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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Should I hint to him that I want this, or should I leave in the hope that he will ask instead?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3168 days ago

18 April 2016 (F)

age 26-29 - I had a drunken one night stand with a guy in my first term at university and we eventually became friends with benefits. This carried on for three months, until we both developed feelings and felt the best thing to do was end things as neither of us wanted a relation... (225 words)

Do I end this friendship with my ex? I'm feeling very hurt and confused

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3165 days ago

18 April 2016 (F)

age 30-35 - I'll start off by saving for the past 5-6 months I have been in an emotional tornado regarding my ex boyfriend. It has been hell for me, seriously. And I'm extremely confused about everything I was with my ex boyfriend for over 3 years, HE broke up with me in October of last ... (630 words)

Any time I go near this guy my friend comes over and drags him off. What can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3167 days ago

18 April 2016 (F)

age 26-29 - So there's this disco that everyone goes to and this boy I kind of like wants me to kiss him at it. I keep trying to text him but he doesn't reply. My best friend who knows I like him and want to kiss him at the disco keeps flitting with him. She does it right in front of ... (92 words)

Is it normal for vaginal area skin to have darker pigmentation that the surrounding skin?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3168 days ago

18 April 2016 (F) age 26-29 - I am a 20 yr old female who is Caucasian and my skin tone is quite pale. This is embarrassing but my outer vagina lips and also the area near my anus is a very dark brownish color. It's several shades darker than my inner thighs and the rest of my area down there. It sort o... (99 words)

What can I do? Why does my husband choose to associate with this bad company of friends? I'm feeling uncomfortable with this

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3167 days ago

18 April 2016 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband's friends makes me feel uncomfortable. We just hit our 1yr anniversary and it seems throughout it all our major disagreement has been about the company he keeps. Majority of his friends are into fraud and bad business. I have checked my hubby to see if he is in... (480 words)

Do you think this short break from each other might bring us back together?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3165 days ago

18 April 2016 (F)

age - Hi....i would like to thank everyone in advance for replies. My ex whom i adore still rings me most days.....pops in to see me.....helps me with jobs.....we have tea together and his body language suggests he has strong feelings for me. He says he doesnt know what he wan... (179 words)

How do I address this situation and this cheating?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3167 days ago

18 April 2016 (F)

age 30-35 - I got involved with my friends boyfriend A , we still dating even now behind her back.i always feel awful about it.I tried to break up with him but its not working we always find a way to get back to each other. Now A and my friend S have beautiful daughter together.I told him... (184 words)

My wife is secretive about her new massage therapist

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3168 days ago

18 April 2016 (M)

age - Hi, I hope someone can help me, my wife has booked a massage with a different masseur, but she is keeping it a secret from me. Should I be worried?... (30 words)

Why would my ex sign my son's birthday card this way?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3167 days ago

18 April 2016 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, This may be a strange question... my son who is 12 today, received a birthday card from his dad (my ex)that was signed with my ex's name instead of love Dad etc. In brackets next to my ex's name he has written in brackets 'your daddy'. He has never done this before a... (109 words)

Should I be concerned about my wife's strange sexual dreams?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3168 days ago

18 April 2016 (M)

age - My wife and I have been together for 40 years, and our sex lives have always been 'satisfactory', nothing out of the ordinary really, only occasionally doing something rather daring. However, about six months ago she started taking medication and she now regularly has some ver... (152 words)

I believe my sister has Boderline Personality Disorder

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3168 days ago

18 April 2016 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi there, I would love to hear from anyone who either has Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) or has some understanding of this complex mental illness. My sister suffers from BPD, which seemed to develop around the age of 15. We grew up a happy, functional family, unti... (603 words)

My boyfriend insists on keeping in touch with his ex

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3167 days ago

18 April 2016 (F)

age 41-50 - My fiancée still keeps in contact with his ex girlfriend by sms. He says that it's only messaging not talking and he only answers her messages. When i asked him why he did it he said he liked giving her hope and being a shit to her. Once when i asked him to stop he told me ... (150 words)

Our manager has threatened to fire us if we don't close our Facebook group

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3168 days ago

18 April 2016 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, so where i work we all have a facebook ‘group chat’ in this group chat there is over 50 of us in this group so basically nearly everyone from work. We use this chat on facebook to organise nights out i work in a casino and the casino is a 24hr casino so we all don’t see ... (399 words)

How much does anal sex hurt?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3168 days ago

18 April 2016 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with my husband since we were in high school and we both are extremely happily married. Our sex life is greatcoat nothing wild . He told me he would like to experiment a little but wants me to be 100% ok with it, (he's really respectful of me and doesn't want me to ... (258 words)

I now feel like a spare part in this marriage

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3166 days ago

18 April 2016 (M)

age - Hi everyone, I hope you will be able to offer me some advice to stop my marriage sliding towards problems. I am a 51 year old man. Re-married after a divorce and have been happily married for the last 4 years. We have a lovely son together (2yo). She has a 15 yo son who l... (547 words)

Am I being a controlling boyfriend?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3169 days ago

18 April 2016 (M)

age 30-35 - I've been with my girlfriend for almost 6 years and we're finishing up college this year. We go to different schools but love each other so we've made it work long distance. The problem is that she's been partying a lot more. She traveled across the county with a new frien... (277 words)

We'd like to get married but don't want to hurt our parents!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3169 days ago

18 April 2016 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi,I am in a tricky situation.. I am seeing my boyfriend for about a year now and we decided to commit to each other and exchanged rings,I have never met a man who makes me feel as beautiful and special like he does!we hit a rough patch and everytime he worked towards mending ... (222 words)

Is it bad for a girl to initiate dates? And how to tell if a guy is losing interest?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3170 days ago

18 April 2016 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a series of questions I'd appreciate advice on. I want to know if it is bad for the girl to initiate the dates in the start of a relationship or should the guy take charge and plan dates for the two of them? Also how can you tell through messaging and physical actions... (66 words)