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writes:In May 1996, while I was on visit visa to States to attend one of my cousins wedding there, I fell in love with 15 years old school going American girl and I was 18 then. Upon my return from there, we kept it going through phone and transferred it to webcam meeting through internet when internet arrived in Pakistan in 2000. She would save her pocket money and even started doing part-time job along with her studies to send my dollars to help me keep my studies going in prestigious university there in my home country Pakistan. I think she would sleep just 4 hours but helped me complete my studies. In total, I think she would have landed me $ 40000 which is a massive amount in Pakistani currency and I had comfortable life on her hard labor which hurts me at times. After 15 years LDR, June this year, she came to Pakistan for our wedding and after having our honeymoon there , we left to States as I didn’t want her being away from her home country having done so much for me . I got good job in software company and gave her 60% of salary and have told her countless times that she should stop doing job as I have already made her tired but she says she will get bored without having job. My wife loves me too much and doesn’t let me have any complain and I love her beyond description . Sometimes, I wonder that no matter what I do , I will never be able to pay her back in a similar fashion ? Is she human being or angel? What I need to do more to never let her have any complain? I would appreciate if you guys could guide me on this. Thanks!
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reader, chickpea2011 +, writes (19 October 2011):
 Hi,Your story touch me so much... She's an angel, and you are a very lucky man. She's amazing... Love her forever, and never let her go...Tell her that she doesn't have to work anymore, if she chooses too, it's ok, but tell her she can quit anytime, and that you will always take care of her. Honestly, she still young, and to me it's healthier to work, instead of just being home. It's better for her to have responsibilities, both mentally, and physically. You can lover her unconditionally, but time to time, when she least expect, surprise her. Woman appreciates the little things in life, like buy flowers, take to a nice, romantic restaurant. Help around the house, once a week have date night, go to movies, hold her hand, always smile when you look at her. If you have financial means, and can take time away from work, take her to a nice place for vacation. Also, weekend get away, somewhere not too far, maybe couple hours drive... Have couples massage, etc...You are lucky to have a wife that loves you so much, she's amazing, kind, hard working, and love you for what you are, even when you didn't have nothing. Best wishes, good luck, and I hope life bless both of you with love, success, and happiness...
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reader, landomando +, writes (19 October 2011):
She is an angel! hearing about how she helped you is an amazing story. Just think of where you would be if she didnt support you financially. Thats honestly amazing! Love her and be there for her. Nothing you physically give her can make up for that. I agree you did" find one in a million". this honestly wont even put a dent in what she did for you but maybe do something she wouldnt expect from you. tell her take a week off and go too Hawaii or some place you two want to go but haven't! spoil her. She deserves it. Layout on the beach do something romantic. treat he like a godess! Seriously she is an amazing person!your very lucky!Good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 October 2011): you can pay her back by being there for her,emotional support,love and understanding. you have found a one in a million.
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