i just came out of 2 really good relationships that went to hell for no apparent reason and im not getting why, am i doing something wrong? i was dating this girl named amber and we were...

I'm seeing someone new. She is great but I still love my ex (who cheated)!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5780 days ago

23 February 2009 (M) - Hey guys, I've been reading some very good advice on this forum. The posters here are very cool and helpful. If I can ever help I promise to, but right now, I'm afraid it is me who is going nuts. Let me start by saying, I think I'm crazy...

I forgave my abusive boyfriend but I cant seem to forget!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5780 days ago

23 February 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years. About six months ago we had a fight which lead him to pushing me and choking me. He told me he could never be with me because of what he had done. I love him so much that I couldnt let him go. ...

I tried to save my marriage after my wife cheated but now I think it is time to move on

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5780 days ago

23 February 2009 (M) - Today is Monday .. saturday we got a big fight with my wife and she took my two children ( 5 and 11 yrs ) to a friend's house, now I dont know what to do, mainly the fight is for always the same,for money, I work she does not, she and my kids just ...

My ex doesn't want to talk about our break up, do you think he will ever contact me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5781 days ago

23 February 2009 (F) - hello. It's been about 7 weeks since my ex boyfriend broke up with me. we were together for over 4 years. he broke up with me after the stresses of life (working all the time, no money, lack of sleep etc) and we kept arguing so much, he couldn'...

My ex wants to find god first, should I wait for him or move on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5781 days ago

23 February 2009 (F) - Hi, what should I do. I just broke up with my bf, we were together for 3months. At first it was happy then he got stressed with work and we both dunno how to handle it He needed space while I felt neglected but we both tried to work it out. Ov...

We fight a lot, he broke up with me and now wants me back

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5780 days ago

23 February 2009 (F) - Hello again, My boyfriend and I have been going out for about a year and 2 months we usually fight over really insignificant things but this time we had an arguments and he broke up with me saying that we fight alot and that thats not how a relation...

He makes me feel bad about wanting to leave him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3454 days ago

23 February 2009 (F) - I have been in a a strange relationship for almost four years now. I stated to him 2 weeks into it that I did not want to be with him and he cried. I felt so horrible for making him cry that I capitulated. Since than I would have to say I have ...

Caught between two people.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5781 days ago

23 February 2009 (F) - I moved to a new town just over a year ago. When I first got there I met someone and we became friends. After a couple of months, we started dating and I fell in love. The only problem was that I wasn't fair to this person. Before I left ho...

Even though I have an STD, that STILL isn't enough to make me hate him.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5778 days ago

23 February 2009 (F) - My ex boyfriend and I dated for quite some time. For the most part, we had a good relationship. I fell hard for him, I'd have to say and well I can't seem to get back up. Our break up was very horrible. We basically said every rude thing ...

How do I handle this when she comes to visit me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5781 days ago

23 February 2009 (F) - I was with my girlfriend long distance for 3 years and we broke up about a month ago. We agreed we didn't want to date anyone else and she told me if there was to be another chance we would have to start all over, friends first, but the "I love ...