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Archived questions from: 5 August, 2015 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I feel unloved by my partner and don't know how to fix it

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3425 days ago

5 August 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - I feel really unloved by my partner of six years and dont know how to fix this. Every night when we get home from work he sits on playstation and I sit downstairs alone. If i get him to spend time with me, he acts ezasperated and like hes doing me a favour. I am ashamed to ... (242 words)

How can I let go when I felt so much for him?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3424 days ago

5 August 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - I am feeling messed up after dating this guy. We hooked up a couple of times. I started to like him. Then he told me he just split up with ex. They got back together. I was upset, but moved on. He made me realise that I do want a loving, sexual relationship and he showed me ... (1158 words)

He has never divorced his wife. It makes me uncomfortable and I'm wondering why he hasn't divorced her!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3418 days ago

5 August 2015 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi, I have been dating a guy i met in a social group, for around 4 months. After a few dates, he told me he was married but separated, for 7 years. Now had I known this beforehand I would not have dated him as I didn't want the emotional baggage a pending divorce would br... (189 words)

It hurts that he doesn't want to marry me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3425 days ago

5 August 2015 (F)

age 51-59 - My b/f and I have been together for 15 months. I am 42 he is 47, both of us have been married before. I have a 3 yr old and an 8 yr old, all of his kids are older due to him and his first wife adopting older kids. Within the first 2 months he was talking about marriage, ... (645 words)

He's mean to me and I don't feel loved. What do I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3426 days ago

5 August 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - Why does he always shout at me? He says I complain to much:(? So I ve been with my boyfriend for nearly 2 years now. He s been unemployed over half the time we ve been together. I ve supported him financially, I ve been there when he had no one, prayed for him, helped him look... (327 words)

Should I suggest going on another date or is that up to him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3426 days ago

5 August 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - A few weeks ago I met with this boy on tinder, for ease let's call him Leo. We seemed to have a lot of banter going on, and he gave me his number and we have been messaging a lot since. Last week we went on a date, he was so lovely, only thing was he was only about an in... (126 words)

How do we choose a couples therapist we both like?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3426 days ago

5 August 2015 (M)

age 51-59 - My wife and I have had some troubles in our marriage and agreed to go to therapy to see if we can work through them. The trouble is that we have trouble agreeing on who to see. We got some names by searching the Internet for reviews. Plus, my wife works for a woman who is... (294 words)

I haven't heard from him in 2 weeks. Do I wait?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3424 days ago

5 August 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - hy..its been five weeks to our relation..we stay in different countries..and never met...he promised to come n take me with him...but its two weeks he's gone for an emergency n he's no calling at all..n even msg hardly he does...but I really love him n trust him too...he's in ... (59 words)

Should I know my Bf's financial status before we become exclusive?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3422 days ago

5 August 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey everyone.... I have been a relationship with my boyfriend for almost a year now. I love him and I know he loves me too. But the problem is that he is always broke. I am kind of regretting now. I wish I knew the extent of his brokenness before we become exclusive, maybe th... (346 words)

Am I the only unhappy one? While all around me people find love and happiness

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3426 days ago

5 August 2015 (F)

age 41-50 - It seems everyone is happily in love - except me. I turned this guy down who wanted to meet up with me for sex. I did like him, but I'm quite shy when it comes to men and haven't had many partners apart from one or two. Anyway, since I turned the guy down - he seems to have... (171 words)

Will her ex know it's her despite a fake profile and different contact details? Should she do it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3426 days ago

5 August 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - Has anyone ever used another phone or fake profile to contact an ex to get a message to them? My friend is in a bad way because of the way her ex treated her - firstly two timing her and then dumping her and cutting off all contact. He has been a jerk with her and all she want... (155 words)

Why did my LDR guy feel the need to say nasty things to me after our fantasy sex session?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3426 days ago

5 August 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - My LDR and I often share fantasies and they often involve another man joining in. This time I decided to add another element , a woman because he had told me how much he loves lesbian porn. The fantasy seemed to go well and worked . I felt comfortable But then after , h... (170 words)

Do I jump ship? Or stay with this company that's sinking fast?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3425 days ago

5 August 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm in charge of finances at this very small company. I recently started the job, and shockingly, the financial situation is so poor we're close to bankruptcy as of next year. The last savings were used this year. When I try to inform my boss about this, and about need to sa... (227 words)

What's his problem? Is it really all down to ''just bad luck?''

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3424 days ago

5 August 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm with my boyfriend for a little bit over a year and I'm getting angry about how he avoids pre-planned events and such with friends and family. And with me. He's not really that social, so to get him thinking about going somewhere is no small thing. But he always calls... (369 words)

Does forgiving and staying indicate that a person is a fool, or weak?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3426 days ago

5 August 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi Dear Cupid Community, You've helped me out so much in the past so here goes. A few months ago my relationship broke down, we both lost respect, started dreading coming home to each other and started to avoid each other. We both had disgusting attitudes and were quite sim... (266 words)

Conservative parents.What should I do? I don't want to lie to my parents about visiting my boyfriend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3426 days ago

5 August 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - I am an Asian girl in a long distance relationship with a European guy. The relationship has been great and we communicate often despite the distance. We lived together for 4 months while I was in Europe and our current plan is for me to finish my bachelors so I can move to ... (178 words)

How can I convince my girlfriend that my sexual needs do matter?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 3420 days ago

5 August 2015 (M)

age 36-40 - In college I had a friend named "Jon." He was a stage actor and while he was not conventionally handsome he was a leading man in the style of Gérard Depardieu. He was a decent guy and he had a lot a women interested in him at various points. "Jon" wasn't my best friend o... (694 words)

Why do women do this? why allude that we have a future and then jump ship in the middle of the ocean?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 3413 days ago

5 August 2015 (M)

age 36-40 - I've been trying to date a friend of mine for a few months. She said she didn't want a relationship. And I never forced her hand. So for months you don't want a relationship, but you were cool with us talking all night on the phone, video chatting sending me naked pictures... (554 words)