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Archived questions from: 7 February, 2009 (see latest in Breaking up category)

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Breaking up: Help and advice

Thinking of being on my own - I need your advice, would this be selfish of me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5763 days ago

7 February 2009 (F) - Here is my story. When my husband and I first met, it was not love at first sight for me, but it was for him. Since getting married he has had a lot of insecurities that I had tried to get past, but as the years flourished it was getting a lot ...

What are the classic signs of a controlling man?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5766 days ago

7 February 2009 (F) - I would love to know how one can know if a man is showing signs of controlling/possessive behaviour? Apart from breakup with the man who has these patterns, what can one do to avoid a breakup and heartache etc - is it possible for a man to overcome ...

Why would she want to look for other guys so early after we broke up? Please help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5767 days ago

7 February 2009 (M) - My ex and I broke up a few weeks ago she said she had lost her feelings for me. She has admitted to talking casually to guy behind my back for a few months but claims to have never cheated on me. When I confronted her about it after the breakup ...

I don't know what to think, why does he need a break?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5767 days ago

7 February 2009 (F) - okay . its really hard for me . im only 16 and im feeling the bad part of love already.. i had a boyfriend who was my life we lasted 2 years and three months... and he told me that he needs time .... i dont kno wwhat to think .. is it that he ...

My friend is extremely depressed after a break up, how can I help him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5767 days ago

7 February 2009 (F) - Hey guys. So i got this friend and he and his gf broke up about 2 months ago and he seems so depressed coz he says he never felt so with any other girl. I try talking to him but i jus end up saying the wrong things or he jus too sensitive. He does ...

She told me she loved ME, then all of a sudden broke up to be with him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5758 days ago

7 February 2009 (M) - help!! ok i dated this girl..i thought we were gonna take things slowly..but she was like madly in love..she kept sayin that she's never felt like this about anyone..and she's totally in love and stuff..even i got pretty serious about her..then ...

Too many mixed signals and not enough time apart?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5767 days ago

7 February 2009 (M) - My ex and I broke up 4 weeks ago after 3.5 years together. We were very much in love and talking about marriage and kids just a month before the breakup. We had a heated arguement over a college female friend she wanted me to stop talking to. She ...

In love with a married man and missing him badly, please help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5767 days ago

7 February 2009 (F) - i had casual relationship with my co-worker who is married with two kids. he was a straight man, but i have managed to fell him down in my snare as I did not stop till i get him. i initiated everything even the first sex we had, i was the one who ...

He acts like me wants me, then he gets back with his ex. What's his problem?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5767 days ago

7 February 2009 (F) - plzzzz guys can u help me. ecpecailly guys. I’m trying to figure this guy out… A few months ago, I met the most awesome guy and we just clicked. In fact, I think we practically spent every waking moment together when we weren’t in our classes. ...

Why is my ex flirting with me when he dumped me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5767 days ago

7 February 2009 (F) - So when I first got there we stared at each other for a bit then I looked away and went to sit down. He didn't talk to me. I found out he told Brian he wasn't going to. Well Brians mom sent us to the store to get food….me, chris, carrie, and bria...

I don't understand why he wanted to break up

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5767 days ago

7 February 2009 (F) - hi, i have a serious problem. i was in a relationship for past 4 years, last year nov 08 he asked for a break up, the reason for break up was religion( im muslim - yrs 23 and he is hindu - yrs 24) earlier he never had any problem with religion, i ...

I just don't know what is going on with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5765 days ago

7 February 2009 (F) - since me and my boyfriend broke up everything has been going downhill. i was depressed for a couple weeks after but i've talked to a lot of people and they've made me realize it's time to move on. so i guess i got over that. but now i just feel like ...

We broke up, he says he loves me, but I hear he is trying to be with at least three girls, should I forget him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5768 days ago

7 February 2009 (F) - my boyfriend just broke up with me on the 3rd because of so much stress and hes depressed and things like that but says he still has feelings for me. its only been a few days i know but we have only talked one time sence then through text.......

My ex girlfriend invades my head at night, what can I do to stop this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5766 days ago

7 February 2009 (M) - Here is the thing me and my girlfriend broke up after only like 1 month. The bitch never really respected me and I am over her I mean I do not think about her much during the day and I do not really miss her. But when I sleep I can not get her out ...