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writes: I'm 25yrs old and my man is 32yrs old.We have been dating more than one year.He lives close to our neighbourhood before he relocated to another place.He is caring,loving,hardworking but he is a nagging type at times and complains that i'm too proud.Something strange happened one day.I paid him visit he wanted to have sex with me but i refused since then i'm always scared to visit him alone, so i usually visit him with my friend.Now how do i test to know if he loves me or just wants to use me and dump me.
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reader, Dionee'  +, writes (3 May 2016):
 Just the fact that you feel like you need to test him (number 1) and visit him with someone chaperoning (number 2) suggests that you shouldn't be with this guy at all. My advice would be to move on because this seems all so wrong to me . . .
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 May 2016): It's odd for a 32YO boyfriend of one year to want to have sex? Hmmm. Are you sure you're not friends without benefits?
I have this gut feeling that the OP lives in a different culture from that of most of the answerers...
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (2 May 2016):
 I agree that if you are AFRAID to visit your "boyfriend" alone that it's NOT much of a relationship and you should consider ending it.
No one should EVER be afraid to be alone with their partner
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 May 2016): You should never be afraid to visit your bf.
If your ideas about what relationship should be, differ than you shouldn't be together.
Sex is an important part of the relationship and both partners must be on the same page when it comes to it.
For some people it's a normal part of a committed relationship even before marriage. Others wait for marriage.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 May 2016): You've been dating but has either of you made things exclusive? And if you need a friend when you visit him, how much do you even trust him?
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