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writes:i feel like everything is my fault and i i don't know I mean i just came out of 2 really good relationships that went to hell for no apparent reason and im not getting why, am i doing something wrong? i was dating this girl named amber and we were together for almost a month and everything seemed great until she started to seem so mellowed out and didnt want to talk and i asked her if something was wrong and she said we should break up and when i asked her what was making her feel this way this is what she said "your everything i want in a guy i just believe we're not going to work out" and i dont get how the hell this happens and she wouldnt discuss anything else and the next releatiopship a girl tries to cheat on me with my best friend but he tells me and stops her and i found out after i break up with her that she had two more dates lined up!! and she wouldnt even talk to me about it..it just seems like its all my fault i mean i never cheat, i dont lie when they wanna hang out im there, very seldom do i not unless im at sports practice or tennis can someone help!!
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reader, Who +, writes (26 April 2009):
 “…im not getting why…i dont get how the hell this happens…”
I know the feeling; like you are working in the middle of a field, doing everything you are supposed to and out of nowhere a locomotive appears and runs over you. Get used to it, unless you become a celebrate monk there are always going to be parts of romance you are not going to understand.
“…i feel like everything is my fault…am i doing something wrong?”
If you ask this to 10 different women 11 of them are going to tell you yes, it is ALWAYS your fault.
“…i asked her what was making her feel this way this is what she said "your everything i want in a guy i just believe we're not going to work out" “
She lied about the first part, trying to let you down gently. Give her points for trying.
“…girl tries to cheat on me with my best friend but he tells me and stops her…”
That’s a good friend you got there. If you ever need to move a body he is the one to ask to help.
But seriously folks, you are young and almost everyone has these fits and starts with their first few relationships. Expect a few more before you find the girl that is right for you. When you she will make you forget all the bad feelings you are having now.
Best of luck.
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