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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:So two years I was out for my best friends, brothers birthday when i walked into a pub and instantly noticed a male. I said to my friend, i will marry him, jokingly. She gave me this look to say how dare you. As it turns out this male was my friends brothers best friend, whom, my best friend liked but had never mentioned. Confused you will be! So we all went out to a club and we never really spoke, we were all really drunk and stayed at my friends house, there were two single beds and a double, so me and the male ended up in the spare room but nothing happened.So to cut a long story short we all ended up staying the whole weekend at my friends house, the four of us. And me and the male started to get to know each other and chat all night on both nights. Its was mad, we had loads in common and it literally was the nicest weekend ever. But my friend and her brother wasnt happy with us seeing each other, as it turns out her brother liked me and my friend liked my male, so it became akward very quick. And so we met up and spent the following weekend at my university house. It was magical. So i was having problems at home and had to leave uni and go back home, and the relationship (it only lasted around 2 months) slowly ended.I got very drunk one night and got a taxi home, but who should bring me home but the males dad, i was going over the top telling him how much i missed him and regreted not making more effort but i couldnt do anything about it. We didnt speak for about 3 months and recently have been back in touch.This time I asked my friend if she still had feelings for him and she said no. So i was honest and told her that we had been speaking again and she went all weird on me, i understand that the last time it wasnt very ideal but you cant help who you like and i was honest with her most of the time i just didnt tell her how i felt.So my problem is, i really want to tell him how i feel without the whole, it didnt work last time so why now blah blah, and i dont want to ruin what we have slowly built up. HELP!!
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reader, Lindo  +, writes (9 December 2009):
Ooooh thats tough!!!
i think aslong as its not awkward with you and your friend.. and if things are still guud with you male then ask him to come out casualy some weekend and take it from there =]
thats what id say anyway! mail me lol
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