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writes:[Moderator's Note: Original Poster's own title]My boyfriend and I were having intense, crazy sex the other night. and It hurt, but kinda felt good. I was moaning and screaming, louder then ever. and he had to stick his hand in my mouth and everything. But forr some reason, i started moaning, and practically biting my lower lip off, screaming.. 'You're gonna make me cum." But the super strange part of it all?.. It hurt really bad, and it didn't bring any pleasure, what-so-ever. Butl I just couldn't stop moaning and screaming. and that part about cumming, I have no f***ing clue, where that came from. I didn't feel any pleasure at all.. Should I be concerned? Reply to this Question
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reader, bellathedancer +, writes (7 August 2010):
bellathedancer is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks guys (:
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reader, AvgGuy1 +, writes (7 August 2010):
 Actually... there's a FINE LINE between pain and sex. In fact, SOME people get off experiencing pain before or during sex. It makes the experience much more intense (see also S & M ).
Sounds like you might have hit the sweet spot... at least for a while... and then crossed the line to the point where it was more painful than pleasurable.
Have you tried replicating the situation/position?
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reader, mycatishot +, writes (6 August 2010):
haha im a boy in 11th grade and i greatly know to never leave the tampon in. and that isnt kinky at all thats like a rape. kinky is with handcuffs, spanking, hair pulling and etc. haha
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reader, bellathedancer +, writes (6 August 2010):
bellathedancer is verified as being by the original poster of the questionoh wow, thank you. Really. ha. Um, I talked to him about it and he said it's kinky? I don't know. I don't understand how nearly KILLING me, (TSS), is kinky!? But again, thank you. (:
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reader, cocoqueen88 +, writes (6 August 2010):
 You should never have vaginal sex with a tampon in. Your vagina is only but so deep. don't listen to some boy about that how that. hell does he know?
this is one great example about how young girls should really wait til they're grown to have sex. Don't you know how toxic it can be for a tampon to get stuck up there... read the box!!! and google it!!! it hurts for a reason. stop having sex and get ta reading. then dump this guy and find someone who doesn't wanna kill you.
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reader, bellathedancer +, writes (5 August 2010):
bellathedancer is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI didn't forget to take it out, he told me not too? I don't know. I'm sure this is confusing, and I'm sorry! I'm just scared something could be wrong with me.
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reader, cocoqueen88 +, writes (5 August 2010):
well did you forget to take out your tampon? i'm really still confused. use your common sense. if that's the case then of course it hurt.
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reader, bellathedancer +, writes (5 August 2010):
bellathedancer is verified as being by the original poster of the questionbut i'm not sure how. I mean, should I even be concerned that it hurt? and maybe it hurt so bad, and such, because I forgot to take out my tampon? :/ (His idea..)
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reader, cocoqueen88 +, writes (5 August 2010):
well you need to have a talk with him and tell him the things that you don't like. it's very simple. there's no reason for you to not enjoy having sex when the other person is.
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reader, bellathedancer +, writes (5 August 2010):
bellathedancer is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI'm not sure, I think it felt good the first few minutes, and then, gosh.. no.
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reader, Genty  +, writes (4 August 2010):
Hello
have you ever tried things like that before we are all different and if u enjoyed it then try it again
painfull sex as long as it's not coursing u any harm or damage is a gud way of letting go and getting rid of stress does your partner know how you feel bout this mayb he will like to do it again
me and my girlfriend do slave sessions where basicly I get to do whatever to her and she likes me to just go for it and pull her hair and spank her choke her things like that you could try that if you both would like to but take it slow mayb ask him in the middle of sex to spank you or pull your hair
you said yourself that you liked it so explore it and see if you enjoy that side of sex
would love to know how you get on
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reader, cocoqueen88 +, writes (4 August 2010):
sounds like you don't know your body. how can you say "it hurt, but kinda felt good" then say.... "I didn't feel any pleasure at all"i'm confused... did you or didn't you like it?
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