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Archived questions from: 22 April, 2016 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I need a virtual shake to get back to reality and stop chatting online with men

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3171 days ago

22 April 2016 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm worried about some behaviours I have started to develop and want to ask advice. I've been in a happy relationship for 6 years with a kind and successful man. We moved away from our home last year for his work and I gave up my job to move. I've found myself feeling bored, b... (302 words)

Am I a rebound? I'm concerned about his continued contact with his ex.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3169 days ago

22 April 2016 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi dearcupid, I have been dating a pretty nice guy for the last few months. Everything seems pretty good except I'm concerned about something. I'm not sure if I have a right to be concerned. What I'm concerned about is he is still in frequent contact with his previous ex ... (372 words)

Is the suggestion we watch a movie at his place for our fifth date normal, or a bad sign?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3171 days ago

22 April 2016 (F)

age 41-50 - Is this a bad sign? I'm interested in a guy I met through an online dating site. I've met with him four times already now, we've had coffee, a dinner/movie date, picnic at a park with drinks then at a lounge. For the next date he suggested I come over to watch a movie. ... (190 words)

How can you love someone and still feel mind-blowing chemistry with someone else?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3174 days ago

22 April 2016 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone, I was really curious about something. I feel like my current boyfriend is a man I can marry and have children with etc. We get along very well and keep each other laughing. We support each other in our dreams and careers. However, I don't know what it is, I ke... (179 words)

Why do I still want to know how my ex is doing?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3172 days ago

22 April 2016 (F) age 36-40 - I was dumped 3 years ago. It was a serious relationship. I was desperate and have been through every step after the breakup. We're not friends on Facebook, and this did help me a lot. After 3 years, I can say that I'm finally over him now. But I dont know why I still want to ... (65 words)

How can I show him his bad times are over?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3171 days ago

22 April 2016 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi , Ive just got myself a new boyfriend weve been together a month . hes really nice but he hasnt had the best of times over the last year or so before we got together . He had cancer 5 years ago and beat it ( had to leave the army which he lived for ) but it came back last ... (164 words)

How many women get pregnant because they hate their jobs?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3087 days ago

22 April 2016 (F)

age 36-40 - Im curious what people reckon is the proportion of women that have a baby because they don't want to work (or hate their job)?... (25 words)

I'm dating someone who isn't responding by text as fast as he used to, is this a problem or am I over-analyzing?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3171 days ago

22 April 2016 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid I'm dating someone younger to me for past 1 month, I like him and he says the same. Earlier he used to text often and responds back quickly , now most of the time he doesn't initiate text and if I text I get response but mostly after an hour or two or may be more. ... (207 words)

How do you get a spark, a true buzz or sense of purpose for life ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3159 days ago

22 April 2016 (M)

age 36-40 - How do you get a spark for life ? For years now I have been drifting through with no sense of purpose and no matter what I try I can not get a true buzz or sense of purpose from life . I have tried to look at new hobbies , new goals , bettering myself but nothing grips me and ... (183 words)

Should I ask him if I offended him? What could be going on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3172 days ago

22 April 2016 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi. I've had a friend for about 10 months. We see each other occasionally at events, but we live 300 miles apart. (We're older than 40.) I like him very much as a friend, but he has a best friend I met at the same time whom I am slowly building a relationship with. I'm not su... (287 words)

My Boyfriend's Doberman comes first. It's making me miserable. What do I do?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3174 days ago

22 April 2016 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years. We have a 1 yr old son. The problem is when me and my boyfriend met he had a Doberman but the problem is he treats the dog better than me. He takes the dog everywhere with me. The dog can do no wrong. The dog had a wee on our sofa ... (121 words)

How does one learn to accept what is good enough? I feel like I can never do anything good enough

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3174 days ago

22 April 2016 (F)

age 51-59 - I recently ended my marriage and have a new bf who is a national rep. His work takes him away for overnights as well as many evening meetings. I hate how I act when he is away from home. I get super moody, I almost feel like he doesn't love me cause he is away. I am an educ... (293 words)

My ex boyfriend wanted the truth about his ED. Is ED a good enough reason to end a relationship?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3173 days ago

22 April 2016 (F)

age 41-50 - I had closure with my 45 year ex boyfriend last night. The problems around our sex life weighed heavily on this new relationship. Is it a good enough reason to end a relationship because I cant have penetrative satisfying sex? I love making love. The viagra didnt always wor... (105 words)