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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:Ok I have been with my boyfriend for 6 years and we have a 5 year old son together. He was married and has 2 boys with her but was divorced about 3 years before we started dating. She calls him every sometimes about the boys and sometimes not. He seems to not like that she calls so much as much as I don't like it but I was reading his text messages and he seems to be nicer to her then when he talks to her when I'm around. Usually he doesn't answer her call when I'm around. I haven't really expressed alot of concern about this but now I'm feeling insecure because I think he is hiding something from me. So I read his facebook messages and he was talking to her best friend and there was one where he said that her and his ex haven't had a threesome yet and she laughed it off but I dont think he should be talking like that with anyone other than me but I was snooping so I just don't know if I should bring this up?
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 November 2015): I don't think it's ok to be talking about anything sexual like 3somes with any other woman even in a jokey way because it'd disrespectful to you.
From what you have discribed I would also suspect there might be something he is hiding regarding his ex.
I wouldn't confront him yet though, collect more evidence first while he doesn't suspect you snooping on him. Once he knows you are suspicious he will cover his tracks better if he is up to something.
Why not plant a hidden microphone in the house and see if he calls her when you are not around and hear what he says to her ??
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