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Archived questions from: 18 February, 2009 (see latest in Breaking up category)

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Breaking up: Help and advice

My ex still wants to hold me close, even although we've broken up...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5785 days ago

18 February 2009 (F) - My ex, still wants to hold me and be close to me, he broke it up, should I allow this as I love him and want him back or tell him to leave me alone. I'm confused coz I know he loves me but someone got in the way of our relationship and he said he ...

Should I go see my ex for reasons of our split and maybe see if we can save our relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5785 days ago

18 February 2009 (M) - I was seeing this girl for about 4 months and she was really keen on me from the word go. After only about a month and a half she burst into tears one night when I could'nt have sex with her without a comdom on as for some reason it hurts me to not ...

He finds it so difficult to move out because of the children...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5785 days ago

18 February 2009 (F) - Myself and someone I work with fell in love with each other about 5/6 months ago... we both told each other and things progressed in to a "love affair". There was one problem though. I had a boyfriend, who I ended with because I had no feelings for ...

If he was so unhappy why did he spend so much time with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5785 days ago

18 February 2009 (F) - help, i feel so confused. I have been with my boyfriend a total of 7.5 years, the first few years of our relationship were good although he was quite jealous and parnoid. 4.5 years in, we split up because he wasn't sure about us and had died his...

How can he just move away with no strings attached?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5765 days ago

18 February 2009 (F) - We were together since i was 14. I lost my virginity to him at 25 (he is the only guy i've ever slept with), only because he pledged to my mum that we were going to be married. I'm 33 this year, we're still not married. He never has conversations ...

How can I forget that my b/f had sex with someone else?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5784 days ago

18 February 2009 (F) - how can i forget my boyfriend had sex with someone else? how can i trust that he wont hurt me again? i want to trust him but i dont think i know how any more well me and my bf have been together for almost 4 years he is my first everything ...

Am I being unreasonably selfish here or is something else at work?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5785 days ago

18 February 2009 (M) - I am strangely and suddenly conflicted. I broke up with my ex-wife a few years ago, we still have a couple of minor children and get along great as friends. We were together for many years. On some level, we still love each other though her ...

I know sex isn't everything, but it is something!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5786 days ago

18 February 2009 (F) - I fear I may have been a massive bitch to a boy - so excuse the length, but I need to be honest here if I am to get honest answers back. There was this guy I met at uni about 4 months ago. He was really nice and sweet and we really got on. W...

Was he having pity sex with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5786 days ago

18 February 2009 (F) - This is kind of embarassing for me even though it is anonymous, but here it goes. My husband and I have been split up for a little while now. It just seemed as if we couldn't spend 2 minutes without getting into an arguement anymore. Since this was ...

She knows I love her, she doesn't hide anything from me, but why would she do this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5786 days ago

18 February 2009 (M) - Basically ive been talking to this girl for awhile almost 5 months, we went out for 2 but had to break up because she wasnt over her ex, and didnt want anything bad to happen between us, so about 2 weeks ago the ex called her and finally told her he ...

My abusive relationship is now over, but I'm wondering if I've become an abuser myself!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5785 days ago

18 February 2009 (F) - This is going to sound so strange, but I have been in and emotionally and verbally abusive relationship for 3 years and I finally told him to get help or leave, he denied he had a problem and left saying I kicked him out. I have decided to get ...