How can I get confidence to accept me as I am?
Q. I met this boy on msn through one of my friends and I think he is absoloutely amazing. We've met up a couple of times and I swear I have fallen in love. It seems silly that someone could actually fall in love with someone i've only known for about 2 ...
A. 9 April 2010: A guy has to like you the way you are and if not its his loss
you should never care a LOT about your looks because looks doesnt always matter.
if he says he likes you maybe he means it, but stay on your guards because you barely know him,and ... (read in full...)
B/f accused me of saying he's a player and now doesn't want to see me!
Q. I am a bit confused and need some advice. I am in along distance exclusive relationship. I was talking to my boyfriend during the day .he stated he was just going to go home from work and clean up the house a little. Later that nite i texted him ...
A. 9 April 2010: try calling him for example or let your friends ask him some questions indirectly ok?
maybe he is up to no good maybe those questions are bothering him who knows, just be patient im sure he wouldnt do such a thing.
good luck xx... (read in full...)
What physical attributes do you like in a man?
Q. What physical attributes (body parts) do you like in a man? Ladies, here is a question which I hope you take your time in answering. I bet you Women hear that most guys love a women's "butt" or Breasts" or even "Height"...so now its your turn....
A. 23 March 2010: Well if they have abs, straight back, arms, smile, and sweet and fun to be around hes perfect, but i dont think looks matter a lot :)... (read in full...)
Could there be something going on between us?
Q. This week my friend/crush has actually acted like he cares about me. I failed something and he said he was sorry. He even texted me more than usual this week I don’t know why he would. Today I’m hanging out over my friends and his cousin (my best ...
A. 20 March 2010: Well like your best friend said he needs some time, dont push it too far, dont get close to him a lot he might be annoyed sooner or later, who knows, try to talk to him normally but dont push it, not too much physical contact, but you can make him ... (read in full...)
I'm trying to keep my virginity but my 19 year old boyfriend really wants sex!
Q. Im a young teenager trying to keep my virginity, although my boyfriend respects my decision but it kills him, im 15 and his 19,what should i do becouse i really love him ...
A. 17 March 2010: Well my opinion , if you want to keep your virginity he has to respect that, and by that you can do anything exept sex, maybe that would be enough for him ?
Try :)
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He's ignoring me a bit so should I just stop trying to communicate with this guy?
Q. There's a guy in the USAF who have been friend of mine for 3 years now. We have always been keeping in touch since we met in person. He had said he enjoys our friendship and communications and that it's good when he hears from me. Well, he's in ...
A. 13 March 2010: Well maybe he does have a crazy schedule .
And who knows, maybe hes not avoiding you maybe someone else.
Yeah dont talk to him im sure he will miss you.
try to avoid him like he does. if he asks u why ur avoiding him tell him that u were busy go... (read in full...)
He is threatening me because I won't have sex with him.
Q. My friend hooked me up with her ex *joe and we have been going out for two weeks now. he is 15 and im 14. he already said he loves me and i fell for it.now all he ever wants to talk about is sex.i thought i wanted it but now im not so sure. he is ...
A. 10 March 2010: Go tell your parents what hes doing so that they will keep an eye on you for some time and tell your friends to stay closer to you.
And tell him its over.
Im your age. i had the same problem.
my boyfriend was even worse than that but i never actu... (read in full...)
Do I tell his girlfriend he is flirting with me?
Q. I have a guy friend who has been in a relationship with his girlfriend for over a year. He claims to love her, but quite often he acts in a really innappropiate way around me, and sometimes other girls, that suggests he doesn't. For example, last ...
A. 10 March 2010: Well in my opinion you should go and tell her what is happening because if the guy who took a picture of you and puts it n fb she might go and make a big deal out of it.
Go tell her the truth maybe she would trust you who knows.
and even if she d... (read in full...)
All I want is to be his friend again... help!
Q. well its a long story lol.. i met this guy, lives kinda far but thats not the problem.. he stayed overnight at my house an we partied had fun but after he went back home he never spoke to me again.. he told my friend he hates me.. an that im gross...
A. 8 March 2010: Ok...
now look at what you should do.
just try to remember what happened at the party that time.
and if you know where he lives just try to go at his house and talk to him i dont think he wouldnt accept the fact that you went a long way just to ... (read in full...)
Girlfriend nervous with anything sexual.
Q. I am 14 and my girl is 13 and she is scared to even look at me when i take my shirt off and we have only kissed but she is nerves about sex what do i do? ...
A. 6 March 2010: SHE'S 13 FOR GOD SAKE ITS SO NORMAL.
I'M 14 and its normal to think like this but about the shirt its okay she might be a little shy give her her privacy.... (read in full...)
We had sex and promised not to tell anybody but he told his friend ........
Q. So I have a problem, I'm 14 and and my bf is 16. We had sex and k kind of regret doing it. We agreed and promised eachother that we wouldn't tell anyone that we had sex cause I didn't want to get called and slut and stuff. I found out today that he ...
A. 4 March 2010: Well this is a big problem here i agree.
Im your age and situations like this can happen. you have to tell your bf what you think . ask him why did he tell his friend when he shouldn't have. tell him that the whole school knows about it.
you h... (read in full...)
Guy has his attention on me, does this mean that he is interested?
Q. There's a guy at my dance school, he's my partner for a few dances. I'm pretty new to the school, only been there a month and a bit, and I quite like this guy. We're partners for some rather intimate dances, and I'm confused as to whether he likes ...
A. 4 March 2010: well if you think that he likes you and that u like him well you should know him more. try to go out as friends for a couple of time.... just to make sure, and try to become more closer to each other and then you can make sure. if he asks you out ... (read in full...)
Is it possible I am pregnant? We were very cautious so I don't see how this could happen!
Q. I had sex on the 20th of Feb, and we used protection of course, and i even checked if there were any holes in it by filling it with water. my period is due real soon and yesterday i felt like i had it all day but i didnt, and today ive been getting ...
A. 3 March 2010: No dont worry your not pregnant.
If he didnt get anywhere near you then your safe.
and about the weight dont over react its normal whenever you have your period you gain weight and then you loose them i have this all the time dont worry your fin... (read in full...)
He doesn't notice me, but I like him
Q. Hi, Here is my "problem", I like a guy who is 17 nearly 18, i am 15. He doesn't really speak to me much, but my friend knows him well. I have access to his face book and i have tried to engage in a conversation with him on there. That hasn't w...
A. 28 February 2010: surely you have to know that some guy of his age wont care a lot about girls younger than them.
well im 14 and i know what to do in these cases, the people would invent an excuse for not talking to you on fb or anything but face to face i think they... (read in full...)
My girlfriend accused me of cheating while she went off to a club with another man
Q. I was late to meet my girl. I fell asleep on the recliner, as it happens. She was convinced I was off with some other woman. No lie. I talked her down from that for over 2 hours or so of patient painstaking work, then she revealed something to ...
A. 28 February 2010: well i would wait and see,
it depends how she treats you.
if you think that she treats another guy better than you then there is something going on right there, if you think that she is lying you have to have some proof in your hands and that wil... (read in full...)
Guilt about having sex with my girlfriend.
Q. hello, I am above 20. all of my friends enjoy sex with their girlfriends but I fear that I will feel guilty doing so so I dont have sex with girlfriend and feel annoyed for that...Friends dont feel any guilt and live happily and I feel like ...
A. 21 February 2010: Well tis is something you should think of.
You dont have to do like your friends want to do. dont imitate them this is about you and her only.
And sex is not the only way to express your feelings ans its not about fun. its about choosing the righ... (read in full...)
I think he is about to propose and I find I am doubting my long term love for him
Q. I've been with my boyfriend for nearly 6 years and lately have been having serious doubts and wondering if I should break up with him. We have had problems in the past due to his dishonesty and he has betrayed my trust and hurt me deeply several ...
A. 21 February 2010: Well what you should do is ask yourself all the question that u have in your head.
answer them. maybe the feelings for him are still there but u are suspecting things because the arguments and the fights are not here anymore.
but you know maybe he... (read in full...)
This man makes me feel useless! Help!
Q. Ok so this is kinda long winded so bear with me on this. Bout 2wks I put a post on this site az iv been with my boyfriend 7yr living with him for 5yr just got engaged this xmas eve just gone. We have our arguments problems etc just like all ...
A. 20 February 2010: well there are a lot of people just like him dont be surprised my brother is the same as him but you have to tell him everything you think. from your heart tell him how you feel about him and how you were feeling for the last couple of ... (read in full...)
My bf mistreats me..should I take my son and leave him?
Q. (Mod note: Poster, we combined your 2 postings as they were both of the same content and topic area) 1) ok well i have a boyfrind ive been with for about six months when we first got together we were so in love. my first husband commited suicide ...
A. 20 February 2010: ok this is just f'ing wrong. Wo does eh think he is? you have all the right to cry at your husbands funeral and plus it's none of his business to tell you to eat breakfast or not !! I know this is hard for you and i want you to do something.. Loo... (read in full...)
The boy I love has to have an operation with only a 50% chance of survival, have I just said goodbye to him forever?
Q. I`ve been a bit upset and worried, the boy i love has to have an operation on his head and the doctors said that there is a 50% chance he will live and a 50% chance he will die. He is beginning to say goodbye to me and he asked me to marry him. He ...
A. 25 January 2010: The doctor said 50% so that is a good chance of living
Never give up ! always focus on the positive always stay strong :)
Be there for him and before the surgery say goodbye...
If he makes it then that would be AMAZING
If he doesn't just thi... (read in full...)
Am I over reacting or is the age different too great?
Q. ok...well i just started talking to this guy and hes so sweet and i feel like we have been connecting but then i realized hes 27 and im 19. is there too much of an age difference or am i just overreacting? please help...just say its fine or i ...
A. 25 January 2010: I think its fine... Its not age that counts its your feelings... (read in full...)
What should I get my boyfriend for valentines day? I want it to be special.
Q. i'm 15 years old, 9th grade and this will be the first valentines day with my boyfriend. we're really serious and he means the world to me, but i'm not sure what to get him or do for him for valentines day. we haven't had sex, but we've done ...
A. 25 January 2010: Well iv'e done something for my boyfriend once.
You could ask one of his friends to take him out..
So that you could decorate his room with heats and ballons, and even a letter.
Get some decorations for his wall..written on it I LOVE YOU
Get him... (read in full...)
How do I make her see that I can be more that just her best friend?
Q. well im at my wits end.. I just don't know what to do I feel so blind and like I'm on a dark road that I cant see whats in front of me. I shall startfrom the start you see I moved into a house and a girl moved in with me (shes japanese) and well...
A. 25 January 2010: Well i'm just like you .
I to love my best friend...
But look... You were together and she still loves her ex.
Well why don't you try and explain to her YOURSELF that HE doesn't like her anymore and that YOUR always going to be by her side because... (read in full...)
I never want to kiss my hubby anymore, could this be because of the pills?
Q. Hi guyz,i hav a problem;since i got married(3 months ago),my urge 4 kissing has completely gone,i never want 2 kiss my hubby anymore for no aparent reason.am confused since before we got maried i used 2 love his kisses.could it be the contraceptives ...
A. 25 January 2010: Well if you think that this is what affecting it you should stop for a while... if there is no change i guess its just you..... (read in full...)
She's four months pregnant and I'm not the father...should I break up with her before things get any farther, or just support her?
Q. I'm a senior in high school, and recently started seeing this amazing girl, who's my age. She seems perfect for me-smart, funny, and really sweet. We get along great. The only problem is that's she's about four months pregnant. The father is her ...
A. 24 January 2010: Well if if you want you can still support her but dont get too close to her you know as if your not really going out if you dont want pople to assume that your the dad.
If you ;love her that much you have to support her but just dont get too clos... (read in full...)
How do I ask for a date without looking stupid?
Q. hi everyone, i would consider myself as a very attractive young looking slim and intelligent,i aint no dolly bird and am very down to earth. i get asked out all of the time, some are very good looking but alot younger than me, i dont want a toyboy, ...
A. 24 January 2010: Ok i can help you on this
What you should do is to listen to your heart.
If you care about the age than this is something else.
But im telling you that 1 year of difference or 2 is not that important. Its how you feel that's important. I... (read in full...)
She's getting closer to this other guy! How can I get her back?
Q. My ex-gf and I broke up January of last year after two years together. Since then, she's gotten a lot closer to her best friend... who's a guy. And I know he's all for it, too, because I know he's liked her since way before I came along. The dude ...
A. 24 January 2010: Umm ok lets start...
First of all when girls have a boy as a best friend there are 50% chances that she likes him. It depends on the girl who your crushing on. You've been dating for 2 years.. you should be more confident you should trust her beca... (read in full...)
We have been dating over a year, I suspect he is gay, what do you think?
Q. Is it weird if your boyfriend doesn't initiate kissing? My boyfriend of over a year doesn't initiate kissing, but when I initiate it, he says he enjoys it but he thought he wasn't any good at it. Also, in the internet history of my computer...
A. 24 January 2010: Maybe its because he is thinking that he is gay.
Or maybe is is acting like it and asks you if you would stay friends.
Well... You should go and tell him everything that you think whether its good or bad you have to tell him because if you want to ... (read in full...)
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