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Archived questions from: 9 December, 2009 (see latest in Breaking up category)

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Breaking up: Help and advice

She broke up with me, has moved on and I am sick with hurt/jealousy

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5460 days ago

9 December 2009 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been together since around the end of September. It was a short relationship but we became very close very quickly and I fell head over heels in love with her, more so than any of my recent exes, with whom things just ...

Complicated relationship issues, please help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5460 days ago

9 December 2009 (F) - So two years I was out for my best friends, brothers birthday when i walked into a pub and instantly noticed a male. I said to my friend, i will marry him, jokingly. She gave me this look to say how dare you. As it turns out this male was my frie...

We broke up, but I miss him, what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5460 days ago

9 December 2009 (F) - I broke up with my ex a year ago in a bit of a hasty decision. I think I still have feelings for him but I'm not interested in a relationship or anything serious as I'm in college. But I miss just talking to him and wanted to get back in touch with ...

How to deal with it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5460 days ago

9 December 2009 (F) - How do i get over him its so tough I really need advice on this please We are seperating and its not easy I just spoke to him and he is so calm about everything How can two people that was so inlove and dedicated to each other turn out to ...

I want to move on...I really do...but how do I come out of this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5460 days ago

9 December 2009 (F) - I broke up with my boyfriend a few months back, because of a few problems we had. Its been months, but I still love him. I miss him a lot. I cry all the time just thinking of all the times we spent together. I was so happy with him. I never fel...

I have her Xmas presents even though she dumped me... do I give them?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5460 days ago

9 December 2009 (M) - My girlfriend dumped me a couple of weeks ago, Ive asked why, but been given no clear answers. I do miss her very much and am really hurting, Id like to hear from her-yes id like her back. I have already brought her, her Christmas presents. A fr...

He's ripped me off and left me. What do I do now?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5460 days ago

9 December 2009 (F) - My ex and I were together for four years, we met through a mutual friend. Our relationship felt perfect. We were engaged for the last two years (he proposed) and early this summer booked our wedding; we'd been living together for a year and before ...

She's too scared to leave her violent boyfriend!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5458 days ago

9 December 2009 (M) - I really feel sad about the situation now. She has been wanting to brake up with her bf of 4 years but she is scared. She broke up with him many times but she patched back with him by force, her bf forced her. Now she is saying she likes me but ...

How do I get my 38 year old lover back?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5460 days ago

9 December 2009 (F) - Hey everyone, Ive got a big problem. He's 38 and im 18 and even though ive heard all the comments about robbing the cradle, hes only using you for sex. I dont care and I love him and he loved me. it all started on saturday when he came up from...

Was I wrong? I need help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5460 days ago

9 December 2009 (F) - My ex and I broke up about 3 months ago. After a year and a half together. He said he couldn't deal with the relationship anymore. But we still talk and try to rebuild our friendship to get back into a relationship. I feel like I have no control in ...

How can I get out of this despair?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5460 days ago

9 December 2009 (M) - I couldn't have ever imagined even in the wildest dream of mine about such an end to my blind faith in her.It was a relationship where though we didn't exchanged words but the hearts knew it all.To be very fair,I absolutely have no idea when it all ...

Please give me some insight on how to get him back...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5459 days ago

9 December 2009 (F) - I'm 18 years old and for the last year and 5 months have been in love with a 38 year old man. I've heard it all before, oh he's too old for you, oh he's only using you for sex. So I really dont need to hear it from people on here who dont even know ...

Separated for 2 years, finally file for divorce why is my husband still a basket case?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5461 days ago

9 December 2009 (F) - Separated from husband a couple of years ago, we'd been drifting apart for many years, doing separate things, different hobbies, different friends, it got to the point where I didn't know why we were together. We talked about the problems in our ...

Tips for a heartbroken insomniac?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5461 days ago

9 December 2009 (F) - Tips for a heartbroken insomniac? Dumped by the guy I love + long-time insomniac = not very stable version of me I'm too young (15) for many sleep aides according toy parents, but as I try to sleep, I can't help but to think of my ex that dumped m...

He told me to move out because his ex said he was a bad person

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5461 days ago

9 December 2009 (F) - I got involved with a much older man. It began asu almost a fling. I had only had two boyfriends in my life and when a smart handsome older man showed me attention I thought I needed to live a little. We got together for a week and I had the best ...

He told me early last month that he could not do 'us' . This is so hard on me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5455 days ago

9 December 2009 (M) - Hello, I am writing to see if someone can help me please with a problem that I am going through. I had been dating my partner for 12 months before we broke up a month ago. Things were going great, I was refered to as my beautiful boy, and on my...

I don't know how to stop missing him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5460 days ago

9 December 2009 (F) - I don't know how to stop. I don't know how to stop loving my ex boyfriend. I don't know how to stop missing him. It seems over the past year, I can only go a few weeks before I run back to him all over again. He's like a drug and I am honestly ad...

Why is he so hostile? And why do I allow him to keep hurting me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5458 days ago

9 December 2009 (F) - My fiance ended it with me 6 months ago. After 4 months of messing with my emotions, I changed my number and we had no contact for 2 months. Then last week he emailed and left his number and asked to see me. I called and ended up going to see him...

He didn't say the right things when I asked how I would know he would never cheat on me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5458 days ago

9 December 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I just got back together after a year of being broken up. The difference this time is that i moved to my mom's house on april so we live an hour and a half away now. We used to live together at his parents when we were toegther by ...

Is my ex girlfriend playing mind games???

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5461 days ago

9 December 2009 (M) - Hi sorry this question is going to be really long with the details and such. Me and this girl dated for 3 years. You could say she was my first love. I was her first love too. Our relationship was wonderful she was tight with my family i was tig...