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If you have to tell yourself that you're not a lesbian does that mean you're hiding (your sexual preference) or not accepting it?

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27 August 2015 (F age 26-29 - If you have to tell yourself you're not a lesbian, does that mean you're hiding it and just not accepting it? Because I keep telling myself that i'm not since I can't stop having compulsive, obsessive thoughts about my sexuality. I know. I KNOW I am not a lesbian, maybe b... (103 words

I feel like I really want to text him, after our date. What can I say to him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3373 days ago

27 August 2015 (F age 30-35 - I went on a first date with a guy last night. I had already slept with him after a very drunken night out. We spoke about this and said we will start a fresh. However, he works in the army so he goes away for weeks at a time. So he goes away on Friday for 3 weeks. I do reall... (131 words

She used me when she was bi-curious. I want her, she doesn't want me. What can I do? I feel so lonely.

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27 August 2015 (F age 30-35 - Could be long. This has been ongoing for 3 months now and it's getting worse, not better. This girl used me as she was bi-curious and I fell for her. She doesn't want me, I want her. I can't just be friends with her but I don't wanna stop talking to her as I really enjoy he... (193 words

What can I do about his reluctance to spend time with me, and have a social life together, during weekends?

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27 August 2015 (F age 30-35 - Recently, I've gotten into a long term relationship. We've been dating for two years and I had to move an hour and a half away to finish college. Something that has been bothering me is the fact that he never wants to spend time with me around my friends and my home. ... (218 words

Strained relationship with my fiance's sister. I want a better relationship with his family. What should I do?

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27 August 2015 (F age 30-35 - Well where do I begin. I am 23. I have been with my fiancée 4 years and engaged for 3 years. Since from the very beginning I have had a lot trouble from his side of the family, especially from his older sister. We have never really seen eye to eye and for a majority of our ... (517 words

Feeling insecure. Do I take notice of what my brother said? Or do I ask the guy I'm dating about what my brother said?

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27 August 2015 (F age 36-40 - Hi everyone, im not even sure where to start. But ive been dating a guy for 5 weeks, he's really lovely no problems really. He's my boss so it's a little complicated there but we've kept it out of work. I can separate these things pretty well ive had no problems there. ... (327 words

At 26 years of age, why am I now having strong gay thoughts now, when I don't think I'm gay nor bi-sexual?

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27 August 2015 (M age 30-35 - Hi, I am a little confused about myself sexually. Normally I like women, I find them very pretty and attractive, face, hair and body shape etc the usually heterosexual stuff. I am even shy around women but I find whenever I am aroused, I always end up fantasizing about being ... (526 words

Can I still trust my partner? I'm in turmoil and have doubts since I saw a message on his phone.

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27 August 2015 (F age 36-40 - Dear Aunts and Uncles, I saw a message on my finance phone whom I have been in a relationship with for the last 4 years which as really upset me. The message were between him and his friend and said along the line of shall we have a threesome with this girl (a fel... (212 words

Should I trust my G/f and continue with our relationship or make both of our lives easier and just break it off now?

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27 August 2015 (M age 30-35 - I'd like to ask for some opinions, any opinions at all, from an outside point of view. I just can't think straight without determining whether I'm too emotional or just plain paranoid at this point. I'm 24, and have been with my girlfriend (same age) for a little under a ... (714 words

I can't shake the dream I had about arguing with my girlfriend's father and then hitting her in the face

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27 August 2015 (M age 36-40 - Last night I had a horrible dream that I was arguing with my girlfriend's father, and at the end of the argument I seem to remember hitting my girlfriend in the face (I don't know if it was intentional or accidental, but frightening nonetheless!). I'm not generally a hot headed ... (380 words

I won't take crap off of people and he'll never admit that he's wrong. Are we done?

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27 August 2015 (F age 41-50 - A few months ago I (38yrs old) met a man named "Jason" who is 34. Recently, we started spending A LOT of time together and although each of us intended on just being bed buddies, feelings have developed. He told me I'm his best friend. I feel the same way about him. Minus hi... (356 words

Are good guys generally not so hot in bed

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27 August 2015 (F age 41-50 - I am struggling to meet a guy I fancy and would want for a future and who is an average/good lover. The good guys who are trustworthy, kind, warm and solid seem to lack that intense fizz and passion. I am no spring chicken and far from perfect and am by no means meaning th... (154 words

Why does he walk out without listen to my explanation?

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27 August 2015 (F age 26-29 - I always wondering why my boyfriend walk out when we're having an arguement.Most of the time he will leave me when i accidently say something that i shouldnt say it at first but it was only a joke, and also sometimes he leave me when he got jealous. I know he angry or get hurt ... (78 words

How do I carry myself forward and ensure that I do NOT go back to him and ensure that I move myself into Normalcy?

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27 August 2015 (F age 30-35 - Hi everyone, I'm here for emotional support and help. I just broke my 6 years of relationship with my EX-boyfriend which I'm stressing on because it's hard to believe that he's ex. I got into this relationship when I was 17.. the guy had slowly manipulated me emotionally thro... (1556 words

He made a remark that upset me. Should I say something to my boyfriend's friend or just let it go?

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27 August 2015 (F age 30-35 - I was at the beach yesterday with my boyfriend and a couple of his friends were there to meet me for the first time and hang out with us. I was in a 2 piece suit but you could still see a bit of skin. I was devastated when I over heard his friend make a nasty comment ... (238 words

Doctor and dermatologist suggested remedies that have not helped. What else can reduce skin discolouration around inner thigh area?

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27 August 2015 (F age 36-40 - My inner thighs/groin area is very dark and discolorated and I don't know how to get rid of it. It recently made me feel much worse because my partner noticed it and asked me about it. I read it is a skin condition caused by insulin resistance or from being very overweight.... (199 words

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