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He makes me feel bad about wanting to leave him!

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Question - (23 February 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 8 July 2015)
A female United States age 41-50, anonymous writes:

I have been in a a strange relationship for almost four years now. I stated to him 2 weeks into it that I did not want to be with him and he cried. I felt so horrible for making him cry that I capitulated. Since than I would have to say I have "broken up" with him nearly a dozen times and he always cries and makes me feel bad. The strange thing is that I am not really a patient person but he is making me feel bad about leaving him. I have always felt that we were more like siblings than b/f and g/f especially since kissing one another is so awkward. See I want us to continue working together as we have a company together but I cannot be his future wife. I tell him this almost daily and yet he does not care about what I say. How can I get what I want out of this situation where he is not hurt and we can retain our friendship and working relationship. Oh yea and the last time I stated how I wanted to break up he threatened to take away the company that we built together. Gosh we really bring the gly out of each other. I am receptive to your take of the situation.

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A female reader, hazel3 United States +, writes (8 July 2015):

Im in the exact situation.....he makes me feel like shit for leaving...this is the 5th time? i think and im finally doing it. no more wasting my time and his.

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A male reader, rcn United States +, writes (23 February 2009):

rcn agony auntBeing in business,do you have a partnership agreement? Anytime, holding an equitable stake, a contract is needed to protect your investment.

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