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A guy who texts me has a girlfriend...what do I do?

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Question - (22 December 2005) 2 Answers - (Newest, 26 December 2005)
A female , *iamond writes:

theres this guy who is a friend of a friend and he asked for my number from our mutual friend who gave it to him without my consent,however he started texting and calling me we got to know eachother and hes an okay guy...after about a few weeks i started kinda liking him and flirting with him a little bit to which her responded (strictly verbally of course)the only problem is he has a girlfriend...he keeps saying we should link up but im not sure how he is going to behave or how i will behave or how i should behave!...also im not really sure were i stand in this friendship/relationship or watever it is but i dont want to ask him right out because im really insecure and afraid of rejection, i also think that in the back of my mind i could jus b exaggerating the whole situation and jus hoping that he likes me too...pls help i think i might b crazy in love lol ...Diamond

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A female reader, Faders_Girl United Kingdom +, writes (26 December 2005):

Faders_Girl agony auntSeems like this bloke wants his cake and eat it too. (old saying sorry lol) seriously though, im gonna say the same thing as Virginiaac said, if he is willing to cheat on his girlfriend with you, that shows he has no respect for her, and IF you 2 ever get together, whats saying he wont do it to you in the future?? think about what he is doing even though he has a g/f. i personally wouldnt want to be with someone knowing that he cheated on his prvious g/f with me. i would never trust him. if he can do it to her, he can do it to you.

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A female reader, Virginiaac +, writes (22 December 2005):

Diamond, ask the guy about his girlfriend. If he treats her with such little respect then he won't care about you in the future. A good way to judge anyone is to see how they treat others.

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