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Archived questions from: 14 April, 2016 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

How soon can I bring up exclusivity?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3172 days ago

14 April 2016 (F)

age 26-29 - I've been dating this girl for three months after it started one night when she sent me a drunken message saying that she had fancied me for ages. I had feelings for her at this point but I didn't know what these feelings were. We've been dating for three months but still ... (129 words)

Should I hurt him now or wait for him to hurt me in a few months?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3170 days ago

14 April 2016 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi im 18 years of age and I'm at college I had previously broken up with am older guy that I had a long term relationship with I wasn't looking for anyone and I was happy but my friends all had partners and they decided to set me up wits a friend of there's we met in a group ... (185 words)

I told my married ex lover I had a boyfriend and he burst into tears.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3172 days ago

14 April 2016 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been seeing a married man for 10 years and he said that we could be together properly once the children were off his hands,but we split up due to me being bored with the situation....anyway I met someone else and although I don't love him I like him a lot , anyway my ... (101 words)

My parents are paying for my education and keeping me under tight control

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3171 days ago

14 April 2016 (F)

age 26-29 - I be never dated before because I wasn't allowed to. I also went to an all girls school and now attend community college. My parents said since they're paying I have to commute from home and if I make good grades and get my associate, I can transfer it to the college of my ... (497 words)

I really want to get together with him but put him off until after exams

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3173 days ago

14 April 2016 (F)

age 30-35 - Thanks in advance to anyone who reads my question! I went to an event last weekend and was making eye contact and smiling with a guy there all day (upon his initiation). He was with his family and so was I and in our culture (we come from the same background) it is kind of ... (306 words)

Meeting my ex for a drink?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3171 days ago

14 April 2016 (F)

age 41-50 - My bf broke up with me after three months because hes going through a divorce and is very stressed and depressed. He moved out six months ago after their child had grown up after a long drawn out unhappy marriage. We had a lovely connection and I was willing to support him. ... (283 words)

My homosexuality is killing me and left me alone with no options

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3168 days ago

14 April 2016 (M)

age 41-50 - So I am posting a big question about my life, I am not sure if it fits with the nature of the contents here but I hope to get an answer! I am 34 years old and I feel that I am 50 years old , gay, middle eastern to Muslim parents, I didn’t choose this but this is... (638 words)

What do these feelings mean? He leaves me feeling a strange sense of calmness

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3173 days ago

14 April 2016 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, i have a very strange problem which i would like some advice on. There is this guy i met recently. We have become fast friends even though we have only met a few times. He's sweet, charming, and we are into a lot of the same things. I am pretty certain he has a... (186 words)

When I am tested for a STD should I trust the protocols in place re my privacy or should I give a false name?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3173 days ago

14 April 2016 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi, I am in need of advice. I am 18 years old and I recently had sex with 7 different men throughout the year. I had unprotected sex with 5 of those men. I am afraid that I caught an STD so I want to get checked. I plan to go to Planned Parenthood, however, I want to be anony... (101 words)

My BF has two red marks on his neck which were not there this morning. Should I worry he cheated?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3172 days ago

14 April 2016 (F) age 41-50 - My BF has 2 red marks on his neck. They look like pimples only larger and flatter. They are close together. You could almost compare it to a vampire bite. What could they be? Background: He was supposed to come and see me this afternoon. He usually spends Wednesday afterno... (739 words)

How should I approach my roommate to tell her that it's time for her to find a better BF?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3173 days ago

14 April 2016 (M)

age 36-40 - How do you tell your roommate that she just needs to move on? Sooo my roommate has broken up with a guy for 5 months who basically threw her out on Christmas but she is still pursuing him. From what she says he is awful to her and Ive heard him belittle her over the phone a... (142 words)

Did I make the right decision to give him space? because now I find he's dating someone else

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3173 days ago

14 April 2016 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm pretty upset about a decision I made yesterday. My ex boyfriend broke up with me about 6 months ago but told me he still loves me and that maybe we would get back together in the future. I respected his decision and left him alone but he wanted to stay friends. I did n... (343 words)

Romance or convince? Or would you gals rather meet a guy at a mutual level of interest?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3173 days ago

14 April 2016 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello Everyone Not a douche. Just wanted to put that out there. Can you trick a girl into liking you? Not trick in a malicious way but rather convince after her initial hesitation or last minute resistance? Im thinking romancing. Oh and girls do you guys know what last... (108 words)

STDs and dating. Do I meet someone for coffee dinner ect first and then tell them a bit later?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3173 days ago

14 April 2016 (F)

age 30-35 - So here goes, I've had an std( herpes) since just after I turned 19. I'm 25 now. I met a man shortly after who had it as well, 4.5 yes and 2 kids later I am a single parent to both boys. I am finally feeling in a good place to date again. I feel sad sometimes that we are n... (232 words)

While struggling with depression should I open up now, to him, and risk making things worse for me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3160 days ago

14 April 2016 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I've realized that I might be struggling with depression and it's taking a toll on my relationship with my closest friend. He knows me better than anyone and knows that I'm upset and something is happening to me but doesn't know why, and in turn gets mad at me for not o... (229 words)