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writes:Long story short: - She joined company last year. - She was giving me quite a few compliments etc, I felt something there - whether it purely platonic, I'm really not sure.- Got on well, worked in the same team but recently she suddenly got the chop and I never got to really say "goodbye"- We promised to keep in touch etc (though I suppose that would be a common response in most scenarios like this)- So it's been a month, and she met up with another colleague lately and said that she's "missing me a lot."- She knows I'm with someone.I know it sounds pretty juvenile, but should I propose we meet up?It's odd, I don't see her romantically but I felt we worked well together and it was tough to suddenly not see her everyday, just like that. Outside the whole work thing, really not sure how much we'd talk about really, it's difficult. I do miss her a lot, and don't intend on "dating" or anything like that, but do wish to see her. Thoughts? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 August 2015): I think you know it wouldn't be appropriate to do so otherwhise you wouldn't have even asked this question. It isnobvious she fancies you, do not encourage it- it's wrong on your girlfriend.
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (3 August 2015):
 Before you ask us, DID you ask your partner what SHE thinks? Because I think it's kind of shitty to meet up with someone even if you "claim" it's all platonic from your end.
If you two were REALLY platonic and "friends" you would have kept in contact, because that is what friends do.
I think you are downplaying how much you WANT to met up.
Ask your partner... let us know what he/she thinks.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 August 2015): You have someone. Leave it alone. Who do you think you're fooling? You miss her a lot and just want to be friends?!!
Dude, seriously?!! Just the fact you said: "I felt something there - whether it purely platonic, I'm really not sure." This clearly indicates you have an attraction to her. Don't kid yourself. You've got the hots for her.
If you're not happy with your current romantic situation, end it; before you pursue or take interest in other opportunities.
Why don't you ask your girlfriend?
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