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Archived questions from: December, 2012 (see latest in Age differences category)

Age differences: Help and advice

I need help decoding this guy

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4341 days ago

31 December 2012 (F) - So I posted a question about this guy a bit ago...He is a bit older than me so I wasn't sure how things would work between us but then we kinda went on a quasi-date, it was really fun and he's so easy to be with and I'm trying to decode him and ...

My boyfriend likes much younger women and I'm worried about him leaving me for someone younger than me

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4307 days ago

30 December 2012 (F) - I have two problems which are really causing me a lot of stress. You see, I am a 22 years old and looking to get married. I've lived in 4 countries, speak multiple languages, don't drink/smoke/go clubbing, and am almost finished with university. I ...

Am I reading the signs all wrong?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4342 days ago

30 December 2012 (F) - He is making me mad. I think he likes me, i have been working with him for a few months. Alot of people think he is grumpy because he doesn't get involved, very task centred guy. But with me: He throws things at me, He protects me- be it from ...

How do I break up with my younger girlfriend?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4343 days ago

30 December 2012 (M) - Hi I've been seeing a much younger girl now for around six months. I should have listened to everyone who said "just have fun, don't get serious, it will never work"...well now we've done the Christmas thing, her presents to me were ridiculous,...

I can't forget about this older guy despite following your previous advice! What's going on? I need help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4343 days ago

30 December 2012 (F) - Hey I recently wrote for you about this man of 31 years old and was advised delete him from my Facebook account and to focus my attention on somewhere else, so that's what I did. I deleted him from fb and I changed my way to school to not see him ...

Am I being immature or childish or high maintenance? I don't want to be a weekend girlfriend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4345 days ago

28 December 2012 (F) - My story is a little long, but I will try to be succinct as possible. I started dating a guy in January 2012. He is 61 now, and I am 39. He has been divorced for 15 years (his wife cheated on him and married the guy a year later right after they...

Six months of dating, but he never says, 'i love you'. How can I be sure of his love?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4346 days ago

27 December 2012 (F) - Im 32 years old and my bf is 21..weve been dating for 6 months now. I love him and i always show and tell that to him. but im not sure if he loves me, he doesnt say the words 'I love you'..but i can feel that he cares for me..not just by text. he...

Is this a date with a crush? Or just business?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4346 days ago

27 December 2012 (F) - I work at a coffee shop. I have a huge crush on one of my regular costumers. He's very attractive - very fit with a smile that would make any woman melt. I've liked him for months and last week, he'd given me his number. But not for the reason you ...

Three months of dating. And still have not met his family and friends? Is this normal? Or weird?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4347 days ago

25 December 2012 (F) - My guy and I have been together for 3 months now and I haven't met any of his friends or family nor him mine... Am I jumping the gun to soon or does that seem weird to anyone else, I don't even think his friends know about me but he will talk to m...

Thank you Dear Cupid. This is a WONDERFUL site. You showed me good directions when I was lost.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4347 days ago

24 December 2012 (F) - I just want to say thanks to all the wonderful people at dear cupid. Since from the beginning of the you have shown love and good advices. Mostly thanks to the wonderful founder of dear cupid. Its so good to know that there's someone out there who ...

He said his son was conceived in a toilet stall, I can't stop thinking about it.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4348 days ago

23 December 2012 (F) - I am 28 and my boyfriend is 49. He told me something yesterday that has really upset me. I don't even know why he told me ( maybe it was because he was drunk when he told me ). He said that he and his ex wife conceived their son in a toilet cubicle ...

Mom can stop being critical of me. How do I handle this. Her comments are Very unkind.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4350 days ago

22 December 2012 (F) - My Mother is a total control freak and I can't get her to stop nagging me. I am 21 years old and have been on my on for just over two years but school and finances have left me in a position where I have to move back in with my parents. I pay the...

Why would my unmarried 37 year old boss call me Auntie at work? What's he trying to convey by that?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4354 days ago

19 December 2012 (F) - Hi friends, I m a female of 30 yrs.but look short of my age. People in my office find me as of 25years only. I am unmarried, reserve by nature and professional. But sometimes my boss (who is around 37 but unmarried) calls me 'auntie'... and smil...

He's happily married and I have a bf. So why is this older guy flirting with me at work?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4355 days ago

18 December 2012 (F) - Hey, so this one is probably easy enough to answer, I think. There is this guy at work who seems to have taken a liking to me, he often touches my hands,my back and compliments what I wear and how I look. Now I understand there is flirting at w...

She posts everything we do on facebook!

This question has 29 answers - newest was posted 4002 days ago

17 December 2012 (M) - im with this girl that is say young enough to be my daughter. i love her very much and i even ended a long term marriage for her. but lately i have been thinking about things she put on facebook when we were dating. i told her one night when we were ...

It is our anniversary on Friday, but it is also his estranged son's birthday...will this set off an episode of his bipolar?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4355 days ago

17 December 2012 (F) - I hope someone can help me. I have been with my boyfriend for a year this Friday. It's also his son's birthday on Friday. My boyfriend is much older than me ( his son is only a bit younger than i am ). My boyfriend has bipolar disorder. He hasn't ...

The stranger. What does he want? Need advice.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4356 days ago

15 December 2012 (F) - hey everyone,i'm a girl and i'm 17 years old,i saw this guy of 31 years old in a shop near to my school about 3months,he was totally a stranger for me, but i liked him a lot, anyway we were seeing each other everyday but we didn't talk ,after that ...

What will happen when I am no longer in my twenties? Will he break-up with me when I get old?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4358 days ago

15 December 2012 (F) - Hi everyone, First off i want to thank you for taking a look at my question. I am a 22 year old senior in college, and my boyfriend recently turned 36. We have been dating for nearly one year. Recently we have been talking about getting marri...

My older boyfriend said we need a break so I can take some time to think about myself and my feelings, what does he mean by this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4359 days ago

13 December 2012 (F) - My boyfriend said this classical line "We need a break". I was shocked and all, but to tell the truth I was expecting it. Why? Well... you see... He's like 24 years older than me (he's 42, I'm 18), he's divorced, has 3 kids (two girls, 22 and ...

Should I finish school or get pregnant with my 40+ boyfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4361 days ago

10 December 2012 (F) - Please advise. Like a retard I quit halfway through college several years ago and havent been back. Now I'm dating a man in his early 40s and I am in my mid 20s. He is amazing and we will get married but I must finish school. At same time I feel...

My older husband says he is too tired to have sex

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4361 days ago

10 December 2012 (F) - Iam 33 years old and am married to a 65yr old man.My problem is he's very restrictive,won't let me go any where.I like clubbing but he won't let me go and when I tell him to go with me he says he doesn't want and that kills me.Two, we can only do ...

Dating a guy who's 8 years my senior

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4366 days ago

6 December 2012 (F) - Is it illegal to date someone who's 8 years my senior in California?...

He doesn't want anymore children and wants me to give this one up for adoption, so what do I choose, being a single mother or giving up my baby?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4361 days ago

4 December 2012 (F) - I need help. Me and my boyfriend of 8 years are expecting again. Unfortunately for me, he doesnt want anymore children. He has expressed this to me before even before our first child, but he knew since I was 11 years younger than him and didnt have ...

My 16 year old son is in love with a woman who is 24 years older than him!

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 4370 days ago

3 December 2012 (F) - My 16 year old son is in love with a woman 24 years older than hisself, he met her when he was in a Subway with friends, he's told me theyve been secretly dating for over a month now and that the relationships not based on sex but proper love. She's ...

I'm in love with my FWB and cant stand him sleeping with other women, how do I end this once and for all?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4370 days ago

3 December 2012 (F) - Hi i have been having sex with a man who is 36 and im 26 on and off for 2 years now. its been more friends with benefits than anything else, then i found out he had slept with someone else when we had agreed not to sleep with anyone else. stupidly i ...

I want to tell my family about him. How can I do this? Because I can't imagine my life without my crazy guy

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4372 days ago

1 December 2012 (F) - so i've been in a relationship for about a year with a 45 year old guy. a little backgrounds: I must admit our relationship started out almost completely sexual but after about a month we decided that we actually liked each other and now we are b...

I'm 18 and my boyfriend is 15, nearing 16.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4369 days ago

1 December 2012 (F) - First off, I'm well aware of the age of consent and such, and neither of us plan to have sex with each other any time soon. (Well, we haven't talked about anything sexual and I fully intend to wait until he is of age before anything like that ...