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Archived questions from: 3 August, 2015 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I knew he was a player, I foolishly ignored this thinking I could change him! I don't know how to feel better now!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3427 days ago

3 August 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a friend who is a player. I knew this foolishly I ignored this thinking I could change him. We started messing around but meanwhile I developed feelings towards him which sucks because he's not into one person ever! Basically I've seen him few times since as friends ... (148 words)

Should I distance myself from my mom and younger sister?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3420 days ago

3 August 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - Should I distance myself from my mom and younger sister? My mom is an alcoholic who has spoiled my sister since birth and basically let her do whatever she wants. She is 22 and has a 1 year old daughter who my Mom is basically raising while she runs the streets and doesn't come ... (286 words)

My partner and his ex-wife are still texting daily! How much is too much?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3427 days ago

3 August 2015 (F)

age 41-50 - My partner and his ex-wife still texting daily Hi, can anyone tell me if I am worrying unnecessarily or if I don't really get it?! I met my partner at work. We the. Started going out socially and then just on our own and that's how our relationship developed. He never... (347 words)

What options do I have to get him to spend time with just me? I'm not asking for expensive dates, I'd be happy to be in a different coffee shop!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3425 days ago

3 August 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend (25) and I have been dating for almost 3 years now. We started as friends with benefits and evolved into a stable, loyal relationship, so there was never an actual seduction/chasing/courtship. He stays home a lot. He is quite a geek and loves videogames and t... (621 words)

Were my words too harsh with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3427 days ago

3 August 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi - I had a bad split with a guy a couple of months ago. He stopped talking to me and was spreading false lies and rumours about me being something that I wasn't. For weeks I said nothing and didn't reply - as he had totally cut me off - but then I found his new 'love in... (179 words)

Am I crazy for considering writing to her on that app and saying that I miss talking with her!? Why might she have just gone cold on me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3428 days ago

3 August 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - Just to introduce myself; I’m 22, female, gay and from Ireland. I got talking to a Swedish girl who was living in Ireland for a while on a dating app a few months ago. At first I didn’t take much notice, it was just like any other girl messaging me on there – just chit-chat, ... (524 words)

The condoms, being romantic before sex is so odd and new. Any idea on what's going on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3428 days ago

3 August 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - Something very strange is going on but I don't know what, my boyfriend and I have been dating for over 2 years and we live together, we hardly ever have sex and when we do its quick and boring, any way my boyfriend spent the weekend with his brother and friends and last while ... (255 words)

My affair partner is moving on and "dating"!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3427 days ago

3 August 2015 (M)

age 51-59 - [Moderator note: a little more background, YOUR background would be helpful. How long have you been married? Are there children involved? How long has this been going on? Do you know for certain she's been on dating sites or is it just a strong suspicion? Can she afford to ... (287 words)

Why is my boss being so distant?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3428 days ago

3 August 2015 (F)

age 41-50 - I know I have asked a couple questions about my boss before. Now something seems to be going on that I can't put my finger on. A couple days before he went for,what I think was a mini vacation, he was moving very angryly around the workplace. Avoiding me as he walked by with a ... (264 words)

I broke up with him over Whatsapp and now he won't speak to me

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3428 days ago

3 August 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - I won't go into the whole story its too long to write, but in short I broke up with my boyfriend and now I am trying to get him back. I broke with him through whatsapp as that was our main mode of communication, the tick never turned blue so I do not know if he read the mess... (227 words)

Why is he so secretive? Is he protecting me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3428 days ago

3 August 2015 (F)

age 51-59 - I have a relationship with a guy I have know for over 30 years. We first got together in 1983 then lost touch. Met again in 1999 by chance and rekindled and had a child. We both have children for previous relationships. Cutting a long story short. He has been a grea... (394 words)

Should she stop the overnights until her ex stops sneaking around?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3428 days ago

3 August 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, this is a long one so please bare with me! I'm 25. I am in a same sex relationship with my partner who is 4 years my senior. We've been together just over 2years. She has a 4 year old child with her ex, who they have been split for 3 years because he'd been cheating on... (546 words)

When my girlfriend and I have a fight I often go on FB and look up my ex. Why do I do this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3427 days ago

3 August 2015 (M)

age 41-50 - I Broke up with my ex 5 years ago. (Together for one year) I was so in love with her ... she was exactly the type of girl I wanted except for she was a bitch to me and her very close knit family hated me. I tried really hard to fix things with her but gave up eventually. I ... (212 words)

We are involved but both married. I don't know how to stop this relationship!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3426 days ago

3 August 2015 (F)

age 51-59 - My boyfriend and I are both married to someone else and are in love. Yes, people call it love affair. It hurts me bad because it is not right thing to do but I can't stop this relationship. (Yes, I have tried in the past.) If anyone out there who were in the same situati... (92 words)

How do I move on from a break up without having to be involved with someone else?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3428 days ago

3 August 2015 (F)

age 26-29 - How do I move on by myself? Okay so here is the thing in the past after a break up I have a hard time moving on unless I meet someone else and start dating them they make me forget about the other person. Right now it's been 7 months since I broke up with my ex and still think ... (144 words)

Online dating - why do women never reply to email?

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 3427 days ago

3 August 2015 (M)

age 41-50 - I admit I've tried online dating because it's convenient and saves a lot of time and creates a certain comfort level for people because a person can always choose not to respond and feel no pressure. My problem is nobody responds. When I send a message to a lady I try to be ... (286 words)

What should I do about this married co-worker coming on to me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3425 days ago

3 August 2015 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey guys, I know this might have been posted a few times but I need your advice ASAP. I'm a 27 yr old IT guy and if I may be specific the only black guy at work so you can imagine the volume of sexual harassment I get from women. Recently I visited one of our branches and a ... (161 words)

I want my wife to be a hotwife and go to bed with our friend

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3424 days ago

3 August 2015 (M)

age - I would love for my wife to go to bed with a friend of ours, she has flirted with him and he sure finds her hot.I find it a big turn on thinking about her going to bed with him. Is that normal and how can I convince her it is OK with me?... (54 words)

I like her as a friend. Should I suggest that we meet up?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3428 days ago

3 August 2015 (M)

age 36-40 - Long story short: - She joined company last year. - She was giving me quite a few compliments etc, I felt something there - whether it purely platonic, I'm really not sure. - Got on well, worked in the same team but recently she suddenly got the chop and I never got to ... (195 words)