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Archived questions from: 8 December, 2009 (see latest in Breaking up category)

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Breaking up: Help and advice

Flaky girlfriend never calls or is always late (but didn't used to be)

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5492 days ago

8 December 2009 (M) - This girl and I were together 4 years, broke up, had new FB/GFs and then got back together (sort of). She often says she'll call me at a certain time, or we'll hang out, but then I don't ever hear from her, or she'll call hours later to cancel our ...

She said she'd dump b/f and came back with an engagement ring!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5492 days ago

8 December 2009 (F) - My girlfriend fell in love with me and promised to dump her boyfriend, so that she could be free to be with me. After a couple of months at sea(She was in the military) she returned with an engagement ring. I was devistated... She told me that ...

I can't understand why he must have a girlfriend when he could have me anytime he wanted.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5492 days ago

8 December 2009 (F) - hello everybody, I have a problem with my ex, we saw each other after our break up and I did that because he said that he loved me, but after one year of beeing with him whenever he wanted me and seeing him with his new girlfriend, I just couldn't ...

Should I try and save what was a great relationship and could now be even stronger?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5491 days ago

8 December 2009 (M) - Ahh where to start.......I have been dating a girl now for almost 4 years we recently broke up, probably about 2 months ago. We had a great relationship and it all came to a fall over a house I wanted to buy. My gf and I had been looking at houses ...

My bf wants us to move in together....but I'm not ready =[

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5492 days ago

8 December 2009 (F) - Hello everyone. Thanks to whoever reads this and can give me some advice. Well ive just started University and have been in the City for about 2 months. My boyfriend recently moved down also and has his own house share. Well he wants us to move...

I don't know whether to be with him or move on after this happening... help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5492 days ago

8 December 2009 (F) - A couple of months ago my boyfriend slept with someone else out of the blue... complete surprise and never thought he would ever do anything like that. Have been trying to move on - with him - trying couples counselling. Feel some issues are ...

Is it really over this time?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5492 days ago

8 December 2009 (F) - Please help.. me and my boyfriend were together for 11 months. he jumped right out of a bad 2 year relationship with his ex (in which they had broken up several times..got back together..twards the end she wouldnt really let the break up happen....

How long should I give my ex a "pass"?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5492 days ago

8 December 2009 (M) - My ex girlfriend broke up with me this past August, but till continued to hang out like a couple until about Halloween. Some things in out relationship caused me to go psycho on her. I became controlling, continually asked her what she was doing, ...

Boredom? Midlife crisis or just plain immature?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5492 days ago

8 December 2009 (F) - Hello, I have been in this relationship for almost 6 year. We live together and get along perfectly fine. Until last week when he announced he wants to break up because he feels "tied down". He says he stills loves me but he misses the "...

My new girlfriend has fallen in love with me, but my ex wont stop begging for me back! What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5492 days ago

8 December 2009 (F) - My ex of a year broke up with me abut 4 months ago, saying it was because i couldnt tell her i would be there for her. I begged for her back, like an jackass, and she wanted none of it. I waited for about a month and started talking to another ...

He broke up with me due to the army. Does he still love me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5491 days ago

8 December 2009 (F) - if a guy breaks up with his girlfriend of 4 months cos hes busy with the army, but still really likes her and wants to be with her sometime in the future when he has more freedom, but stayin mates for now well they were really close so will he ...

Help me deal with this pain...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5492 days ago

8 December 2009 (F) - I didn't meet my first love until I was 23. Now, after 3 years, loss of parents, unemployment, failed pregnancies, and the life that can happen in three years, it's over. I don't know how to deal with this pain. I never knew how much it could hurt. ...

What can I do about his gaming addiction?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5490 days ago

8 December 2009 (F) - My boyfriend is seriously addicted to online gaming. I have no problem with gaming. But he will miss work, leave early, go to work late, not eat or sleep for days. And, of course gets angry when someone tries to confront him with his problem. His ...

I want her back, but my ex-fiance is seeing other men. What should I do?

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8 December 2009 (M) - Actually i ve broke up with my fiancee for 5 months and i came back to see her after this 5 months and she is being honest with me that she is seeing another guy now and this guy seems like a very nice guy but the problem here is she still lo...

Sometimes I can't stand my boyfriend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5493 days ago

8 December 2009 (F) - I really do love my boyfriend I just can't stand him sometimes. Sometimes I think about breaking up with him but after talking to him I change my mind. I don't know what's up with me. He's 17, a senior, and Im his first official girlfriend. I do...